Jill M. Coughlan

Jill M. Coughlan

Jill Coughlan Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Feb. 16, 2008.
OBITUARY JILL M. COUGHLANSan Francisco born, three-time Emmy award winning TV producer, lost her long battle with breast cancer on January 9, 2008. She worked at the Knowlton Pub where she had numerous friends in the mid-70's. She moved on to TV production at WXYZ in Detroit and KGO in SF. Services will be held January 22, at 12:30 p.m. at Mission Dolores Church in SF.

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August 31, 2025

Joyce posted to the memorial.

August 30, 2025

Bob Choquette posted to the memorial.

February 14, 2025

Joyce Tasma posted to the memorial.

95 Entries

Joyce

August 31, 2025

Another year without you but your memory keeps you alive in my heart. We had a wonderful chance to reconnect ,Bob and I, and I felt you would have loved that... 26 years ago you left so Happy Heavenly birthday Jill you are still the spark in my life xxx

Bob Choquette

August 30, 2025

Remembering your birthday dear Jill. Added a photo of you and the Kelly and Co at WXYZ, I found on the net. You´re the blonde in the yellow sweater with the C on it. Never forget you. Besos

Joyce Tasma

February 14, 2025

Hi Jill...been thinking a lot of you and it's been wonderful getting all those great memories back. love always from your Perth family ...a bit late but never ever forgotten.xxxx

Joyce Gwendoline Tasma

September 1, 2024

Hi Jill happy heavenly birthday from your Perth Western Australian family. Big love from Joyce, Alex, Anne, Alira and Ari....you are often in our fondest memories and when we think of you we always smile.

Bob Choquette

August 31, 2024

Dear Jill, today is your special day. Many of your dear friends will have those comforting thoughts of you. We are honored to have you cross paths with us and for that we remember and give thanks.

Joyce

July 16, 2024

Hi Bob saw you message to our lovely Jill...Just to let you know I along with Alex, Anne, Alira and Ari remember her with so much love...Alex and Anne stayed with her in San Fran....unforgettable of course... sad to see RS gone
Big love from Perth Western Australia

Bob Choquette

July 13, 2024

Jill today your good friend Richard Simmons passed. You truly loved his energy and you enjoyed every minute with him. He was like your older brother. I´m sure if there is an afterlife you will be getting reacquainted

Bob

February 15, 2024

Jill, you always had the knack to befriend such a kaleidoscope of different people. Those friendships run deep. You touched us all! Miss you

Sheila Nicholson Pasi

February 14, 2024

Good to share the memory of someone so special and so clearly loved and remembered by those who met her - thank you for sharing your feelings.

Joyce Gwendoline Tasma

February 12, 2024

Hey Jill I'm missing you a lot atm and then I see it's the anniversary of you leaving us on 9th Feb so my heart knows ...My love to Bob, Bevy, and Sheila
she still keeps us in touch. your forever friend Joyce xxx

Linda Katuna, Westmoor High School, Daly City, Class of 1969

February 11, 2024

We still think of you, Jill, and wish you were attending our upcoming reunion. I found your senior photo from Westmoor High School and thought others might enjoy seeing it, too.

Bob

January 4, 2024

Never a day goes by without thinking about you

Beverly Atkinson

September 4, 2023

Dear Jill,

Another Birthday for you my ageless, beautiful friend. The memories of your, "megawatt " smile, your love of life, and your laughter will stay with me always.

Much love - Bevy

Bob Choquette

August 30, 2023

Birthday girl, you will always be remembered. You left us too soon. I was in New York recently and shared the memories of us being there with Russ and Jan and celebrating Christmas in Bronxvill. Love,
Bob

Beverly Atkinson

February 25, 2023

Dear Jilly, Remembering with love, our travels, our long friendship and our many shared memories. I miss you my dear friend. BevyXO

Sheila Nicholson Pasi

February 24, 2023

I am always grateful to be reminded of Jill, a very special lady and how much I enjoyed my time with her and Joyce in Spain - always in our hearts.

