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Jules Aerts Obituary
AGE: 56 • Colts Neck
Jules Henry Aerts, 56, of Colts Neck, passed away peacefully surrounded by his loving family on Friday, September 26, 2014 at Columbia Presbyterian Medical Center, New York. Jules was born in Queens, N.Y. and resided in Hazlet, NJ before moving to Colts Neck for over the past twenty years. He graduated from Raritan High School and attended Fairleigh Dickens University. He was a parishioner of St. Mary's Catholic Church. He worked as a sound engineer for various artists in the entertainment industry including the Ramones; Blondie; Soul Asylum; Patti Smith; the Blues Brothers Band. He spent the last twenty years touring the world with Bob Dylan and his band. He loved cooking, music, and was an accomplished artist. But his favorite passion was spending time with his family, friends, and especially his adventures with his daughter, Jennylee.
He is predeceased by his parents Joseph and Diane Aerts, his beloved sister, Gerardine Hern. He leaves behind his loving wife of 27 years, Carol Ann Schellenberger Aerts. His beloved children, Julianne of Hoboken; Joseph of Hillsborough; Jennylee of Colts Neck; his brother, Richard and his wife, Elizabeth and family of Monroe; his brother-in-law, Dennis Hern of Hazlet; his mother-in-law, Anna May Schellenberger of Colts Neck; many in-laws, nieces, nephews, and close friends.
Visitation will be held on Tuesday, September 30, 2014 from 2-4pm and 7-9pm at the Holmdel Funeral Home, 26 South Holmdel Road, Holmdel. A Mass of Christian Burial will be offered on Wednesday, October 1, 2014 at 9:00am at St. Mary's R.C. Church, 1 Phalanx Road, Colts Neck. Interment immediately following the service at St. Gabriel's Cemetery, Route 520, Marlboro. In lieu of flowers, the family asks that donations be made to Carol Ann Aerts, for the Jennylee Aerts College Fund, c/o Cinecall Productions, PO Box 854, Red Bank, NJ 07701.
Jules will be fondly remembered for his love, friendship, and especially for filling our lives with his laughter. For directions or to send an online condolence to the family, please visit www.holmdelfuneralhome.com
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Monika
September 27, 2024
10 years ago. I miss him.
Quino Castro
September 22, 2024
Los fans de Bobby guardamos un grato recuerdo de Jules
Andrea Orlandi
September 22, 2023
In Albuquerque oct 1996
Quino Castro
September 25, 2019
Tu recuerdo permanece fuerte entre tus amigos.
Iggy Ingoglia
March 4, 2016
I was hanging out with my good friend Scott Stamper at the Saint in Asbury Park last night and we were talking about the many tours I'd done. I told him one of my greatest experiences was working on the Dylan tour in '99 and having the opportunity to work with Jules. He broke the news to me that we lost him last year. So sad. Too young and talented to be taken so soon. Maybe one of the nicest and most genuine people I've ever met. Can't say enough good things about this man. Deepest condolences to all who loved him.
Rich Stout
January 12, 2016
My daughter is doing a project about an artist who had the bulk of their fame before the year 2000. I suggested Bob Dylan since I was a fan and knew how influential he was. I then told her that I could call one of my friends who was his engineer to get some inside information. I did a search for Jules only to find he had passed.
Jules was our FoH engineer for my band in the 80's. We hit it off immediately. He was always so whitty and always positive. We would spend hours talking about Reggae and Toots and the Maytals (I had to give him my Toots album because he wouldn't give it back!) One of my funniest times with Jules was a Halloween party. Jules walked in dressed as a piece of poop - corn and all!
I'm deeply saddened and will miss this fine man. I will miss seeing that smile.
