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Rick Ahlborn
September 27, 2022
My twin brother. He is greatly missed, even his blond jokes..... He was always there with me and for me.. Fun loving, crazy guy. He talked me into joining the CHP and that changed my life. Sadly he never to to see his granddaughter, he would have loved to be a grandfather. I miss him. Rick
Shirley Ahlborn-DeCaen
October 6, 2010
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
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Nick Verhoek
October 6, 2010
I worked with Jim in the Hayward CHP Area. A wonderful person with a great work ethic. My condolences to the Ahlborn family. Rest in Peace, Jim
Rick Ahlborn
October 5, 2010
I wish to thank evryone who has fond memories of my brother and has taken a minute to say kind things about him. His wit and sense of humor and even the old jokes will be missed by us all. The holidays will not be the same without him and my mother who just passed this last November. It has been a rought year for the family. Again I wish to thank you.
Ray Golden
October 5, 2010
I worked with Jim at the Hayward CHP Office and remember him as one of the "good guys'. My condolances to his family. I am sorry to hear of his untimely passing.
Katherine Johnson
October 4, 2010
Sorry about your dad Brian & Jen....wish I was there to give you both a big Hug...my prayers are with you both...
October 4, 2010
I worked with Jim at the CHP office, can't remember if it was the San Leandro or the Hayward office and saddened to read of his passing. My condolences to his family.
Phil Hazelwood Roseville, Ca.
Ted/Luanne Melden
October 4, 2010
We will miss the conversations with Jim at gatherings. He was always free with his opinions around us and we appreciated it. Rest in peace. Ted and Luanne
Jenni Johnson
October 3, 2010
Brian And I will miss our Dad so much.He was a Fun ,Loving,Caring Dad who enriched mine and Brian's life.Thank You,Dad for all you have done for us. We will miss all of The Fun times you gave us.Love,Jenni and Brian
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