Search by Name

Search by Name

Thelma Hay Obituary

Thelma Pusey Hay, 95, an Elkins Park, PA resident since 1941, passed away peacefully on May 7, 2013. Thelma was born in Berwyn on September 22, 1917 to the late Emma MacAfee Pusey and Samuel Woodward Pusey. She was the wife of the late William Harvey Hay, who had co-owned J. Howard Hay Painting and Decorating, which flourished in Jenkintown from the late 1800s until the 1970s. Three younger brothers, Samuel, Alfred and John Pusey, predeceased Thelma. She is survived by her loving children, William Harvey Hay, Jr. of Elkins Park (Laila Ridgway) and Elaine Hay Spicer of Easton, CT; and by four grandchildren, Jane Hay Grubb (Jason) of Lansdale, William Wyatt Hay (Lauren Koch) of Lansdale, Katherine Hay Spicer of Denver, CO and Ryan Spicer of Milford, CT. Five months ago, Thelma became a proud great grandmother to Wyatt Connor Hay. She is also survived by her devoted friend, Ulice Washington, and she was predeceased by her daily summer swimming partners, including her dear friend Helen Boren. The family thanks the loving and dedicated staff at Sunrise of Abington for their excellent care of Thelma since 2012. In the 1960s, she was a great help to customers in the drapery department of the former John Wanamaker Department store, followed by decades excelling as the office manager of the former Jenkintown Texaco. Thelma had a delightful positive attitude and wonderful sense of humor, and loved to tell stories. Her Quaker ancestors were close friends of William Penn. She spent happy childhood summers on the farm owned by her ancestors (Baker/Sill), from the late 1600s to 1926, now the site of the Edgmont Country Club. Friends and relatives are invited to a memorial service on Saturday, May 18th at noon at the Church of Our Saviour, at the corner of Homestead and Old York Roads in Jenkintown. A reception will follow. There will be no visitation hours and the burial will be private. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the Alzheimer's Association, 399 Market Street, Suite 102; Philadelphia, PA 19106 (www.alz.org). Email remembrances may be sent to www.helwegfuneralservice.com.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Montgomery Newspapers from May 15 to May 19, 2013.

Memories and Condolences
for Thelma Hay

Not sure what to say?





0 Entries

Be the first to post a memory or condolences.

Make a Donation
in Thelma Hay's name

Please consider a donation as requested by the family.

Memorial Events
for Thelma Hay

To offer your sympathy during this difficult time, you can now have memorial trees planted in a National Forest in memory of your loved one.

How to support Thelma's loved ones
Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

Read more
Poems of Mourning and Comfort

The best poems for funerals, memorial services., and cards.

Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
How to Cope With Grief

Information and advice to help you cope with the death of someone important to you.

Read more
Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

Read more
Ways to honor Thelma Hay's life and legacy
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

Read more