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Robert Paris Obituary
Sheriff's officials said he and another man were serving eviction papers at an apartment complex when the men were gunned down by someone inside the house.
Paris was 53, a 16-year-veteran of the sheriff's department.
"This is a tragic day for law enforcement and public safety,"" said Sheriff Adam Christianson. ""Deputy Paris paid the ultimate price, sacrificing his life, while protecting and serving the citizens of Stanislaus County.
""Our thoughts and prayers are with Bob's family, the community, our sheriff's family and all the law enforcement personnel from every jurisdiction in the central valley who come to our aid today.""
Deputy Paris is survived by his parents, a sister, a brother and two adult children.
Memories and Condolences
for Robert Paris
1093 Entries
April 12, 2013
Seems like yesterday, we miss you bobby bombay, Dave and Denise
George McCloskey
March 7, 2013
It is an honor to have served in the law enforcement community with Bob as my brother Officer. He is a true hero, who daily put on his uniform to protect those that can not protect themselves.
Bill Combs
October 16, 2012
I found Dep. Paris to be a class guy and overall good person as well as a credit to law enforcement.
Gary Langston
July 1, 2012
I'm sorry I didn't know Deputy Paris however, it's always a sad day when a Law Enforcement Officer is killed in the line of duty. I pray peace over this family In The Name Of Jesus...Amen.
Jlynn
June 9, 2012
May god wrap you in his arms like a mom wraps a child in a blanket full of love warmth and security. My prayers are with your family. Thank you for your dedication and for the lives you have saved. God bless
[email protected] Chase
May 23, 2012
What a pleasure it was to know Bob. I hunted with Bob and also had him do some taxidermy work. He was a tremendous artist and friend. He'll be greatly missed!
Evan Timmons
May 15, 2012
Thank you for all the years of safty / protection, you provided for all of us. You and all of our officers are daily heros! You will be truly missed.
christyal schoen
May 8, 2012
I didnt know him well but he will always be a hero.
Mike Coley
May 5, 2012
I met Bob in Montana where we both worked as hunting guides for Trophies West. Spent a lot of time checking out new country and relaxing with a cold beer at the end of a days guiding with him. He truly loved the outdoors, hunting and fishing. I'm a full time fishing guide so we always had lots to talk about. He was and always will be my friend.
CINDY GARCIA
May 3, 2012
MAY HE REST IN PEACE AND GOD BLESS HIS FAMILY. ONE TRUE HERO......
Michelle Gill
April 27, 2012
Bob, you will be missed. Thank you for your years of dedicated service to the community. You are a true hero. YOu will never be forgotten. I enjoyed your stories about hunting and life when you'd call in to dispatch. Always so sweet. See you in Heaven. Give Mary a big hug for us.
Tara Greichus
April 26, 2012
May you rest in peace
April 26, 2012
We were so sorry to hear of the loss of your loved one. We're sending you a hug from afar.
Luana Whitford
April 25, 2012
Although I have only known Bob for a few years, I feel like he has been a dear friend for many more. Since meeting my coworker and best friend Janelle in 1997, she told the story of an awesome father to their daughter Jami, and supportive friend to her during many difficult days. The first time I met Bob was when my son escorted Jami to her high school formal. I had a difficult time holding back tears as I watched a proud father smile proudly with his only daughter at his side. Janelle was never alone in her many trips to Stanford as Bob was always there to support Jami in her many surgeries, procedures, and appointments. In recent months Bob has been a regular visitor to Janelle's Tracy home. Their many hours spent in the movies, bike rides, weekends at Bob's favorite fishing spots, and a trip to Palm Springs to celebrate a nursing award Janelle had won were testaments their relationship was returning to one they once knew. I will miss these stories. My heart aches for Jami and Janelle, but also for his parents and family who instilled kindness in their son!
martha A
April 24, 2012
Thank you Bob for being a part of Dana, Brannon and Tanner's life. You have been an example to how we all should live our lives.
Claudette Medeiros
April 23, 2012
May eternal light shine upon him ,May he rest is peace.