"Open your heart so wide
Let love come 'round in here, believe me
If you have that love in your own life
Let it shine, let it shine, let it shine, yeah"
Toots And The Maytals - Spiritual Healing
May 14, 2015
I just learned of Jules' passing and want to express my sincerest condolences to his family. I met Jules backstage in the late 80's and whenever Dylan passed through where I was working, either here in the USA or overseas, I got backstage through Al and had a laugh with Jules. His warmth and just down to earth personality was one to behold. Rest In Peace...Jerry Bamel
Chris Blackwell
March 12, 2015
I met Jules one time about 5 years ago at a Bob Dylan show In Las Vegas. He helped make it one of the most memorable experiences of my entire life, just in the few short interactions I had with him that day. Not too many people leave that kind of impression on me but Jules is a guy I will never forget. He was so cool. My condolences go to his family and friends.
Janet Hull
November 24, 2014
I looked over to the soundboard this weekend and did not see you... then I heard you were gone.
You were a peaceful, loving presence all these years.
I will always remember you with gratitude.
May all you gave to so many bless your soul and the hearts of your family.
laurette maillet
October 18, 2014
Hi Jules!
you must be in Paradise for I didn't see you on stage last night at the Bob Dylan show in Seattle!
without you walking on stage in your shorts a Bob Dylan previous show will never be the same.
Why do kind and sweet people have to go?
You'll always be in my heart.
I willl call that Fall Tour : the Jules Memory Tour!
Tony Lumsden
October 6, 2014
Read about this sad news this evening. Condolences to Jules family and friends. He'll be missed at Bob shows all over the world. A gentleman who always had time for the fans. RIP x
Little Rock Ar, Aug 26, 2008
Carol Wilkison
October 1, 2014
Deepest sympathy and condolences to Jules' family and friends. As for me in the Bob Dylan community, Jules was like a family member. At the show's seeing a constant familiar face. He will truly be missed.
Andrew Klewan
October 1, 2014
Always so nice to the fans at Bob's shows...so terribly sorry.
Jeanne C
October 1, 2014
i never knew the man but by his calm countenance from the stage as i waited for numerous bob shows to begin. i have no way to explain how much that witnessed to me. thank you so much Jules. my deepest regards to his family.
Jeff Levine
September 30, 2014
“We're not here for a long time, we're here for a good time” and Jules knew how to have a good time better than anybody! If he weren't such a great audio engineer, he could have easily been a professional comedian because he had that natural ability to find humor in the moment and make us all laugh! At the same time you felt the depth of his genuine character, his sensitivity, passion for life, and the proud love he always expressed he had for his family. Regrettably I was not in close contact the past decade (although never out of heart). The times we connected felt like we left off yesterday. I knew he was busy, but I took it for granted that Jules would always be around — my loss. I am relieved he is not suffering anymore. Life can be a four letter word, and right now it is.
TO: Carol Ann, Julianne, Joseph, Jennylee and family, I'm SO sorry you all got robbed! This world is just not as good without Jules here. In time, a brighter day will come and you, his great legacy, will blossom again. Aren't we all lucky we got to share an era of life with Jules! I feel someday we will all be reunited. Rest in peace my friend, before you know it, we'll all rejoin you at the party! Love and hope - Jeff Levine
September 30, 2014
I'll miss that smile and beard backstage.
Kim Vivo
September 30, 2014
Met jules at marry anns inn colts neck n, j used to tend bar there jules and carol ann attended our wedding such a pleasure having them there jules was a kind funny humble man
most of all he was the most thoughtful man ever always thinking of us always used to send postcards to marry anns when he was on the road with bob love u jules see u later
Joseph Che D'Amico
September 30, 2014
Having been so fortunate to be with and talk with Jules in many places throughout the world in the past 20 years, we cannot express how grateful we are to have been in his presence. He treated us with kindness and respect, always finding the time for a chat. He leaves us with fond memories,and we cannot describe in words how much we will miss him.To his family and friends, our heartfelt condolences.
Che and Siobhain
Llanbedr Wales
September 30, 2014
dearest family of Jules...hoping you are all safe and well....truly sorry for your loss.I think of Jules on our many tours together, especially Thailand, with the Blues Bros.....so funny,so smart and full of kindness.i will miss him deeply.......Eric Udel
September 30, 2014
So sorry to hear this sad news...