Joyce Tasma

February 23, 2023

Jill is with us Bob ...she lives in our hearts and her light keeps us company....I take her with me on travels.always just a heartbeat away. Much love joyce

Bob

February 21, 2023

I remember the last time we walked together just behind your house by the creek . You were frail but yet held on to my arm with such a strong grip. Exhausted we went back to the house where you passed out and slept. I had to catch a flight back to OC and I did not awaken you. I sensed the end approaching but I was hoping I would be back the following week. It never happened but sometimes things don´t turn out the way we anticipate.

Bob Choquette

October 26, 2022

Hey Jill, thinking of you today as time is creeping up on all of us. I am with my daughters and I am very pleased that you got to know them. Miss you.

Beverly Atkinson

August 31, 2022

Dear Jilly,

It's your Birthday today and a good day to remember all the good times we had.
I was remembering Greece today - Agia Galini and the blue Mediterranean - the delicious yogurt - the kind people. I'd like to go back there.It must be pretty close to Heaven.
Good news in my life - I am a Grandmother! My little one's name is Maple Margaret McNabb and she loves to laugh - like you, and is beautiful, like her Mum and Dad.

But sad news too. My youngest brother Chris, after a 2 year battle with Multiple Myeloma, died on July 14/22. I still can't believe he's gone.

So if you meet a 6ft 7in handsome man (looks like Liam Neeson) with the voice of an angel - that's Chris. He and Kevin would get along great. He's got a wicked sense of humour too!

I miss you my dear friend,

Lots of Love

BevyXO.

Bob

August 31, 2022

Hope you are celebrating your birthday today, it was always a fun day!

Joyce Tasma

February 11, 2022

Hi Jill I wish I could see that megawatt smile again...
I hate acknowledging your death...I loved you in life and that is how I hold you close. No the years do not dim or ease the pain...the tears still fall.
I'm going caravanning soon...a bit of a meander up the west coast of Australia, do a bit of casual work but mostly enjoying myself with my dog. Just like we used to do Jill...you're coming along with me hun...xxxx

Bob

September 1, 2021

Hey, had you on my mind all day. Spoke to Jack and the girls and we all reminisced about time spent when you were around. We will keep you in our memories forever.
Love

Joyce Tasma

August 31, 2021

Hi Jill so much a part of my life and still missing you so much. Our glorious days together travelling and being friends shaped me and hold me with warm memories. It's your birthday today and each year I get older but you stay the gorgeous woman that you were. You will be so happy to know that Bev reached out to me and we are now continuing the friendship that you created. Oh I would love to see you again and be in your dynamic presence. Not only missed by me but Alex and Anne. Love you so much my friend and can only dream of what might have been for you. xxxxx Joyce

Bev Atkinson

August 31, 2021

Dear Jill,

Another birthday my dear friend. And let me tell you - getting old is not for sissies !! And while I'm getting my cataract surgeries, knee replacement and "barnacle" removal (fair skin and sun means freckles and lumpy things!) you will stay beautiful forever in the minds and hearts of those who love you. Miss your laughter so much.

BevyXO

Bob

June 15, 2021

Remembering those summer days in Knowlton of years gone past. Life was ours to grasp and relish. It was a grand time and I am glad we shared it together. Miss you!

Rosie Hayden

September 1, 2020

Happy Birthday my sweet friend. My heart is filled with happy memories of you and your laughter and smile. I miss your adventures, stories, cooking and most of all your hugs! Happy Birthday in Heaven!
I love you Jilly!
Rosie

Bev Atkinson

August 31, 2020

Dear Jill,

Another Birthday for you today and I wish we were together to celebrate. I loved picking up the phone and laughing with you about anything and everything, even during the tough times. Like turning 69 years old!
I miss you my dear friend.

BevyXO

Bob

August 31, 2020

Hey Birthday Girl,
See, I did not forget! Memories of you remain plentiful and vivid. Gone but not forgotten.

