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HELEN G. MATE Helen G. Mate, age 83, born and raised in Oakdale, California, passed away on November 10, 2010. She was a full time mother, who, along with her husband Phillip, worked very hard to care for and raise the Mates. Although her greatest passion in life was always family, she loved to read from her huge collection of books and enjoyed hours sketching with pencil and ink. The most memorable jobs outside the home were her two years as an Oakdale Police Department transportation matron for female prisoners, and as a Spanish interpreter for Judge Verne Sawyer. She also provided janitorial services for several years to locally owned businesses. Our mother was greatly admired and loved by her family and long-time friends. The family especially thanks her caregivers at Oak Valley Care Center and her physician. Helen was preceded in death by her husband of 43 years, Phillip G. Mate, and her son, Anthony D. Mate, and is survived by her children, Mike (Kathy) of Texas, Ronnie, Sr. of Oakdale, Manny of Oakdale, Phyllis of Oakdale, Frankie of Iowa, Paulette (Chris) of Oregon, and her daughters-in-law, Diane of Waterford and Kathy of Patterson, also surviving are her grandchildren Jeff Michelle, Frankie, Michael, Lacey, Sabrina, Ronnie, Austin, Julie, Ryan, Thomas, Anthony, Jr., Jason, Sally, Derek, along with 20 great grandchildren and numerous nieces and nephews. She was preceded in death by her mother and father, Pablo and Michaela Garcia, brothers David and Elmo, sisters Jenny, Refie, Rosie, Connie, and survived by her brothers Paul, Darrell, Adolphe, Willie and sisters Dorothy and Sally. A Rosary will be held at 6:00 p.m. with visitation from 4:00-8:00 p.m. on Thursday, November 18, 2010, at Oakdale Memorial Chapel. A Mass will be held at St. Mary's Catholic Church on Friday, November 19, 2010, at 10.00 a.m., followed by one last drive by the house she so loved at 805 East G Street, before being laid to rest at Oakdale Citizens Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, remembrances may be sent to your favorite charity. www.modbee.com/obituaries

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Published by Modesto Bee from Nov. 15 to Nov. 16, 2010.

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Shauna Higgins

November 17, 2010

I have so many fond memories of Mrs. Mate she was a very special woman a wonderful Mother, Grandmother and friend. My prayers and thoughts go to the family, she will be missed.

Shauna Higgins

November 17, 2010

I have so many fond memories of Mrs. Mate she was a very special woman a wonderful Mother, Grandmother and friend. My prayers and thoughts go to the family, she will be missed.

Sallie

November 17, 2010

Aunt Helen, Your sister Sallie ( my mom ) is very sadden and heartbroken by your passing. I am writing this for her to you.---I will miss you and I will always remember the fun times we had laughing and joking and just being sisters. I wish we could of had more time together. I will always miss you and I always love you.
Sallie.

November 16, 2010

Grandma, aka PaPa Mate, you will always be in my heart, I miss you deeply, and I love you so much it hurts. I will always remember our times in the kitchen cooking and listening to your country music waiting for Grandpa to come home so we could eat! I love you Grandma, I miss you XXXOOOX Michelle

Ivory

November 16, 2010

My thoughts and Prayers go out to all the family. My God bless you all.

Belinda Dack

November 15, 2010

I,m so sorry to read of Helen passing , she was loved so much, i have such great memories of her, she was such a beautiful woman. Her smile will shine bright throughout heaven.
love and prayers , Belinda Dack

dorothy & tracy brumley& kennedy

November 15, 2010

we will miss you & we love you aunt helen & sister helen.our thoughts are with you all.god bless you all.
love dorothy brumley & tracy kennedy of waterford

November 15, 2010

Aunt Helen, My heart is heavy and it gets heavier. You are and always will be a wonderful aunt. I love you and I will miss you. Pootsie,Frankie,Paulette,Michael,Ronnieand Manny, my love and prayers are with you.
Kathi ( GooGoo )

Marion & Bob Kolokowsky

November 15, 2010

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

Mike Deabenderfer

November 15, 2010

This candle will be a rememberence for both Helen & Phil as they enjoy their eternal rest. Gods speed Helen.

Margaret Westfall

November 15, 2010

Please accept my condolences and prayers for the loss of your mother.

Your parents were well-respected and loved by the people of Oakdale. Oakdale is all the poorer as the beloved and wise elders of the town pass on.

Eternal rest grant unto her, O Lord, and let perpetual light shine upon her. May the soul of the faithful departed, through the mercy of God, rest in peace.

Mike Deabenderfer

November 15, 2010

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

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