Lynn Nguyen
April 23, 2012
I hope you rest in peace.
April 23, 2012
My thoughts and prayers are with the Paris Family my neighbors in Tracy Ca.. Bobby will be deeply missed.. Alene Carson
Lyn Nguyen
April 22, 2012
Thank you for all that you have done.
Roger Jones
April 22, 2012
Deepest condolances to the Paris family May You, Rest in Peace Bobby
April 22, 2012
Deepest condolances to the Paris family - i knew Bobby growing up in Tracy - he was a good guy!
April 21, 2012
What a loss to all of us, who depended on his quick response to 911 calls, when he was a paramedic. My mother was one of those he saved ,for a time in Tracy. (1978, Modesto, CA.)
He was a saver of human lives, to bad this wasn't one of them. Minia Bates
April 21, 2012
My prayers are with the Paris family and the Stanislaus County Sheriff's department. RIP Robert.
Rick Erwin
Harrison, Arkansas
Lynne Hardman
April 21, 2012
Thoughts and prayers to the Paris family
rachel n john coddington
April 21, 2012
May You, Rest in Peace. And Lord bless this family and all of his Brotherhood family. Thank You for your Service and Protection.
Sherry Farmer
April 20, 2012
This is so traggic my thoughts and prayers are with you all.
April 20, 2012
RIP Brother until we meet in heaven. I send my Condolences and prayers to the Paris Family.
Victor Mello, CDCR, Oakdale,CA
Victor Mello
April 20, 2012
RIP Brother until we meet in heaven. I send my Condolences and prayers to the Paris Family.
Victor Mello, CDCR, Oakdale,CA
Norm & Cindi Cashen
April 20, 2012
I met Bob in the academy, we both got along great from the start. One day as we stood in formation, word came that the director had collapsed in the gym, Bob didn't hesitate, he ran to help, our two instructors looked surprised, Bob didn't ask permission to leave, he didn't need to, he knew what to do, and he did it. That told me all I needed to know about Bob; a good man, a solid citizen, my friend. Thanks Bob.
April 20, 2012
We send our prayers to both families and friends to the victims. Our community has lost a hero.
Justin & Olivia Honch
Fort Hood, Tx
Potts Family
April 20, 2012
To the Paris Family, our deepest Condolences and may you find peace and comfort as the time passes and you relive the fond memories. We didn't know Bob, but he sounded like one heck of a guy. How fortunate you were to share life together, albeit far too brief...
Bev Cox
April 20, 2012
To the family and loved ones of Deputy Paris, I send my deepest sympathy. Words cannot express the gratitude I feel for his service to this community and his great sacrifice. May God bless and comfort you all.
April 20, 2012
I would just like to say my prayers are with the family and friends off Mr. Paris. I worked with officer Paris and his team on occasion.
Rebekah Keathley
April 20, 2012
Bob always showed up to the evictions with a smile on his face and a big hug for me, I just wanted to say Thank You for being my body guard everytime we went out to the properties. Non of us would have ever expected something like this to happen. You will be missed and my prayers go out to the family and friends. Sincerly, Rebekah Keathley @ Matel Property Management, Modesto, CA
Liz (Sousa) Perry
April 20, 2012
I knew Bob when he worked in Tracy as a paramedic. I also worked at Tracy hospital at that time. One of the nicest people I have ever met. He had a caring nature, and loved helping people. I feel so bad that he was helping people when he was stricken. I pray for his family. May they rely on the Lord for strength. My sympathy to all.
Julie
April 20, 2012
May God bless the Paris Family.Thank you for serving and protecting our country officer Paris.
Cameron Pettyjohn
April 20, 2012
R.I.P. Deputy Paris, you will be missed.
Heidi Gibson
April 20, 2012
our prayers go out to your family and friends RIP Robert Paris
April 20, 2012
May God be with your family and all of law enforcement at this time of sadness. Bob sounded like such an amazing man. May you RIP and happy hunting.