Bob Choquette

February 11, 2020

I was supposed to fly up and see you the day after you passed. I was caught by surprise by the phone call, as I was expecting to see you a few more times. I think the hug you gave me the last time we saw each other as we walked near the ravine near your home, was your way of saying goodbye. It seems like yesterday!

Bev Atkinson

September 1, 2019

Hi Jill - Another Birthday and time to celebrate your life and our friendship of 46 years. We met on my birthday April 22, 1973 on the Appollonia sailing from Haifa to Athens and you made it one of the best birthdays ever! Thank you for being such a good friend. I miss you.

Love you,

Bevy

Bob Choquette

August 31, 2019

Hi birthday girl! You never needed much of an excuse to celebrate something. However your birthday meant a lot to you. You always enjoyed recognition of this special day. Thank you for being an important part of my love and for reaching out in those final years!

March 29, 2019

Jilly, I think of you nearly everyday. I drive by your house and it never fails you fill my heart. I adored our years together. You made me laugh, you made me wiser. I miss you and your wild self.

Bob, I loved coming accross this tonight. Jill loved you always. She always talked about you and I know she was sooo happy to reconnect. You are a special person and I'm so glad you touched her life. She was a very amazing woman and she became a VERY special friend to me. We started out neighbors and then we became family. She blessed my life.
Love to you!
Rosie Hayden

Robert Choquette

February 8, 2019

10 years ago you left us dear Jill. You are not forgotten and your light still burns bright.

Bev Atkinson

August 31, 2018

Dear Jill,

Happy Birthday my dear friend. I miss you and wish we could celebrate together. This growing old stuff is no fun without you.

BevyXO

Bob Choquette

August 31, 2018

It is your birthday today. Gone but never forgotten.

Mike as best man with L. Gruen and Jill

Bob Choquette

July 25, 2018

Good friend Bev

Robert Choquette

June 25, 2018

Early years in Bloomfield Hills MI

Robert Choquette

June 25, 2018

Bob

December 18, 2017

Thinking of you because XMas was of such importance to you. You never lost that magic feeling of it. You were always a kid at heart. Love you

The elegant bride

Bob Choquette

September 25, 2017

May 2, always an important day

The Elegant Farmhouse

Bob Choquette

September 24, 2017

Beverly Atkinson

August 31, 2017

Dear Jill,

It's your Birthday and I miss celebrating with you. Even though we lived in different countries for most of our friendship, we always connected on this special day - by card, phone or letter. Writing this note helps me feel we still can. You're just in a place where I can only leave a message.

Miss you, love you, BevyXO

Bob Choquette

August 31, 2017

Dear Jill,
Birthdays were always to be celebrated. I wish you a happy birthday today.
Love, Bob

Bob Choquette

July 19, 2017

Bob Choquette

July 19, 2017

August 31, 2016

August 31, 2016
Dear Jill,
Today would have been your birthday. Shared your memory with Joyce today and will drop a line to Bev. Love you, Bob!

Bev Atkinson

August 31, 2016

Jill,

Today is your 65th Birthday, my dear friend, one that we said we'd celebrate together. We met on April 22, 1973 - my birthday - and I'm so grateful for that meeting.

Happy Birthday Jilly! You're here in our hearts.

Much Love Bev and JoeyX0

Jill and Bev 1975

Bev Atkinson

March 6, 2016

Jill & Bev 1976

Bev Atkinson

March 6, 2016

My Dear friend Jill,

It has been so many years but I think of you often and miss you so much. I'm glad to find this site to share my memories. And there were so many good ones!

Meeting you on the Appollonia leaving Haifa to sail to Athens on my 22nd Birthday (April 22, 1973) was one of the best birthday gifts I've ever received! You created a "Jill party" in a heartbeat!! The first of many in Greece, Italy, Toronto, Detroit, Teneriffe, and San Francisco.

