Arnold Hamm Obituary
ARNOLD K. HAMM
AGE: 57 DELANCO
Arnold K. Hamm, 57, died Sunday, Nov. 22, 2009 at home. Born in Plainfield, he lived there until moving to Delanco four years ago. He was a 1970 graduate of Plainfield High School and attended Tusculum College in Greenville, Tenn. He was a former policeman with the Plainfield police dept. He was also the owner of Hamm Security in Plainfield and at the time of his death was employed with the NJ Dept. of Human Services in Trenton. Arnold was a member of Union Baptist Church in Trenton and a former member of Calvary Baptist Church in Plainfield where he was a former trustee, member of the gospel choir and a founding member of the Monroe Ave. Family Development Corp. His community memberships were as follows: member of Stone Square Lodge #38 F.&A.M. P.H.A. in Plainfield, Alpha Phi Alpha Fraternity, Inc., Faith, Bricks & Mortar in Plainfield and Black Issues Conference (BIC) in Newark where he was one of the founders.
Surviving are a daughter, Kate-Ellyn Hamm; a granddaughter, Victoria Paige Hamm; his parents, Avery and Lois Mitchell; a sister, Elvera Mitchell; a nephew, Michael Mitchell; a niece, NaKera Thorze and a host of other relatives and friends.
Funeral Sat. 9am in Calvary Baptist Church, 324 Monroe Ave., Plainfield. Viewing Fri. 6-9pm in the church. Interment, Franklin Memorial Park, North Brunswick. Arrangements by Brown's Funeral Home, Plainfield. Condolences may be expressed at brownsfuneralhome.net.
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Kyle Williamson
November 19, 2020
Thanks God for you. Your spirit has touched the lives of so many. Your legacy lives on in us. Rest well Godfather
November 19, 2020
SIP My Friend!
Felicia B
November 19, 2019
Love Always!
Pam Copper-Parrish
November 29, 2012
Gone too soon, but always in our hearts and prayers. Big Guy, you are deeply missed.
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November 27, 2012
3rd Anniversary in Heaven
Arnold K. Hamm
07/15/1952-11/22/2009
Blessed be the tie that
binds our hearts in Christian love, the fellowship of kindred minds is like to that above. We give glory to God during this season of Thanksgiving, for the
life of Arnold.
"Always In Our Hearts"
Mom-Lois,
Dad-Avery, Sister-Elvera, Daughter-Kate, Granddaughter-Tori, Niece-Na'Kera, Nephews
Mike and Chase
.Published in Courier News on November 22, 2012
Felicia B.
November 21, 2010
Hey Arnold,
It's been one year since you departed from us in flesh. But you are still looking out for us in heaven, so thank you. Thank you for your love and protection. We love you & miss you! Love Always, Felicia B.
September 21, 2010
Just returned from CBC Legislative Weekend-Missed you in your usual place,
catch up time and of course "the hat"!
With Love and Prayers for your family. Tina Woodson
August 3, 2010
Happy 58th Birthday Arnold on July 15th, 2010! May you rest in peace. Love Always, (B&B)
May 21, 2010
Gone to soon my friend! But I know that you are watching over us, so thank you. Love Always, (B&B)
March 15, 2010
I miss you Arnold but thank you. Thank you for everything. Thank you for your love, warmth, support, kindness, wisdom, patience and giving. You were one of a kind. Thank you for all of the beautiful relationships that you left behind for me. Thank you for your guidance and protection. I love you and miss you dearly. Love Always, (B&B)
Mary E Davidson
January 8, 2010
I have been trying to reach Arnold and went to his FACEBOOK page, there I learned that he had gone to God. Arnold was always there when I needed a friend and even when I did not know I needed one! I shall always remember him and appreciate his kind and giving heart. God Bless Him, I shall always remember him with love and affection and shall miss him. God Keep Him in Your Care. Dr. Mary Edna Davidson, San Francisco, California
December 28, 2009
Happy Holidays & Rest In Peace My Friend!
Arnold K. Hamm, Sharpest Mind
December 12, 2009
Arnold K. Hamm, Best Dresser
December 12, 2009
Athena Reid
December 11, 2009
I met Arnold at a BIC convention, I was young and had no idea what the heck I was doing when he took me under his wing. I have never felt so safe and he alway reassured me that I could do what ever I wanted. He was my go to person when I became the Secretary for the Newark branch of the NAACP, He talked to me when i was leaving a destructive relationship; he reminded me that God was with me and that i would pull thru. He was my good friends when I had a health scare.....He made me laugh. I only heard today that he was taken, had moved on to a greater place... I was so shaken that I took off the rest of the day from work. It was around my birthday he had rented a beach house for his family but would be there to use all the days and offered me and some friends to come down to relax....I really wish I would have. I feel so sad for his families loss....especially his grand baby.....She will never get to feel the full coverage of the love he had for her. I'm glad they got to meet......I will drink a glass of wine for my friend, I will try not to be too sad he wouldn't want that.......so, unitl we meet again.
