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Daniel PHELAN

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PHELAN, J. Daniel
September 7, 1938 - June 15, 2013
An old proverb says: "When you are born, you cry and the world rejoices. Live your life in such a way that when you die the world cries, while you rejoice."
Dan's world is weeping now. He died suddenly on June 15 at his beloved summer home in Mountain View, rejoicing in the company of his extended family on the eve of Father's Day.
Dan, Dadly, Danny, Uncle Dan, Grandpa - he was, to us, the sweetest man on the planet - a wit, a rascal, a man most wise and forever loveable. What came through, always, was his large heart and unwavering instinct for kindness.
Dan played many roles, all of them with gusto. He was married to Frances (Charette) for forty-seven years, living that adventure with abiding loyalty, love and good cheer. He was a father. That was his proudest role, watching his three children Martin (Stephanie Myles), Charles (Anne Saris) and Mary Jeanne (Glenn Harrison) grow to maturity and success within the orbit of his love. He was a grandfather to William and Riley Harrison. That was the happiest role of his senior days.
Daniel was the devoted son of William and Gladys Phelan, the pater familias to four sisters: Patricia (John Storer-Folt), Mary (Louis Visentin), Kathleen (John Doyle), and Veronica (Mark Munroe). He was also the majordomo of the family compound in the Adirondacks where so much of his contentment was lived.
Dan was a friend to many, from his longtime luncheon buddies to the endless stream of pals his children brought home; from nieces and nephews to cousins extended; from neighbours to the thousands of families he helped during a fifty-year career in the practice of family law.
He lived his professional life with integrity and vision. He believed "common sense and a bit of humour go a long way to providing solutions that might not otherwise be apparent." He was that rare breed - a lawyer who hated to send out bills. Payment often came in peculiar ways; maybe a bottle of scotch, or the promise of prayers, or leather goods - or even, once, a basket of zucchini.
Dan was a man for whom status meant little and humanity everything. We loved the humanity in him: his music, his irreverent jokes, his fellowship, his capacity for joy.
How we will miss him.
Funeral services will be held at St. Ignatius of Loyola, 4455, West Broadway, Montréal, on Friday, June 28 at 11 a.m. The family will receive condolences at Collins Clarke Funeral Home, 5610 Sherbrooke St. West, on Wednesday, June 26 from 6-9 p.m. and Thursday, June 27, from 2-5 p.m. & 6-9 p.m.
Donations to St. Mary's Hospital Foundation would be appreciated in lieu of flowers.

Published in The Gazette from June 22 to June 25, 2013
La chasse aux papillons August 20, 1966 Roadtrip - Back to Dan's roots in Murray Bay J. Daniel Martin Phelan
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