Jules was always just a cool guy..
even way back in the day- RIP
Jill Harrington Price
Quino Castro
September 30, 2014
Echaremos de menos tu trabajo para que Bobby suene bien. We'll miss you doing the best ir order to Bobby's voice sounds well
Denny Freeman
September 29, 2014
I'm really sorry to learn of this. Jules was my pal, in my years w/ Bob, 2005-2009. We stayed in touch, even after I left the organization. I would e-mail.." hi Jules"...and he would reply, just saying hello, keeping up w/ cars and stuff. He made me laugh, and now I'm sad....
Barbara Verna Higby
September 29, 2014
To the Aerts Family, I am sorry to hear of Jules passing. I met Jules years ago when I became friends with his sister Gerrie in high school. I remember him as funny, kind and having a larger than life personality! He will be greatly missed by all.
September 29, 2014
Dear Carol Ann, Julianne, Joe and Jennylee,
I am so sorry for your loss. Jules was one of the kindness people that ever walked the earth. He always had a smile and a warmth that could make you feel like you were the only person in the room! He could make anyone laugh……a gift.
“Carve your name on hearts…….A legacy is etched into the minds of others and the stories they share about you”
S. L Alder
Jules drew his name on all of our hearts. He was a wonderful person, and he will be missed, but always loved.
I will never forget him.
With much love,
Claudia Ravaschiere, Boston, MA
Charles Cicirella
September 29, 2014
You always found the lost chord.
Tiger Williams
September 29, 2014
Jules got me a seat on stage at that San Diego County Fair for Bob Dylan in front of all my friends. A memory I will never forget. R.I.P. Jules.
Patricia Kouten
September 29, 2014
Dear Carol Ann, Julianne, Joe and Jennylee,
I am so sorry for your loss. Jules was such a great guy with a warm smile and kind words for everyone. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Love Patsy
David and Kimberly Steinert
September 29, 2014
So sorry to hear the passing of Jules prayers to the family / thank you for all the hard work and many many many great shows you will be mised peace
Andy
September 29, 2014
RIP Jules. You helped to make the magic happen on concert stages all over the world. Always there, like a rock. Thank you, big man.
Chuck Corradino
September 29, 2014
What a dear brother! Loads of talent, very Bright light and will be missed by many. I can honestly say my life has been made better by knowing Jules. He enriched me in ways others could not. So sorry for you loss Carol Ann. My heart hurts.
Rest our dear friend...Condolences to the Family
Rob Paparozzi
September 29, 2014
September 29, 2014
Dear CarolAnn,Julianne,Joseph& Jennylee,
Our prayers & thoughts are with you & your family.He was a special guy.
Deepest Sympathy,
Joe & Lynda Schortz
April Melody
September 29, 2014
My husband and I had the fortune to talk with this dear man, after a show in LA, and he was so very kind and gracious, we will never forget him. We are so very sorry for your loss and send our deepest sympathy to his family and friends. May you find peace in this time of sorrow. April Melody and Chris Abrams
David Heath-RBC '79
September 29, 2014
My deepest sympathy, Carol Ann, for your loss. The monastic community and extended family of Subiaco Abbey will remember Jules' soul, and all family members and loved ones in our prayers. +R.I.P.
Mary Moreno
September 29, 2014
My deepest sympathy to Carol Ann and family. I will always remember Jules for his kindness and his wonderful sense of humor. My late husband, Alan Rubin, had the highest respect for his talent and skill, and always looked forward to a Blues Brothers tour that Jules was working.
Andreas
September 29, 2014
May you rest in peace, big great man. Elvis surely will get a new heavenly sound ...
September 29, 2014
Our hearts go out to his family and friens at the loss of this great an friendly man. We will miss ihm so much! Rest in peace, Jules! Ulli and Moni from Germany
Marianne Simonin
September 29, 2014
Very saddened by the news. Jules was one of the memorable figures backstage at Bob Dylan's shows. He always seemed to have that stable and grounded energy, with a total dedication to his work. I've had the pleasure to sit with him and the musicians on several occasions. The last time I saw him was in 2011, he was heading back to his hotel with George, laughing and laughing!! RIP Jules, you will be always remembered. My deep sympathy to his family and friends. Marianne
Patricia Resola/Cannon
September 29, 2014
Very sorry for your loss. You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers
September 29, 2014
Sending Julianne and the entire Aerts family all my love. I wish I could have met your Dad; he was a part of you and for that I am so thankful. XOXO- Caroline Johnson (Bobcat classmate of Julianne)
James Nolan
September 29, 2014
Rest easy Jules.....