We danced in the olive groves on Mayday in Crete. We dodged the amorous Italians in Rome and Florence (They knew there were 2 blondes under those scarves and long skirts!). We cried and then celebrated Kevin's life in the Canary Islands. We laughed and fought for yours in Detroit with your first surgery. My little son fell in love with you when you chased waves with him on the beach in SF and let him play with the clap-on/off light switch you needed after your second surgery!! He's 25 now and still remembers your joy and laughter.

We once joked that we'd celebrate our 65th birthdays together. Well, I'm coming to SF to do that in the city you love. Breakfast at Louis? BevyX0

Bob Choquette

August 31, 2015

Today is your birthday. It was always a special day for you. You are not forgotten dear Jill. I learned a lot from you. You are living in our collective memories forever.

August 31, 2014

Thinking of you today, on what would have been your birthday!

Mercedes Babot-Goldfarb

July 28, 2014

My dear friend Jill, I have been thinking so much about you for many years now. I am so sad that we lost touch due to our illnesses. I want everyone to know that you were one of the greatest women I met in my life. I hope you know that I loved you and that you influenced my life and made me a better person.

Bob C

May 2, 2014

Another May 2nd has been noted. Still often think about you

JP Sundholm

February 23, 2014

Jill was my next door neighbor in the early 80s (maybe earlier?) when I was a little, little boy in Michigan. I'd been thinking of her and Bob and decided to Google them to see if I might be able to get in touch, and found this guest book. I did not have a happy childhood, and I have to say that the time I spent with Bob and Jill--whose house was always unlocked for me and who never once turned me away--were some of the fondest memories I have. My memories of Jill are mostly of her making me laugh--I remember her having a great, quick wit, recognizable even to a 5-yr-old kid! I also remember a day when I was a bit older; she was preparing to sell the house, and hired me and two other neighborhood kids to help her do yard "work"--I use quotes because there was far more horsing around and laughing than weeding that went on! I remember introducing her to the other kids like she was my ultra-cool big sister--and they were instantly obsessed with her because of how hard they made her laugh. For payment for our yardwork services, we all packed into her tiny Fiero and went to Baskin-Robbins, cracking up the whole way because of how smushed into that tiny car we were (I suppose today nobody would allow this, but it was the 80s!). Such great memories of her, I wish we could have gotten back in touch. It sounds like she lived an amazing life and was loved immensely. Thanks for everything, Jill. Perhaps we'll catch up down the road. Love, the annoying kid next door that would never leave you the hell alone! :)

Bob

August 31, 2013

Jill you could never let a bithday pass without notice. Here's to you!!!! On your special day

May 3, 2013

Jill,
May 2nd the Swedenborgian Church in Pacific Heights. Thank you for the beautiful day. We had a blast . You were ravishing. It was a great party afterwards at the Elegant Farmhouse, surrounded by family and friends. Happy Anniversary

Jim Voelker

May 1, 2013

Very late to this book but something made me think of Jill today and one quick Google search brought me here. We worked together in the late "70's in Detroit, cold calling businesses door to door selling long distance service. Jill had great energy and a good dose of drama about her; along with a warm and caring heart. Last saw her sometime in mid '80's , she was doing Kelly & Company and having a blast. Sorry to learn this, late condolences, she was good one.

Sheila Nicholson Pasi

October 24, 2012

I found a bundle of letters I received from Jill years ago and they led me here. I worked with Jill and Joyce many years ago in Spain and sill remember her fondly. I know she will continue to be missed by everyone who knew her. A very special lady.

