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Felicitas Rangel Sinosky
October 15, 2024
Bob, Maria & family
Remembering you in my prayers as the anniversary of Your beautiful daughter, IIana´s passing on the 19th. May your many memories give you comfort.
Felicitas Rangel Sinosky
Al & Lee Lombardi
October 17, 2011
Bob,Maria, Michelle This is a difficult time for you but remember God will take care of llana.Remember the good times that you had as a family,she is still with you I am sure that you can hear her laughter on a quiet night. love

October 29, 2010

October 29, 2010
patty reynolds
October 29, 2010
Bonanno family; no words can describe our sorrow at hearing the news of our sweet little Ilana. Indeed, she will always be remembered for her laugh, her cheer and the hugs she would bestow upon you. I will always fondly remember her hugs when she was young, daily would come on to the pool deck and wrap her arms around my waist with a big Bonanno hug! Our little Skimmer family has lost too many members this year but we are all bettyer for knowing and experiencing life with our little angels. Our thoughts and prayers are with your family. No words can ease your heartache I'm sure, just know we love you.
Patty & Bryan Reynolds and family
(Kelly, Bryan and Erin)
Tom/Steph/Jenn Catchings
October 26, 2010
Dearest Maria, Bob & Michelle,
We were so sad to hear of the loss of such a beautiful, and loving young lady. I still see Ilana at basketball practices and games. I see her on field trips, graduation day from Holy Rosary, and all the kids at so many events. How can this be...I cannot find any words to help your hearts. We can only pray for her and the family she loved so much. May the Lord comfort you and bless you all always. Her beautiful smile and kind heart will forever be remembered. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
With Love,
Tom, Stephanie, and Jenn Catchings
Susan Shivers
October 26, 2010
Maria,Bob&Michelle my heat goes out to your family.I first met Ilana when she was six years old at Mervyn's she would follow me arond the store and some times eat with me in the break room.Ilana was a charmer she stole my heart,she called me her (Buddy)Ilana I will be your (Buddy) forever!
Anthony Ramsey
October 25, 2010
Ilana was and to me still is an amazing young woman whom inspired meto want more out of life and blessed me with her infectious smile and laugh which was only matched ny the incredibly large heart she posessed!She will truly be missed in the bar she called home on Thursday & Satuarday nights for some down south good ol' electric music! I hope somehow you can find some peace and solice in knowing the countless lives she has touched and are now so much better because of it. She will always be in my mind and has a place in my heart! I remember the first night my Aunt, Karen Ramsey, who worked alongside Ilana at Perkins, came in with ur daughter/sister, it was plutonic love at first site. I will miss every hug hello and goodbye every evening! Deepest Sympathy, Anthony Ramsey & her extended Cantab Family!
Octavio/Ruthie Gonzalez
October 24, 2010
Bonanno Family, our prayers are with you. It was sad to hear of your loss of your daughter, sister. Our memories of IIana back in Holy Rosary School years will always remember her smile. Gob bless you.
Octavio & Ruthie OJ (Octavio) and Olivia Gonzalez
October 23, 2010
Dear Bob,maria & Michelle, there is nothing that I can say to you that will ease the pain that you are feeling today,tomorrow and forever.I saw Ilana grow into a beautiful and happy adult, my life is richer for this .Al will always be Papa Al to ilana.
May your soul rest in peace
Love you Bonanno family. Lee & Papa Al
Anita Garcia
October 23, 2010
Bob and Maria, My prayers are with your family at this time.
Anita Garcia, TMS
Samantha Canha
October 22, 2010
Ilana, I still can't believe that you are actually gone. I love you so much. Looking at your pictures hurts. The last time I talked to you we were trying to figure out when we would be able to come up to see you for the holidays. I promise I will never forget you, you are such an incredible person. I'm so sorry for your familys loss. Love you forever!!
Keri Bower
October 22, 2010
Ilana, I love you so much it hurts inside. Your Cantab family loves you and is going out in your memory on Sunday night. To Ilana's family, I would just like to say, she touched so many lives back east and she will be missed by all that love her.
Sincerely Keri Bower
Niki D'Amore
October 22, 2010
Dear Maria, Bob, and Michelle, I love you all so much. You are my extended family and I will miss my sister Ilana with all my heart and soul. She was an amazing, kind hearted, loving, generous, and beautiful young woman. I think what I will miss most about her is her smile. It could light up any room. I wish I could be there to give you all a hug. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
October 22, 2010
Dear Maria, Bob and Michelle, Bob and Michell you probably do not remember me . I am Chryssi Kocolas's sister. Your mother has been a dear friend of our family from the time we were little .Our prayers are with you at this most difficult time in your lives. God is good and life is eternal. We love you and will continue to pray for you and your family. May Ilana's memory be eternal. Love, Georgia, Steve Katsanevas and Family
Samantha Gusky
October 22, 2010
I went to DV with Ilana and though I do not know her as well as others I did know this: she was wonderful, she had the brightest smile that lights up the room, she was always happy and made others happy, she was nice to everyone no matter who they were. She has given us all this and now through her passing she has given us one more thing, the love we all have for each other and how we have all come together in this time and remember all the good and treasure this, it puts it into perspective for us that time is short so make the most and enjoy it, I know this has certainly changed me for the better. She will always be loved, always be remembered, but NEVER forgotten. My prayers are there for the family she left behind we love you Ilana and that will never change
Pierre Vedel
October 21, 2010
Dear Bob, Maria and Michelle,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and the family.
