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Alexander Lapinski Obituary
QUEENS, N.Y. – Retired U.S. Marine Corps Colonel Alexander J. Lapinski, Esquire, passed away on Nov. 19, 2014, in Queens.
Mr. Lapinski was the eldest of five sons to Alexander and Maryanna Orzechowski Lapinski. He was a member of the 1949 graduating class of Exeter High School, where he excelled in basketball, football and baseball, earning a basketball scholarship to King's College, Wilkes-Barre. He subsequently transferred to St. John's University, Brooklyn, New York, where he earned a Bachelor of Arts degree. He then served several years of active duty as an officer in the U.S. Marine Corps.
After his seperation from active duty, he earned his law degree from Brooklyn Law School and embarked on a distinguished career in the practice of law for more than 40 years.
He was preceded in death by his parents and brother, Joseph J.
He is survived by his life partner, Nijole; brothers, Frank (Julie), Paul and John (Deborah).
Colonel Lapinski will be laid to rest with full military honors in Arlington National Cemetery, Arlington, Virginia. Visiting hours will be 2 to 4 and 7 to 9 p.m. Wednesday at the Kodis Funeral Home, 63-06 Flushing Ave., Maspeth, New York, 718-326-1658.
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for Alexander Lapinski
Dallas
December 14, 2024
I didn´t know Alexander Lapinski, but today I had the honor of laying his wreath for him for Wreaths Across America. I will never forget your name, your duties and sacrifices . Thank you immensely for your service Col. Lapinski and may you rest in peace.
- Dallas
Jim Jackson
November 30, 2014
Some of my fondest memories are of sitting around after work with Al and Joe, talking about golf, baskeball and law (of course). He made a lasting impression, and I am glad we had a chance to reconnect a few years ago. I will miss him.
Andrew Chismar
November 29, 2014
I remember Al, and always admired him.
I remember the whole family and believe Al was a shining example of true integrity and family spirit.
November 29, 2014
Dear Dad, Uncle Frank and Uncle John,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all during this time of loss.
Love, Sue, Ron, Taylor and Ashley
November 29, 2014
Dear Nijole,
So sorry to hear of Uncle Al's passing. We are thinking of you and hope the thoughts, prayers and support of family and friends will help comfort you during this time of loss. Reflect often on the cherished memories...it helps during the difficult times we all face when losing a loved one. Our sincere sympathy.
Love, Sue(Lapinski), Ron, Taylor and Ashley Kingsbury
November 29, 2014
Dear Nijole, Uncle Frank, Dad and Uncle John,
We were so sorry to hear of the passing of Uncle Al. Please know you are in our thoughts.
Love,
Tricia, Troy and Ben
November 29, 2014
Dear Dad,Uncle Frank & Uncle John,
Thinking of you and wishing you moments of peace and comfort during this time of sorrow. With sincere sympathy.
Love~ Mary,Curt,Michael & Natalie
Mary (Lapinski) Crumb
November 29, 2014
Dear Nijole,
We are thinking of you at this very difficult time. We hope, in time, all the good memories will comfort you.
Our love~ Mary(Lapinski),Curt, Michael & Natalie Crumb
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