Robert Choquette

August 29, 2012

Well Jill, the girls and I will be thinking of you on your birthday. Often times your name comes up in conversation and usually a smile follows. Hey just had a small earthquake as I am writing this, no need to flex your muscles. Ha Ha
Looks like your long lost friend Simone from Amsterdam found you. I hope she gets to know you did try to find her. I am sure you are watching over her, cause after all it was your mission to worry over all of us when you were here. I know I am early but Happy Bithday Love Bob

August 16, 2011

hello my name is simone and i lived in amsterdam end 1968 till 1973
did jill live there in those years.i worked the bar in a students and travellers hotel and jill was a receptionnist
is this the jill i know?
thank you for letting me knom
and should this jill not be the jill i knew please accepts my sinceres condoleances p.thank you simone pinney(smit)

bob choquette

March 23, 2009

More than a year has passed. The girls and I talk about you often. We hope to post some of our favorite pictures soon. Saw Alice and Roger in Sebastopol a few weeks ago, what great friends. Love you dear Jill

Jeff Randall

February 29, 2008

Jill,
Thank you for your laughs and big heart. I will miss you and your bubbling personality and spirt for life
and people.

Irene Haas

February 28, 2008

Dear Colleen, Just wanted you to know again how very much we love both you and Jill and will always be here for you. It's grand to share all the family memories,especially the wonderful Holiday celebrations we enjoyed. Jilly will always be in our thoughts and prayers and I'm sure she is making my Mom and Dad laugh telling them about all her adventures along with your Dad, of course. Bless you, Cousins Irene and Bob

Leana Gruen

February 28, 2008

Jill, So many memories! True many from years past but some not so distant. The reunion in 2000 when I spent the weekend at your apartment in Pacific Heights. The most time we had spent together since high school, and I saw what a full, rich life you had, how many people in your life that you had worked with and loved you so much. You were a bigger than life woman and the people around you couldn't help but catch your passion and excitmant for it. I'll never forget when Kevin was dying, how you took charge at the hospital and were an advocate for him when the medical staff knew less about his condition than you did. The four days you stayed awake after the earthquake in '89. Your telling me I was nuts for feeling guilty about not being there to help "my" city. Not to mention, Graduation Day (Thank God for Colleen! We never would have made it to the ceremony!),Lester Ackers house and many trips to Mt. Tamalpais. My father shared his briefcase. from Camp Westerbork with us when we were seniors in high school and that made such an impresion on you that when "Schindlers List" came out you couldn't go see it and you called me and insisted that I get out the case and look for Dad's "yellow star". I new it was gone,Dad threw it away the day he showed it to us, but I got out the case and finally after 17 yrs.,went through it and found a treasure of family history plus all the documentation that Cheryl, Danny and I, decided belonged in a Holocaust Museum, and is. Thank You Jill, for bringing so much courage, passion and enthusiasm for life, to my life and that of countless others who you helped. Love, Leana

Sue-Ling Choquette

February 27, 2008

Dear Jill
You were an important person in my life. You've taught me so much and we have enjoyed some many exciting and wonderful times together. We want you to know that you will never be forgotten. I know that my dad and my whole family wishes you the best and we love you so much!
Love Sue-Ling Choquette

Anne Brawley Emerson

February 23, 2008

Dear Colleen,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Kevin was one of my dearest friends, and I had the good fortune to spend time with Jill in Detroit during the time of his passing where I got the chance to get to know her. She was lovely, strong, courageous and filled with grit. She worked hard all day and then came home to act as Kevin's advocate at the hospital. She graciously opened her home to me so that I could spend time with Kevin during his final days. We talked, laughed, cried and raged together, like close friends without the history of time. Our paths went different ways, but those days together connected us. I am sure Kevin is holding her now with his angel's wings. My heart goes out to you, Colleen.

michael legrande

February 21, 2008

To Jill, I'll always remember you and always think fondly of those days and time we spent together. thank you for staying in touch with me all these years. you made me a better person. love always, Mike Legrande To Colleen, please call us, were so sorry for your loss. The Legrande family

colleen coughlan

February 21, 2008

Dear Jilly. I know you can't read this or hear my words but I know for sure you can feel my heart. I know we had our ups and downs through the years but I never stopped loving you. Kevin and you were the lights of my life. I will think of you every day with all of the love I felt for you. No matter how angry we got at each other, we always had each others back. I will continue to miss you all of my life. I also know you will have my back as long as I live.