John Baker
April 20, 2012
Deputy Paris- Thank you for your courage, tenacity, and strength in your service to our community. You will be missed. I pray that God continue to look over your family and guide them and protect with the strength of his love.
Bonnie Enriquez
April 20, 2012
My prayers are with your family at this time. Your untimely death as you were proudly doing your job is tragic and sad. We stand proud to have known you.
fran cinder
April 20, 2012
Bless all of the Paris family, my prayers are with you all.
Danielle Reynolds
April 20, 2012
May you rest in peace officer Paris. Thank you for your selfless service. May god be with you.
AJ
April 20, 2012
Rest in peace.
Danielle Reynolds
April 20, 2012
Thank you for your service,and dedication.
Alan Peacock
April 20, 2012
Deputy Paris - Thanks for everything you gave to the County wide. You will be missed.
Sharleen Rhoades
April 20, 2012
I am so proud of Bob and all of the deputies in our city. May God be with Bob's family and friends. May his legacy live on through his children and all those that may choose to become officers.
Jerine Santos
April 20, 2012
Please accept my deepest sympathies.
Pam Ryan
April 20, 2012
A great father, husband,son, brother, uncle and police officer is gone. Prayers go out to the family and he will be remembered
tom fausone
April 20, 2012
Thankyou for your service to our community... you will be missed
Jerry Phillips
April 20, 2012
Are prayers are with his family may he rest in peace.
Patti Selvage
April 20, 2012
Love and Prayers for Deputy Robert Paris,his family,and friends. God Bless You Always. Thank you...
April 20, 2012
Our thoughts and prayers go out to the Paris family. You will be greatly missed Bob.
Fred P and John D Lara
Tammi Koster
April 20, 2012
My thoughts and prayers are with Krista and all her family. I can only imagine the pain all of you are going through but you must be so proud of Bobby and all of his accomplishments. I pray that time will heal your hearts.
Love and God Bless all of you.
Tammi (Freitas) Koster
John Garcia
April 20, 2012
We are sorry for family of the deputy and the locksmith. You are in our hearts and everyone in this county feels the loss. May god be with the family.
John and Laura Garcia and Family
April 20, 2012
We are sorry for your loss. Thank You Deputy Paris from the bottom of our hearts for your service to the community.
Chris & Brian
April 20, 2012
My deepest condolences to the family and extended family and friends and community of Deputy Paris. As the sister of a former law enforcement officer, I know the fear and pride with which one lives when a loved one chooses this vocation. My thoughts are with you.
Jetta Todaro, friend and colleague of his cousin, Dorothy Tarrant
Lillie Family
April 20, 2012
Godspeed, Bob. Your family, your friends, the community, and their family and friends and communities will miss you dearly. Thank you for everything you've done for all of us.
Mike and Mary Anne Pereira
April 19, 2012
When I saw the picture of Bobby I saw those blue eyes. The Paris family all have beautiful eyes. I also remembered when baby Eric was born. Bobby then became the "older" brother..I appreciated Beth's comments about the fun times in the cul de sac, and there were many!
I share a poem with you that I think has great meaning and hope:
Whatever your cross,
whatever your pain,
There will always be sunshine ,
after the rain...
Perhaps you may stumble,
perhaps you may fall,
But God's always ready,
to answer your call...
He knows every heartache,
sees every tear,
a word from His lips,
can calm every fear...
Your sorrows may linger,
throughout the night,
but suddenly vanish,
dawn's early light...
The savior is waiting,
somewhere above,
to give you His grace,
and send you His love...
Whatever you cross,
whatever your pain,
"God always sends rainbows...
after the rain..."
Love you all and pray for strength in the coming days.
The MAP's
April 19, 2012
The ultimate sacrifice made. My thoughts are prayers are with Dep Paris, his family and his PD family. You truly honor all of us.
Karen Johnsen
Martinez pD
The Salazar Family
April 19, 2012
R.I.P. Deputy R. Paris...Our most deepest and sincere condolences to his family, friends and co-workers. Our prayers are with you.
