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Margaret Coito Obituary

MARGARET JEAN COITO MAR 8, 1940 - OCT 31, 2010 Margaret Jean Coito was born on March 8th, 1940 in Los Banos, California to Mathew and Amelia Travao. Margaret was released into the hands of God on October 31st, 2010. Margaret grew up in Gustine, CA, and later moved with her parents to Modesto. She attended Modesto High School where, at a Modesto High football game, she met the love of her life at the age of 15, Albert J. Coito, Sr. On November 10th, 1956, at the age of 16, she and Albert eloped, were married in Reno, Nevada and began their happy life together. Margaret worked as a bus driver for Storer Transportation and as a Teacher's Aide at Paradise Elementary school for 20 years where her caring and loving heart touched many, many children. Margaret was extremely creative and enjoyed painting, sewing, refinishing furniture, gardening, cooking and baking, She enjoyed reading especially Old West Stories, History, doing word searches, taking care of her numerous animals, traveling with her family and going on road trips, and listening to country music, Johnny Cash a favorite of hers. She also enjoyed playing Keno, Bingo and watching her husband Albert win at playing the slot machines. Margaret had a strong faith and projected that love and the love of the Lady of Miracles in her life. Her greatest joy was taking care of her family, children and grandchildren. She had a special way of comforting her grandchildren that only a grandmother like her could do. She always saw the joy in life and worked hard to make her family and the people around her happy. The memories that she created for her children, grandchildren and the people around her will he lasting and continue beyond her departure through those whose lives she has touched Margaret is survived by her loving husband of 54 years, Albert; sons Joseph A. Coito Sr., and Albert J. Coito Jr., daughter Bernadette Epperson, and her grandchildren Amelia Elaine Epperson, Aaron Jay Epperson, Sara Katelyn Coito, Albert J. Coito, III, Joseph A. Coito, Jr., Alex Gregory Jones and Jeffrey Wayne Jones, all of whom she loved so dearly. She is also survived by three brothers and three sisters and many nieces and nephews. Margaret was preceded in death by her parents, Mathew and Amelia Travao, her sister Irma Macedo, and her brother Mathew Travao. A rosary and mass will be held Thursday, November 4th, at 1:00 p.m. at the old St. Stanislaus Church, 'J' Street. The family would prefer, in lieu of flowers, charitable donations be made to Community Hospice, 4368 Spyres Way, Modesto, CA 95356, SPCA of Stanislaus, 4733 Yosemite Blvd., Modesto, CA or St. Jude Children's Hospital, P.O. Box 1000 Dept 142, Memphis, TN. 39148 (contribution acct. 15507438). www.modbee.com/obituaries

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Published by Modesto Bee from Nov. 3 to Nov. 4, 2010.

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Melissa Johnson

November 4, 2010

I was sadden greatly to hear of the passing of a wonderful lady. I wish the family well and to be strong. She would have wanted us all to celebrate and remember her for her kind nature. I have many special memories of Margaret. I will cherish even more, a ornament she made me one Christmas, many years ago. It hangs on my tree every year. God bless all of you. Sincerely,
Melissa (Autrand) Johnson

November 4, 2010

"She'll always be rememb. loving thoughts & memories, I remember her warm & caring smile when I'd get on her bus while I was a student @ Paradise School.She would generously share her house for Xmas Parties for us Chatechism Kids of St. Stanislaus.
thought & prayers for her, her family, & those who will miss her."
Yolanda Madrigal Bastian (Modesto, CA)

Traci Gifford

November 4, 2010

She knew how to make us kids feel special and unique. My thoughts and prayers to her family.

Marcia (Autrand )Kram

November 4, 2010

Words can't express how I felt when I heard about Margaret's passing. I worked with Margaret at Paradise School. She was my friend at work and away from work. Good times were spent with her and her family. My prayer is that you find comfort, like I that the brightness of a life well-lived continues to shine.

Terri Culberson (Lawrence)

November 3, 2010

Coito family I'm just so shocked she is gone she was such a great person and she drove my Boys to school every day and was such a good teacher assistant. She is really going to be missed. Our prayers are with you all at this very sad time. God bless all of you.

Dennis Conrad

November 3, 2010

Margaret was a vital part of the Paradise School that I knew and loved. I will never forget her help on the 8th grade trips that we made to Monterey. Her cooking spoiled us and her personal friendship and encouragement was always a blessing.

Inez Rex

November 3, 2010

What a special person I remember being there when I was growing up. Her smile and thoughtful advise always made me feel better. I know you're in a better place in heaven.

DeeAnna Jackson

November 3, 2010

My prayers are with you all.

November 3, 2010

I'm very sorry to the family for your loss she will be missed by so many.She was great I loved when she hit the hill on my road we would all go flying out of our seats it made our day we loved her. God bless.

Tina Kennedy Carrillo

November 3, 2010

I'm so sorry to hear this and my prayers go out to her family. She was a wonderful lady. I remember her smile everyday when I got on the bus. K - 8. Paradise School had alot of memories for me. she well be missed.

Susan McGrath-Aguirre

November 3, 2010

My prayers go out to her family. I have often thought about Mrs. Coito through the years and have many great memories of her. Like her coming over to our house in the middle of the night to help out while our pig was having her babies and when she let me and my brother and sisters spend the weekend at her home while my parent were out of town. She always had a smile on her face and a warm place in her heart. She will be missed.

November 3, 2010

I'm so sorry to hear about Mrs. Coito. Mrs. Coito was part of my life from kindergarten to the eighth grade at Paradise School. Mrs Coito was my bus driver too. She was part of my life at church and in 4-H. Mrs. Coito will be missed.
To the family, you are in my thoughts & prayers.

Michelle Adams (Autrand)

Dave Etcheverry

November 3, 2010

I am sorry for your loss. She was a fantastic woman. Her legacy will live on through her fine children. Albert, I will continue to pray for you and for the repose of Margarets sole. You are truly blessed to have the true love of such a fine person.

Henry Azevedo

November 3, 2010

I am sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you Albert and your family.

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