Your loving sister forever
Coll

Jill, Colleen, Junior and Elvis

February 21, 2008

Jill and Elvis photo-shoot 3/1/06

February 21, 2008

Jill and Elvis photo-shoot 3/1/06

February 21, 2008

Jill and Elvis photo-shoot 3/1/06

February 21, 2008

Rosie Hayden

February 20, 2008

My dearest Jillian,
Nearly six years ago you were the new neighbor with the cute bulldog pup... today you are my dear friend with the crazy dog. You truly are the most amazing woman. I have never met anyone with so many people who love you. I feel so blessed to join that group of people. We have some wonderful and fun memories of our own that I enjoy sharing. Being able to share both wonderful & difficult times with each other taught me the most valuable lesson I have learned so far. That is that it's not WHAT you have...it's who you share it with. Life is all about the people that share love with you and what you give to them. You gave me so much! I love you and will miss you terribly!

Mae-Ling Choquette

February 20, 2008

Jill,
You were truly one of a kind. As my dad stated, I never once heard you complain or whine about anything. You've taught me so much, and I was just lucky to be able to know you. The memories I have of you are something that I will always cherish and will forever be embedded in my memory. You mean so much to me and my family as well as so many other people. We all love you, so much. You will never ever be forgotten.

Dean Turner

February 20, 2008

Dearest Jill. May god bless your spirit. Always in our thoughts,prayers and heart. We are all better off to have known you.
John,Marilyn,Dean and Deborah

cheryl Gruen Lee

February 20, 2008

Dear Colleen, I was so sorry to hear of Jill's passing. It had been several months since I spoke with her, always laughing always putting up the good fight. When I heard from Leana about the services I realized that on this Feb. 22nd, the day you will celebrate her life,,exactly 35 years ago to the day, she and I were celebrating my 20th birthday together in Israel. She somehow got a ride into the little town we were near and bought what was probably the only bottle of Jhonnie Walker Red in the whole of Israel so we could have a real celebration. So Jill!!! It's as if it were yesterday. She and I shared a pivotal time in our lives that I believe shaped us as women significantly and she will live in my heart forever. I am sorry I cannot be there on Friday but will hold you close in my thoughts Love .Cheryl

Collette Patt

February 20, 2008

Dear Colleen,
I will never be able to express my sorrow for you losing Jill. Just remember always I am here everyday and everynight, today, tomorrow and always. I know we talk constantly but don't ever forget I will forever be available to you. I am glad to have you at this time in my life. This loss is so profound for us both. Jill left me you and you me, this was her plan. I miss her beyond words. Take care of yourself. We'll talk again soon.
Love - Collette

Robert Choquette

February 20, 2008

A woman of strength,generosity, dignity and honesty. You were magnificient in your battle with breast cancer and you did not let it get the better of your spirit. You saw good in every day. You were a great example to me and my children. You will forever live in our memories

Ken Czys

February 18, 2008

I was blessed that I had the chance to hear your voice again a few weeks back and have a great chat with you!!
So many wonderful times with you, so many wonderful TV shows. You always made it easy and a joy.
Food Drive, "Shut him up, we have to move to Marin!!!"
"Ha" (just the way you said it) a short laugh but direct.

I could fill pages upon pages of the love of you and the great times. You were one in a million!!
Glad we shared so many great times together.
Kenny

Maureen Monedero

February 18, 2008

Dearest Coleen
I'm so sorry for your loss. Eventhough I haven't seen Jill in many many years I still think of you both often. All my prayers to you

Linda Katuna

February 18, 2008

Deepest condolences to Jill's family and friends. It was a pleasure knowing Jill at Westmoor High, Daly City (class of 1969). She came to our reunions, and we are stunned to hear this very sad news. Jill was loved by all of her classmates and will be missed very much.