Diana and Pierre Vedel
Ella Velthoen
October 21, 2010
Bob, Maria, and Michelle, our hearts are aching with the loss of your daughter and sister, she was filled with life and joy, she would smile and make you smile in return. Each day will be a struggle, but lean on each other and you will get through this. God bless your family and know that we love you so very much and hurt as well.
Stelios Zervos
October 21, 2010
Maria, Bob & Michelle I really can't handle these situations. Maria my heart goes out to you and your family. May +GOD rest her soul. I send my LOVE !!
Jenny Lezer
October 21, 2010
My prays and thoughts are with everyone and her family, I went to DV with ILana and all i remeber of her is she was always so happy and nice to everyone. She will be missed by everyone. With Love Jenny
Lydia Maylott
October 21, 2010
She will forever be missed.... RIP Ilana...
George, Stella, Dimitri, and Yianni Brokalakis
October 21, 2010
Maria, Bob, and Michelle,
May God Rest Her Soul...
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
april webber
October 21, 2010
My heart is filled with sorrow to hear of the passing of Ilana. I have not seen Michelle or Ilana in many years but i remember them both vividly from my days working at Serendipity (the before and after school program at Holy Rosary school). Most young kids hide behind their parents when you first meet them, but not Ilana she greeted me with a huge hug the very first time we met and then everyday after. She was always smiling, always happy and always prepared to greet you with a hug! It has been many years but after reading the other posts it appears as if her warm, loving and outgoing nature only grew. I feel blessed to have known her. Bonanno family, my thoughts and prayers are with you during this very difficult time.
April Contaxis Webber
"miss april"
mariko panzella
October 21, 2010
my heart goes out to the bonanno family. ilana was the nicest most sweet person i ever knew who truly had a heart of gold. she will be greatly missed.
Heather Uttley
October 21, 2010
What a beautiful tribute to Ilana - truly capturing the essence of her bright, fun-loving spirit. My heart is so heavy sharing your grief. Praying for peace and comfort for you in days ahead.
Steven Rothstein
October 21, 2010
All of us at Perkins School for the Blind are profoundly sad for this loss. The staff and students will miss Ilana and always remember the important impact she had.
Our thoughts and prayers are with your entire family at this difficult time
Steven Rothstein
President
Perkins School for the Blind
Debbie Nieman
October 21, 2010
I cannot know your pain. Know though that your sweet Ilana is watching over us. God chose her to take home so soon because he has great plans for her. She will be forever in our hearts.
Maria Leles
October 21, 2010
My heart is heavy for the loss of your daughter, sister, neice, cousin, and friend. May God watch over all of you. Know that Ilana is watching over all of you with her beautiful smile. May her memory be eternal and may you all find peace during this difficult time.
October 21, 2010
Maria, Bob and Michelle,
Words are not enough to express my deepest symphany and sorrow over the loss of Ilana, I was just working with her at the GFF and what a delightful and uplifting young lady. Maria, your love for her was shinning. May God wrap your family in His loving arms and comfort you all during this time. May her memory be eternal.
Blessings, Mary Gavrilis, Modesto, Ca.
Lilith Lerma
October 21, 2010
Ilana is someone I ahve always described as my soul mate. She got me, and I got her. She helped me through some hard times, and was always there for me. I hate that I could not be there for her when she needed me, this world has lost such a bright amazin light and I will miss her and celebrate her forever. Than you Mr and Mrs Bonanno for giving me the chance to make such an amazing friend.
Mike Elias
October 21, 2010
I don't have words to express how truly sad I am to hear of Ilana's passing. I only found out but moments ago. And I must say, its hit me like a train. She gave the best hugs. In fact the first time I met her, I was greeted with a hug. It felt like home, safe, happy, full of joy. So when I read her obituary, its added affirmation as to how true of a soul she was, because everyone wanted a piece of the happiness she carried with her. There was solace to be found in her friendly embrace. I will never forget her! I love you Ilana! May your soul be as free as it was when you were earthbound my friend....
Love, your buddy,
Mike Elias
Alexander Capous
October 21, 2010
I honestly beleive that Ilana is the perfect example of the truth.Faith Hope and Love, but the greatest is Love. Thank you for sharing so much love with us and our family. Your laughter and smiles will be missed but your love will grow forever. You have planted a seed in so many hearts that the world did become a better place because of you. Eternal be her memory and Eternal be her love.
