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Joseph Palaia Obituary

Joseph James Palaia

AGE: 56 • Asbury Park

Joseph James Palaia, 56, of Asbury Park, passed away Sunday Jan. 24, 2016 at Jersey Shore University Medical Center. Joseph was a former Chief of Investigations at the Attorney General's Office. He was a graduate of Ocean Township High School, Class of 1977.

He was predeceased by his mother Wedell Palaia. Surviving are his loving wife Elizabeth J. Mackay; sons Anthony Palaia and wife Aimee, Adrian Palaia; father Joseph Anthony Palaia former State Senator; sister Denise Palaia; many cousins, extended family, and his cat Mara.

Visitation will be held Thurs. Jan. 28, 2016 from 3pm-8pm at Francioni, Taylor & Lopez Funeral Home, 1200 10th Ave, Neptune. A 10:30am service will be held Fri. Jan. 29, 2016 at the funeral home, internment to follow at Green-Wood Cemetery, Brooklyn, NY. In lieu of flowers please make donations in his name to: Tree House Humane Society, 1212 W. Carmen Ave, Chicago, IL 60640.

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Published by Asbury Park Press on Jan. 27, 2016.

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Jason Levins

July 26, 2020

Our condolences from the Levins Family.

Robert J Lewis

February 22, 2016

Condolences from Lewis family, Wanamassa, NJ

Irene Berthoud-Roake

February 1, 2016

Joe Sr., Denise and family,
So sad to learn of Joe,s passing. He was always kind to everyone he met. Prayers and sympathy to all of you. RIP Joe.

Mary Loew

February 1, 2016

Dear Denise, Joe Sr. and family I was saddened to hear of the death of Joe Jr. . You are in my thoughts and prayers. I am sorry for your loss.

John Weddle

January 30, 2016

My prayers and condolences to the palaia family,

John Weddle

January 30, 2016

My prayers and condolences to the palaia family,

Donald R Vineburg

January 30, 2016

Dear Joe and Denise and the entire Palaia Family. I am dismayed to read of Joe Jr's passing. May he rest in peace and may happy memories comfort you in this difficult time. Don Vineburg

Maureen & JC Maimone

January 29, 2016

Dear Denise and Palaia Family,
We are so sorry for your loss. You are all in our thoughts and prayers. May your many loving memories bring you peace when you need it most.

Sharon Crabtree/milone

January 28, 2016

We never knew each other. But, our Dad's worked together at wanamssa. Just a couple of years ago.I am sure you were so much like your Dad. I send you prayers of peace. For your family prayers of peace and strength.
Sharon Crabtree Milone

Jim and Joan Martin

January 28, 2016

To Denise and Joe Sr and the entire Palaia family. All that we can offer is our sorrow and support during your time of loss. Time will lessen the tears of grief and bring forth the memory of more joyful times.

Charlotte Kelly

January 28, 2016

Dear Denise and Family,

We were saddened to hear of your brother's passing. May the strength of the LORD and the peace that surpasses all understanding be yours at this difficult time.

In His abounding love,

Mark and Charlotte Kelly

Kathi Malta Campanella

January 28, 2016

Dear Joe Sr., Denise and the Palaia family I am saddened to learn of the passing of Joey. Keeping you all in my thoughts and prayers.

john Lord

January 28, 2016

How sad to lose a great guy! I remember him from high school and beyond. He will be missed by many! Special thoughts go to his father. John and Sheila Lord

Tom and Marilyn Gregorin

January 28, 2016

The Tom Gregorin family extends our sympathy to the Palaia family on the passing of Joseph. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Sue Tomo

January 27, 2016

Denise and Family,
So sorry for your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Love, Sue and Mstty Tomo

Stevie Fingers

January 27, 2016

RIP Joey

Chris Houle

January 27, 2016

Dear Palaia family,
I am so sorry for your loss. I'll always have fond memories of Joe from the old neighborhood on Barbara Lane, the fun times at Champagne Porch, etc...my thoughts and prayers are with you all.

The Lazarus Family

January 27, 2016

To the Palaia Family,

So sorry for your loss, our hearts and prayers are with you at this time. He always went out of his way to be so nice to all of us. I know he will be greatly missed. Always keep your loving memories with you and to help you get through these hard times.