Debi (Stone) Kallas

February 18, 2008

Dear
Colleen:
I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your sister. I attended
Ursuline High School with you, as a boarder and remember you very
well. I pray that your sorrow will be lightend by the obvious love for
your sister and family.
God bless you always

Patty (Reed) DeVost

February 18, 2008

Dear Colleen,

I am very sorry to hear of your loss. I have wished to contact you over the years. Recently, I went to a boarders reunion at Ursuline for the first time, and many of the ladies asked of you. If you would like, please contact me at this email address. Mark and I would love to hear from you. You are in our thoughts and prayers at this difficult time.

Joe Winters

February 18, 2008

Jill, and I got into some crazy things together, and even after leaving the station we often talked early in the morning before she started her day.
Jill's cameraman.

Annette (Molitor) Kelly

February 18, 2008

Dear Colleen - You are in my prayers for the loss of your sister. We spoke of you at our Boarder's Reunion at Ursuline last August...all of us wondering where you were. Sad, though, to find you in Jill's obituary. Please know that your Ursuline family cares very much and sends our love in this very difficult time.

Patty (Reed) DeVost

February 18, 2008

Dear Colleen,

I am so very sorry to hear of the loss of your sister, jill. I am an old friend who wished to contact you over the years. Recently, I attended an Ursuline boarders reunion for the first time, and many people asked about you. Please contact me if you'd like at this email address. Mark and I would love to hear from you. Please know that you are in our thoughts at this difficult time.

February 17, 2008

Jill,
You were not in my life for very long. However, you have made an impact on it that I could never forget. You've showed me how to live my life, and that in the end its not about what you have, but who you have. You are greatly missed, and loved more then I can explain.

Joe Winters

February 17, 2008

Jill we had our differences, we managed to to get those straight, and went on to better things. I will miss your early morning calls.
I loved your Dad.

Joyce Tasma

February 17, 2008

Dearest Jill, for so long we had a friendship that withstood the distance and chronic inability to stay in regular contact but we loved each other dearly as friends and my life changed when we met in Amsterdam so long ago. As travel companions we had the best adventures, met the most wonderful people and grew together from young girls into world savy women. Your friendship and love was the most precious gift you gave and you gave it so generously that you are a legend in my heart and in the hearts of my family. You will always be forever young to me..I will keep those memories fresh and as new as the days we created them.
Forever in our hearts from Joyce, Alex and Anne, Monique, Alira Ari and Mario xxxxxxxxxxxx
A special message of love also comes from Gillian, Linton, Johana,Toby and Lauren...memories of times together in Salou, Spain
Love from all the friends you made in Spain...know that you were loved and cherished.xxxxxxx

Paul Mifsud

February 17, 2008

My deepest condolences. As a kid, I remember Kevin and Colleen. I also remember Russ, from television. Jill will be in my prayers. My wife is a 3 and a half year survivor of breast cancer. I have an idea of the suffering and courage that defines Jill.

Paul Mifsud

February 17, 2008

My deepest condolences. As a kid, I remember Kevin and Colleen. I also remember Russ, from television. Jill will be in my prayers.

Sue-Ling Choquette

February 17, 2008

Dear Jill
I miss you so much. I remember when we went shopping together in San Fransisco and we had so much fun. I wish that you were here to come and see my dad, my sister, grandma and I. I love you so much! May you rest in Peace. You know that my family wishes you the best and we love you more than anybody else!

Bob Choquette

February 17, 2008

Jill,
I have never met a person as courageous as you. You had every reason to wallow in self-pity or complain about how hard it was raining on your parade, however you never lost sight of the focus of living each day as fully as possible. I am so glad you reached out to me and opened your heart to my girls. Mae-Ling and Sue-Ling were overwhelmed by you and your strength of character and the warmth of your heart. You will always be within our hearts. An indelible stamp was made on our lives. I love you. You are truly beautiful. Your life light is so bright. Life was good to me when it brought us together onto this path.

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Sign Jill Coughlan's Guest Book

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August 31, 2025

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August 30, 2025

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February 14, 2025

Joyce Tasma posted to the memorial.