Olivia Malekos
October 21, 2010
Maria and family, a truly special person has left us. As long as she is in your heart, she is not gone.
Eternal be her memory.
October 21, 2010
Dear Maria, Bob and Michelle we were so sorry and saddened to hear of your loss of Illana. Though we have not seen her in many years I remember her smiling face and determined personality.May you all find peace during this time of sorrow.
John, Tricia and Adam LaCoste
Jessica Pahule
October 21, 2010
My heart goes out to The Bonanno family..aswell as every person who was every blessed to meet such an amazing young woman such as Ilana...I will never forget her laugh and kind words and hope that more of this world was more like herself
October 21, 2010
Bob Maria and Michele
Again, words just can't express how I feel I just don't know what to say I love your family from meeting you at Mervyns to our swimming days with the skimmers or just coming to your house I will always have memories of Ilana and the Bonanno family. I'll think of you through the next two days and forevevr. I love you always
Dan,Debbie & Adam Belter
Colette Culpepper
October 21, 2010
Ilana impacted the lives of many and my condolences to the family. She was a beautful person not only on the outside but the inside as well. She will never be forgotten!
Felicitas Sinosky
October 21, 2010
Bob and family - I was sadden to read of the passing of your daughter, Ilana. You're all in my thoughts and prayers.
Felicitas Rangel Sinosky
Rio Vista, CA
Mary Beeching
October 21, 2010
Ilana was the greatest, most beautiful woman I have ever had in my life. I am truely blessed to have had her as a friend for 9 years. She filled all of us with joy and laughter. There was never a bad time shared with Ilana. I will never forget her, and there will never be a time when thoughts of her do not make me smile. I love her more than words can describe. Rest in peace our beautiful angel, and thank you Bob and Maria for sharing such a beautiful person with all of us. My love is with you always.
October 21, 2010
Dear Bonanno Family,
I am a Teacher at Perkins School for the Blind, and Ilana worked with my students in the evening program. To say she was amazing, is an understatement! Her infectious smile entered the classroom ahead of her, and with it, she spread joy, happiness and compassion everywhere she went. I LOVED working with her and was grateful for the skill and caring she brought to her students. She was kind
and funny and lovely! I will miss her so much, and hope you are able to find solace in the life she lived. Dear Ilana,
travel light and fast, and dwell in the company of angels!
Hugs to all her family, Love, Meredith Whitten
Aliki Alexander
October 21, 2010
Ilana's Memory will Be Forever Eternal !!
Courtney Shane
October 21, 2010
She was truly one of a kind. This was perfectly written since it is so hard to sum up how truly amazing this girl really is. My heart and prayers go out to Ilana and her family. I am one of those people she collected over the years and who was effortlessly charmed by her infectious being. I love you Ilana and I honestly don't know anyone else who was as truly loved by everyone they came in contact with as you were. God Bless you, we will meet again one day my friend.
-Courtney

Savannah Kolb
October 21, 2010
Ilana was my best friend and my sister I loved her more than I can express in words. She was the best person I have ever met.
Mooie, Mr B and Michelle I love you guys so much I am so sorry that you have to go through this. I will always love and miss her. Thank you for allowing me to be part of your family. So many people loved her I was just one of the lucky ones. I love you
Stella , Harry Pappas
October 21, 2010
To the Bonanno famiy,
Words cannot express our deep sorrow at hearing of your loss of Ilana. May all the good memories sustain you. You had her for 23 years and now she is surely with the angels. Our prayers are with you.
Stella & Harry Pappas and family
Krista Nieman
October 21, 2010
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family always! We will miss you so much Ilana and know that we love you so much! You were a good friend to have and I will always cherish those times together! Love you all lots!
Mishelle Bickham
October 21, 2010
My thoughts, love and prayers to your family and friends. You will be deeply missed.
Kelli Hover
October 21, 2010
I am so sorry for your loss, Bonanno family, Ilana touched many hearts and always had a smile on her face. she will be forever remembered and missed greatly.
Heather Cooley
October 21, 2010
Ilana you will forever be remembered by all who ever met you. You touched the lives of so many! You will be forever in my heart!
Alicia (Wood) Martin
October 21, 2010
I am so sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you. May He bring you comfort, peace, and hearts full of joyful memories.
October 21, 2010
Our love to your and your extended family. This is sadness beyond comprehension. Ilana will be remembered forever. Love from Missi, Mike, and Michael Jaye Pompoco
Christie Zagaris-David
October 21, 2010
You will be forever in our hearts. May peace be with you and your family
Tisha Hughes
October 21, 2010
IIana, You are truly missed. I already miss your bright sunshiny smile at 5:00am with my Starbucks coffee in one hand and my oatmeal in another. We are all shocked by this. Rest in peace dear friend. May the Lord comfort your family during this very difficult time.
Mary Lynne Peck
October 21, 2010
Maria, Bob and Michelle, may the love of friends and family surround you now and always. Your beautiful girl will forever be remembered by all who were touched by her love and kindness.
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