Graziella Bovolato
September 29, 2014
A great heart and a smile for every one, always, from the stage!
We miss him,... So sorry for the family and friends!
Graziella Bovolato orlandi
September 29, 2014
He was, For us too, a wonderfull, nice person.
We met many years ago in Utica and he always has a smile For every person... So sad, so sorry For the family.
From Italy
September 29, 2014
RIP Jules, you were such a gentle giant, always a friendly smile for the fans. You will be sorely missed.
Joachim Neumann
September 29, 2014
May you RIP Jules. We met on the avenue from time to time the last 15 years when you were mixing Bob on his tours. Your kindness, your happy character, your laughter, I will never forget. My condolences you the Aerts family. Think of the good days you shared with Jim, so do I.
Gary Geiger
September 28, 2014
Jules was one of a kind! We should have a view of life as he. He was my friend and I loved him. My deepest condolences to his family and friends! He will never be forgotten!
Doug Harvey
September 28, 2014
Jules made my touring days a delight- everyday i saw you…. you made me smile - Always happy --- I will always remember you as a ray of sunshine . Rest in Peace - Jules
You were larger than life!
Geoff Dubrowsky
September 28, 2014
You will be so missed Cuz. We never had that lost weekend in AC but know you can have it with Robin and I will meet up with you again. I loved You, you made me feel loved!
Amy & Shawn Clayton
September 28, 2014
We are so very sorry for your loss. Our hearts and prayers are with you and your family Carol Ann. You are truly blessed with the beautiful family you have made together. Jules will forever be with you in your heart.
Peter Lloyd
September 28, 2014
From someone who has been to many concerts where Jules was working, the fans all appreciate the way he did his work. Condolences to his family
Jules at work, Molde July 1996
andrea orlandi
September 28, 2014
We first met in Uthica many years ago, having a beer together. We are sure they will definitely have a better sound in Heaven now.
You will be sadly missed
Joe and Vickie Sweeney
September 28, 2014
Wishing love and peace to Carol Ann and family. Jules was a great man. He will be greatly missed but the memories he leaves with all of us will be cherished forever.
Dan Levy
September 28, 2014
I will miss Jules. He was a beautiful cat, just so friendly and helpful, a true gentleman.
Ron Spindell
September 28, 2014
Garden Terrace has lost another favorite son Jules may be gone but will never be forgotten! May God Bless You!
The Baselice Family
September 28, 2014
We are so sorry...Our prayers are with you and your family, Carol Ann.
Pat Roper
September 28, 2014
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Georgianna Johnson
September 28, 2014
My deepest sympathies go out to his family. Having had only a passing encounter he was obviously a kind person and I'm grateful for being a beneficiary of the many years of his working at his craft.
JD Dolinger
September 28, 2014
Or prayers go out to the entire family & friends. The world has lost one of the greatest, kindest men and HE will be GREATLY missed! I LOVE YOU MY BROTHER and thank you for some of my greatest memories. R.I.P. BROTHER for you will be missed by us all. We will meet again! Love & Respect!
September 28, 2014
Our hearts go out to your family. We,ll always remember you for your happy laughing ways. Were sad for your passing. Carole & Art Brzostowski,Fl.
Marc Swersky
September 28, 2014
I am very sorry to hear of Jules passing. Knew him for years from back in the old Fast Lane days and kept up as life marched on. He was a wonderful, earnest and funny man. May he RIP and you all find comfort in knowing his spirit is resting comfortably. Marc S.
Ron Cirillo
September 27, 2014
R.I.P. My old friend you will never be forgotten.
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