Arnold K. Hamm and NJ Governor Jon S. Corzine at the NJ Black Issues Convention (NJBIC) on 10/09/08.
December 10, 2009
Felicia
December 10, 2009
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2009
Arnold K. Hamm and NJ Governor Jon S. Corzine at the NJ Black Issues Convention (NJBIC) on 10/09/08.
December 10, 2009
Felicia
December 10, 2009
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2009
Faith Howard-Johnson
December 9, 2009
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.
Steven Shearod
December 9, 2009
Dear Hamm family, I knew your father becuase of work we both did with "Soul Brothers Productions Co." He has always been a great encouraging spirit to me. I routinely would bump into him in the NY / NJ airports and he would run me down to give me a huge bear hug. He was a warm and caring man, who loved people. Heaven rejoices at his arrival and I pray God's peace and grace for each of you.
Love,
Steve Shearod
Atlanta, GA
Kyle Williamson
December 8, 2009
Dear Kate Ellen and family, Your father was a very special man. He blessed many near and far. As my Godfather, he has guided me through the years even beyond the passing of both of my parents. I thank God for giving him to us to share his wonderful outlook on life and he will be forever missed. Many blessings to you, little Vicotria, to your grandparents and extended family. He has gone home to be with his Saviour, who we all know he loved. RIP Godfather, your legacy will live forever.
Ralph Melendez
December 7, 2009
The Bridge To Recovery of Union County hereby nominates Mr. Arnold Hamm as the 'Song of the Year' because his memories keep on singing long after the music stops. Rest in peace with our sincere condolences to family and friends!
Lee Anne Stradford
December 6, 2009
To the Hamm and Mitchell families:
Arnold was a giant! He had a bold personality, and his presence was commanding! He had the sharpest mind of anyone I've ever known, and he possessed a multitude of talent. He loved the beautiful things in life, but most importantly he loved GOD.
Arnold became a member of my family when my dad passed in 2006. He guided me through this difficult period, and he remained steadfast until his passing.
I was so devestated to learn of his departure because I had just spoken to Arnold @6:15 am on the day of his transition. I knew he was ill, but he told me he was feeling better. He asked me to check on him later on in the day, and when I called a little after 12 noon, he was gone.
I can only say that this man was "incredibly special," and he meant the world to me. He loved and adored his family, and he was passionate about life! I could share endless stories, but I'd rather just reflect on his wonderful smile, his sense of humor, and selfless acts of kindness.
Arnold will never be forgotten, and his legacy lives on. May GOD bless this precious man forever.
Gale
December 4, 2009
To the Family,
Thank you for sharing Arnold with all of us. K, your father was a wonderful man who cared about all those he met. Just thinking of our last conversation, always able to laugh and learn something new whenever we had a chance to talk. I will miss him, but each day I thank God for allowing me to meet such a wonderful 'giant". RIP, we will meet, again.
Karen Jordan
December 2, 2009
Arnold Hamm was my friend and my brother. He always kept me connected with everyone's whereabouts and the news, Plainfield and beyond. He never complained and always said "I'm Blessed" I missed a phone call and now I miss my friend. May God hold hold the family in his previous hands and remember his laughter and big smile. I will look for him on the other side. Much Love to our extended Family. 732-422-2171
Rev. Pamela Jones
December 1, 2009
Arnold Hamm was a precious vessel appearing and making contributions to every human service meeting/organization that he possibly could. It's his turn to receive his rewards and to wear the robe and the crown he so well deserves. His memory lives on in many hearts and family be encouraged to know that his love lives on.
Susan Smith
December 1, 2009
My deepest sympathy to the family of Arnold Hamm. He will be missed as he was a tireless community advocate. - Susan Smith, Pres., Roselle, Roselle Park and Linden Inter-Faith Council of Churches.
Know that we will all meet again if we just keep the faith.