Robin Hinchman
April 19, 2012
Deputy Bob was a wonderful person his parents did a great job, raised him right. I will miss his laughter, his sence of humor, his hugs, how handsome he looked in his uniform and summers with the kids playing in the pool. To his family may the memories console your sorrowful hearts may you appreciate the times spent together. I pray that time will lessen your pain. My heartfelt thoughts are with you all
John Nelson Yco CDCR
April 19, 2012
Bob, thank you, for all that you did to keep us safe. My prayers go out to your family for their loss.
End of watch my Brother may find peace now.
We know you are up there watching over and taking care of us. God bless you and your family.
Joe Ruiz, Jr.
April 19, 2012
Beth Cronin-Areola
April 19, 2012
Many memories made on Alcott Place from playing baseball in the court, 4th of July block parties, camping and seeing just how late our parents would let us stay out during the summer nights playing tag and hide and go seek. We were so fortunate to grow up there and I was blessed to know you as a little brother. You will be missed dearly and my Love and Prayers are with your family.
April 19, 2012
Deputy Paris: I did not personally know you, but as the fiance to a Modesto Police Officer I understand your dedication and loyalty and the risk you took everyday to serve and protect your community. For this, you took the ultimate sacrifice. May God Bless your memory, and may God Bless your family, friends and law enforcement family. Thank you for your service. Rest in Peace.
Elizabeth Godinez
April 18, 2012
this was just a shock to me. May god be with you bob and your fam.
April 18, 2012
I AM SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY ARE IN MY THOUGTHS AND PRAYERS.
BOB IT WAS A TRUE HONOR TO HAVE KNOWN YOU THANK YOU FOR YOUR SERVICE AND ALL YOU DID FOR US.
GREG SULLIVAN (OAKDALE LOCKSMITH)
Elizabeth Godinez
April 18, 2012
may god be with you bob and your family too. I know you were just doing what your job was
Modesto irrigation dist line dept
April 18, 2012
Our thoughts & prayers go out to the family, we are grateful for Officer Paris service to the community.
April 18, 2012
I WORKED IN MEDICAL AT THE JAIL FOR 16 YEARS. YOU ALWAYS HAD A CHEERFUL WORD FOR EVERYONE. IT IS A VERY SAD DAY..YOU WILL BE MISSED BY MANY. GOD HOLD YOUR FAMILY IN HIS HANDS AT THIS TIME. MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS GO OUT TO THEM AT THIS TIME. THANK YOU FOR BEING THE WONDERFUL PERSON YOU WERE.
KATHY NORTH RN
April 18, 2012
I don't know where this man has touched my life, but I feel I've met him before. Maybe, in time I will remember. For now, I'm pleased to see the life he led and sorry it was cut short. Rick Aguila
John & Shirley Martucci
April 18, 2012
Or hearts go out to you for your pain and loss. Our deepest sympathy to the entire family.
Jason Winburn
April 18, 2012
Eric, I am so sorry for the loss of your brother. I will keep your family in my prayers. God Bless you and your family and keep you in his arms. I love you, brother. Please share send my love and sympathy to your parents.
Lisa
April 18, 2012
My thoughts and prayers are with you .. I can't imagine your pain. God Bless..
Cali_FID Parrot & Exotics Rescue Sanctuary and it's volunteers.
April 18, 2012
Thank you for your dedication and service. You will be missed.
Sarah Hunt
April 18, 2012
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Ed Perez family
April 18, 2012
GOD BLESS you and keep you, Bobbie.
Julie Marin
April 18, 2012
Our thoughts and prayers are with the family, friends and colleagues of Deputy Paris. He was taken from this world much too early. Law enforcement is a large community but the death of even one officer is a tragedy to the community that they serve & to the colleagues that they leave behind. Deputy Paris was serving his community with honor and distinction. He will be missed.
Joan
April 18, 2012
My thoughts and prayer are with the family. I graduated with Bobby and he will be missed.
Bill Killian
April 18, 2012
Thank you Deputy Paris for being there for all of us
in dangerous world. You will be missed.