DIANE VETRANO

January 27, 2016

To the Palaia Family,
Sorry to hear about the lost of Joey. I Have so many fond many memories of all the fun we had at the Champagne Porch. He will be missed!!
Sincere Sympathy
Diane Vetrano

January 27, 2016

Sharing in your sadness as we remember Joey.
Robin Lowy Embrey & Mindy Lowy Broadbent

January 27, 2016

Such fun memories of growing up around the corner and having Joey to brighten so many of our high school days. Liz, Denise, and Mr. Palaia ... Mick and I send our heartfelt condolences and prayers to all..... Stacy-Epstein Kless ......

Phil Walsh and family

January 27, 2016

Gone to soon. our hearts,love and prayers go out to the Palaias. here to all the good times and the time we will all meet again

Lois Brandwene

January 27, 2016

So sad to see an OTHS classmate go so early. Rest in peace. Condolences

Elaine and AG Saab

January 27, 2016

Liz AG and I send you our deepest sympathy we are thinking of you and know how deep the loss is to you.. We love you very much please call and God Bless we will remember Joe in our prayers and thoughts..

Jo-Ann Blaker

January 27, 2016

You are in my prayers. So sorry for your loss.

Lori Reiter Shery

January 27, 2016

My thoughts and prayers go out to Joey's family. I am so very sorry for your loss. We knew each other from the time we were little kids, and his dad was my principal at Wanamassa School. RIP Joey, you will be missed.

January 27, 2016

The Grisard (James) family (SRHS) sends our condolences to the Palaia family. May your memories of good times shared provide some solace at this time. We are so sorry for your loss.

Donna Izzo-Costello

January 27, 2016

Liz,
The entire Izzo Family is saddened by the loss of your beloved husband, Joe. Sadly, we never got to know him with our lives being so spread apart and only meeting him for the first time last February at Mom's funeral. I have spoken to all the Izzo kids and we all extend our deepest sympathies. We all send our love. Donna & Frank

Robin Whitney, Mike & Tom Vignola

January 27, 2016

Deepest sympathies to the entire Palaia family; Rest in Peace Joe.

MARK BAHARY

January 27, 2016

RIP JOEY, YOU WILL SURELY BE MISSED.HAD GREAT MEMORIES GROWING UP.SURE WE WILL MEET BACK UP SOME DAY

January 27, 2016

Most sincere condolences and prayers from our family to yours. We shared so many happy and fun memories that will last a lifetime. You remain in our hearts and minds forever. Wishing you eternal peace, Joey.

Johnny-O and family

Howard O'Neil

January 27, 2016

My condolences to the Palaia family. May God give you comfort during this time of great sorrow.

January 27, 2016

Dear Palaia Family,
Our hearts and prayer are with you all at this difficult time. We had so many good memories and laughs with Joey. He will be missed.
Candace and Big Bill

Sam Riello

January 27, 2016

Dear Mr Palaia and Denise,
I am truly sorry for your loss. You have always been very good to me and you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

January 27, 2016

The Marmora Family sends their deepest condolences and prayers to Joe Sr.,Denise and famiily

DENNIS GALAYDA

January 27, 2016

My condolences to the PALAIA FAMILY.
It was an honor to have known such a great person & friend.(I will always recall the days@ JOJO PLAYERS.)Joey will be missed & he will never be forgotten.RIP Joey Love & Prayers

Kathy OConnell

January 27, 2016

The O'Connell family sends our deepest condolences to the Palaia family. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

The Pizzonia Family

January 27, 2016

Our deepest sympathy to the family of Joseph J. Palaia. He and his loved ones will be in our prayers.

January 27, 2016

Our sincere condolences to Denise, Joe and the entire Palaia family. May your memories of him always remain sweet.
~~Dawn and Dave Concilio~~

P. Rehmann

January 27, 2016

Rest in peace, Joe

tris pisarcik

January 26, 2016

my heart cries for your love ones

Stephan & Theresa Lowy

January 26, 2016

Its difficult to imagine you will no longer brighten our world. We love you Joey and I thank you for all the love you shared with us.you made all our lives better just being part of it we will meet again someday my friend.and have more wonderful stories to share.

Keith and Gail Lowy

January 26, 2016

a life too short. We will celebrate again when we see you Joe. You are forever loved

RUTH AND GENE LOWY

January 26, 2016

so many wonderful memories, gone much to soon. prayers go out to THE PALAIA FAMILY...ALWAYS IN OUR HEARTS, WITH LOVE RUTH AND GENE LOWY

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