Lester Washington
December 1, 2009
To the Hamm and Mitchell Family: Nehemiah 8:1 "And all the people gathered themselves together as one man before the water gate". This was the way Arnold could gather and unite the people. I was a classmate as well as a friend of Arnold and we recently became reacquainted because he was mobilizing all of us for our 40th year high school reunion. We spoke of God and old times. He was always a giant and as I called him "Mr Plainfield"; he will be deeply missed at our reunion.
A friend always
Kim Peterson
December 1, 2009
Hello Family,
I still cannot beleive that Arnold is up above us and having fun securing heaven. Vida Gillett-Gaddy tried to contact me for my brothers info to continue the Reunion Committee that Arnold was on. Terry's number is 845-389-4271
November 30, 2009
I was so sadded to hear of Arnold's passing...he was a dear friend and mentor. I will be missed. ..and to the family please know that he loved you all dearly and spoke of you often. May God continue to carry you through this trying time. With heart felt sympathy, Joretta Strayhorn
Susan Carter Fowler
November 30, 2009
My deepest sympathy goes out to the family of Arnold.
Susan Carter Fowler
November 28, 2009
Our sincere condolences to Lois ,Elvira , Kate and Victoria. Arnold will always be remembered, always be missed and always be loved. Our prayers and our thoughts are with you.
Sincerely,
Yvonne Barber-Jones
Mrs. Mary Barber
Cynthia Calhoun-Preston
November 27, 2009
To the Hamm and Mitchell Family:
Our prayers are with you during this time. May God Bless you all!
The Calhoun Family
November 27, 2009
Our deepest sympathy to the Hamm and Mitchell Families. May God bless you and keep you .
Hughes Family -Plainfield, NJ
November 27, 2009
To the Hamm and Mitchell Families: Our prayers are with you during this time. Arnold was a good person and the angels are surely rejoicing in heaven on his arrival.
Andrea Kee and Clifton Patterson
November 26, 2009
President Obama once said that "focusing your life solely on making a buck shows a certain poverty of ambition. It asks too little of yourself. Because it's only when you hitch your wagon to something larger than yourself that you realize your true potential." Arnold Hamm was truly a man who believed in being a part of something bigger than himself. A man who was devoted to helping others. I knew Arnold professionally but was recently surprised to find out that he and my grandfather Archie were first cousins. He will be deeply missed and our heartfelt sympathies are with his family and friends. Please accept our sincere condolences from Brian, Monique & Sekou Viehland, Donna King-Butler, Archie Dildy and Herbert Priester.
Tonja Lee
November 26, 2009
My deepest condolences to the Hamm & Mitchell familily. They have known me since I was a child on Willever St. I have seen Arnold on and off recently attending various events in Plainfield. Always the same cheerful person. He spoke at my Nana's funeral a few years back and spoke with so much poise and passion. He will truly be missed.
Pam Copper Parrish
November 26, 2009
My deepest sympathies to the Hamm/Mitchell family. Arnold was and always will be a treasured friend. He was a gift to all that knew him. May you find peace and comfort knowing others share in your loss. He rests in the arms of Jesus. Love, Pam Copper Parrish (formely of Plfd, NJ)
Bob Schneider
November 26, 2009
Arnold has always been with me and always will be with me. I send my condolences to the Hamm family and I morn with you all.
Lucille Cerretta
November 26, 2009
I send my sincere sympathy to the Hamm family. Arnold will always be a larger than life force. We have all learned from Arnold. Last he teaches us, we should all be as happy as he was when we met our maker. We can be comforted in knowing Arnold will be one of the first to greet us on the other side. God Bless his family and watch over them like Arnold would.
Gail Frazier
November 26, 2009
To the family of Arnold Hamm, look to the hills from which cometh your help, your help comes from the Lord. May God bless you with the strength and comfort you need. I graduated from PHS in 1970 with Arnold. He was always such a nice and caring person, with the biggest heart and smile. He will be missed but never forgotten.
Rev. Stefanie Minatee
November 25, 2009
To the Family of Arnold K. Hamm,
I met Arnold Hamm many years ago. His tall stature, articulate speaking voice, and embracing smile will always be remembered. Arnold worked closely with my uncle, the late Donald K. Tucker, at NJBIC (New Jersey Black Issues Convention) We would see each other every year. I just saw him this past October. We embraced and said "it's good to see you". Now, I'm sure, he is organizing with Uncle Donald in glory! R.I.P. Arnold, I'll see you, Rick Taylor, and uncle Donald on the other side! I will continue to keep the family lifted in prayer. Earth has no sorrow heaven cannot heal. God Bless.