Brittany Wait
April 18, 2012
Bob Paris Thank you for your dedication to your community and the sacrifices made. For family, my thoughts and prayers go out to you. I am the wife of a Sherrif's Deputy and the reality of what these men and women put on the line daily is very much understood. Praying for you all.
Mac Garcia
April 18, 2012
Our thoughts and prayers are with the Paris family. May Dep. Paris rest in peace.
yvonne swarrz
April 18, 2012
RIP DEPUTY ROB LEE PARIS..thank you for your service to the community...
Elvira Keeler
April 18, 2012
To the Paris family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. Your sons service to his community and heroic efforts will never be forgotten by many who knew him personally and by those who didn't he clearly touched many lives. May you take comfort in knowing that his legacy will never vanish. Thanks Bob for being a dear friend to my brother-in-law Don and thank you for your service here on earth. May you rest in peace
Sheila Cobb Chacon
April 17, 2012
Thinking of you and your family Krista, my heart goes out to you all.. Keeping you in my thoughts.
Margo Dofflemyer
April 17, 2012
May you rest in peace...prayers and thoughts to the family.
Cathy Perry
April 17, 2012
Thank you officer Paris. What the world needs are more like you. To your family, I am sorry for your loss. To sacrifice yourself for the sake of others you are a hero and never to be forgotten. RIP.
Janet Mitchell-Edwards
April 17, 2012
Bobby you were my fourth brother. Though I always called you Boob when we were growing up you turned out to be a gentleman, a class act, a wonderful father, and above all a friend and protector of us all. I'll miss you always.
Monica Radtke
April 17, 2012
When I first heard what happened last Thursday, I was working. I wrote on this at the beginning but was still in shock. My sister called and asked me if I heard what happened to Bobby Paris. I went into some shock right afterward from the devastating news. I have known you more years than I can remember. I always looked forward to your phone calls because you were always so pleasant, so funny, so kind. You had a way about you that would just make people smile or laugh. I always looked forward to you telling me that you would be driving through Reno on your way home from one of your many hunting trips so I looked forward to seeing you. You really knew how to enjoy life, aside from serving & protecting. You lived life to the fullest and didn't take it for granted. It was only a few weeks ago that I last spoke to you so when I heard what happened, I cried all day. I know that God has you safe in His arms now and that you are okay but I grieve for the loss of not seeing you or hearing from you again and the many, many lives you've touched and all the people that love you. I am also so sorry for the loss of Glendon and the sorrow it has caused for his wife and loved ones. Bob, we will always love you and hold you dear in our hearts. Thank you for being such a wonderful friend.
April 17, 2012
Hey "NEIGHBOR" thanks for helping brighten my families life. You will ALWAYS be in our thoughts and prayers.
Jane Moore
April 17, 2012
To Jamie -I was your preschool teacher and your neighbor-I have witnessed the strength of you and your parents through many struggles-the same God who was with you then is with you now. I am praying for you.
Alison Abernathy
April 17, 2012
To the cousin I never met, rest in peace and thank you for your service. I am your cousin by marriage' via Ron paris. My prayers go out to your wife, children, Mom & Dad.
DiAna Lachmund
April 17, 2012
To the family of Deputy Robert Paris:
His mission was to serve and protect and he always did. He was always respected and professional. He will never be forgotten. This world has suffered a great loss.
April 17, 2012
Paris family, so sorry for your loss. Our family holds you in our thoughts and prayers. We remember Bobby when he was just a little kid.RIP Bobby.
Bonin family from Tracy
Lavonne Vaughn
April 17, 2012
Thank you Officer Paris for your service in Modesto...My prayers are with your loved ones left behind.. You will be missed.
ALICE WALKE
April 17, 2012
THANK YOU OFFICER PARIS FOR YOUR SIXTEEN YEARS OF SERVICE TO OUR COMMUNITY MY YOU REST IN PEACE. MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS GO OUT TO YOUR FAMILY MAY OUR HEAVENLY FATHER EASE THERE PAIN
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