Paige & Ed Bailey
November 25, 2009
May God bring you comfort and strength in this time of grief. I was a classmate of Arnold's in Plainfield and will always cherish those memories of kindness and his always bright look on life. He was a ray of sunshine that would brighten any room. We had just seen him at the PHS 69 reunion and could not miss that infectious smile of his, that huge bear hug that he would give you, I will cherish and remember. I know that God has gotten a special angel to continue to oversee things down here. We will miss him, and keep him and his family in our prayers and thoughts always.
November 25, 2009
To the Family of Arnold K. Hamm
I wish for you - during this difficult time the peace of God which passeth all understanding. I will remember, Arnold - my classmate,as the eternal optimist and hope filled person. When you saw him and asked how he was, his answer was always- not sometimes- Blessed. So consider it a blessing for us to have known him and been able to spend this earthly time with him.
MaryAnn Anderson for the Anderson Family
November 25, 2009
"The Mitchell&Hamm Family,please accept our sincere sympathy on the death of your love one".Herman&Ella Stewart(Alpharetta,Ga.)
Barry Wallace
November 25, 2009
To the Mitchell and Hamm Family,
May you be blessed with Love and strength in your time of sorrow. My
Family and I send our deepest and sincerest condolences.
Rochelle Pettiford
November 25, 2009
My condolences to all the family and friends. Arnold was a great man. He would help anyone. I worked for him when he owned the Child's Play Christian Daycare Center in South Plainfield. He will be missed. Kaiara and Kairelle send their condolences too.
Melba Colon
November 25, 2009
My sincere condolences to the family. You will all be in my prayers. May the Holy Spirit comfort you in this time. I will surely miss you Arnold. You were an ecouragement in my walk with the Lord, every morning! Now you are truly blessed cause you are face to face with the Lord. Love always, Sister Melba Colon
K. Smith
November 25, 2009
No words can express the amount of sorrow that we feel at the loss of Arnold Hamm. What a wonderful man. To the Hamm and Mitchell Families, we pray that God continues to give you strength and peace during this difficult time. Know that your loved one is in the best place possible and this is not goodbye but see you later in eternity. May his legacy and your memories be a comfort to you.
With Deepest Sympathy,
The Peterson Family
Plainfield, NJ
MR & MRS WILCOX
November 25, 2009
May God give you peace durning this time of bereavement-Wikcox in Detroit
Deaconess Silvia Miller & Family
November 25, 2009
TO THE MITHCELL AND HAMM FAMILY,
My deepest sympathy and love to each of you in your sorrow. May God's LOVE, PEACE AND GRACE sustain each of you now and in the days ahead as you cope with your loss.
Each of you will continue to be in my thoughts and prayers.
Love and God Bless,
Lillian Mobley
November 25, 2009
May the peace of our heavenly Father comfort you and your family during this time of sorrow.
RR Davis
November 25, 2009
On behalf of the Davis family, I wish to express our sincere regrets on the untimely passing of Arnold Hamm.
I have known Arnold since high school. Even then he was enthusiastic and active in school and community organizations. Arnold channeled that positive energy into a lifelong passion of helping others and improving social conditions. He was an exemplary beacon of integrity and representative of the best Plainfield can offer.
To Mrs. Mitchell, Mr. Mitchell, Elvera, his daughter and all who loved him, be assured that God will be with you at this time—and always!
Sylvia D. Bennett
November 25, 2009
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Alphonza & Fatima James
November 25, 2009
May the peace of God bring you comfort during this time.
Kim and Connie Peterson
November 25, 2009
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Felicia
November 25, 2009
My heartfelt sympathy goes out to the family of Arnold. He was a wonderful man, a devoted father, son, brother and friend. To his daughter, Kate-Ellyn, stay strong, your father was a giant of a man. He was a loving, kind and generous father and grandfather to you and Victoria. To Mrs. Lois and Mr. Avery, Arnold was more than a son but he was also your best friend. He adored and always honored his mother. You can always tell the quality of a man by the way he treats his mother and children. Arnold was a quality man and he took manhood to another level. He was devoted to his family on every level.
As a friend, he was a devoted and kind friend. He was a great listener and giver of wise advice. Arnold would pray with you, cry with you, laugh with you and tell you the truth the next moment. He was not the one, who would bite his tongue. His laughter was loud and echo throughout the room. He had a great mind and was politically savvy. He knew everyone. I was blessed to have known him in this lifetime. There is nothing that will ever be written that would do justice to a great man, such as Arnold. One had to experience the life of Arnold Keith Hamm to appreciate him, his life and the people that he touched.
Felicia
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