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Lynn Messer-Houghton Obituary
Lynn Messer-Houghton Bonita Springs, FL
Lynn Messer-Houghton, 52, from Grand Haven, MI and Bonita Springs, FL, went to be with our Lord on Wednesday, November 9, 2011 after losing her battle with cancer.
She has left behind her husband Jason Houghton. Their devotion to each other was unequalled. Also left behind are her sons, Joshua Starr of Indiana and Aaron Quinones of California; her mother, Margaret Korcz of Michigan; sisters, Joellen Messer of Vermont, Nancy Nagtzaam of Michigan and Susan Messer Mankoski of Florida; and two grandchildren, Claire and Alexander Starr.
She was preceded in death by her father, Jerry Messer and stepfather, Norbert "Bert" Korcz.
Lynn was a sharing, caring individual and a loving mother and wife. She was quick to forgive, the longest hugger and truly cared for people, never saying no to helping anyone.
In lieu of a service or donations, Lynn would like you to "Pay it Forward" by being kind to others and helping family, friends and strangers to make their lives easier.
Arrangements by Shikany's Bonita Funeral Home
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Jason
November 4, 2025
14 years. One more year and it would catching up to how long we had been married. Knowing her beliefs, I hope and pray she is with God. J.
Jason.
November 6, 2023
It´s almost impossible to believe 12 years have gone by, and since then we have lost others that we love. So, be sure to tel those we care about that we love them, we never know the last time we say those words to those we love and care about. Kindness and love matter.
Jason
November 4, 2022
Wow, 11 years. Time is strange, it can seem like a lifetime ago, or a blink of an eye, and can change by the hour. I hope Heaven is all that she hoped for.
J H
February 12, 2020
Cant believe 9 years have elapsed. Time does heal all wounds, but its the scars that will always show.
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Jason Houghton
November 9, 2016
5 years. Hard to believe it's been that long.
God's Love for us All
Jason Houghton
December 10, 2012
December 9, 2012
Love, Mother
Jason Houghton
December 8, 2012
My honey, my love, my pooky,
I miss you so much, I smell your clothes and miss you all the more.
I bought a long pillow and put it in the bed, and put my back to it and imagine you were there. I wake up holding it, like the many time I woke up holding you, memories flood back with the reality and its so hard.
I miss you so much, your encouragement, long hugs, the love you had for me.
I wish and pray that I'm with you and that I don't have to wait to long.
I love you pooky,
Jason "hubby, hubster".
December 7, 2012
Lynn, I have been re-reading all the wonderful memories of your life and now during the holidays you bring back so many we shared.This seems even more difficult after 1 year and still do not want to accept your passing. Keep those hugs out for me. I will be there soon and we can share our love again. Mother
Jason Houghton
December 5, 2012
I miss you so much, I love you so much. Hubby. xoxoxo
Bruce Bishop
November 14, 2011
Lynn's Family;
Please know that many of Lynn's class mates from Grand Haven are holding you in their hearts and prayers. Lynn's wish for "paying it forward" will be honored with her in mind. May wonderful memories comfort you all during this difficult time of transition.
Patty Andrea
November 14, 2011
I was a friend of Lynn's back in grade school and junior high and I am so very sorry to hear about her passing . . . I wanted to get down there to see her but I'm glad that we had a chance to re-connect over this past year. Her family is in my thoughts at this difficult time. Patty Gardner Andrea
Tom DeGram
November 14, 2011
I have so many fond memories of growing up in our neighborhood and Lynn was a part of all of it. I remember countless hours on the trampoline in Lynn's backyard. My heart sank when I heard the news. Thanks for all the memories Lynn.
Rosie Paris
November 14, 2011
Sorry for your loss. I only knew Lynn through her Mother, Margaret. Lynn will rest in peace in God's arms always.
Adrian Jones
November 13, 2011
I can tell how much mom meant to my friend Josh, and the family will be in my heart. What a great wish for us all to Pay it Forward.
Aaron Endré
November 13, 2011
Mom, where do I begin? I guess I'll start with I love you and miss you. And please don't worry — we'll be just fine.
You know, we're a lot alike, you and me. You never did something just because someone told you to. I don't either. You give unsolicited advice (much of which is good). Me too. You stand up for your beliefs in the face of criticism. I learned that from you.
There's a lot that I've learned from you — things I'll take with me forever. Things that have made me a strong, independent man. And there's things that I credit you with that I can only hope to aspire to be: completely open and honest, kind and compassionate, forgiving, relentlessly loving.
I know that it was one of your wishes to be a good Mom and looking at Josh and I, I think I can say that you've succeeded. Unconventional or unlikely as it may have been, we turned out OK. And we'll be ok.
I feel so fortunate that I had the chance to be with you, even if only for nine hours, when you passed. People said you waited for me. I'm glad you did. I know that you heard what I said to you; I know that you felt me there. I have so much still to share with you: the joyful moments, the painful moments, the moments that make you laugh. But I also know that you'll still be there.
Don't worry, I won't remember the "cancer" you. I'll always remember you as the soft, sweet-smelling, bright-eyed, belly-laughing Mom that I know. That's your legacy.
Love always,
Your "Dudie"
Margaret Korcz
November 13, 2011
To my beloved youngest daughter. I want you to know how much I have always loved you from my heart even though I had a difficult time expressing this to you. Wait for me and maybe we will be together in Heaven and can hold hands again and give hugs.....My heart and love will be with you always. ~Mother
Mark Phillips
November 13, 2011
Wow, so shocked to hear of Lynn's passing, I've been out of touch with you and your family for too long for living in such close proximity. Grief can be difficult at times, your friends can help sustain you. Call on me if I can do anything.
Christine Matych
November 13, 2011
Shocked and saddened to hear about Lynn's battle with cancer. We were friends in grade school. Please accept my heartfelt deepest sympathy. Christine Walek-Matych
Bridget Blough
November 13, 2011
Love you Aaron...May you always remember and never forget...You were a great son to her, she is proud looking down at you! XOXOX
Jan Mangrum
November 12, 2011
So very sorry for your loss, Jason. No words I can say will be conforting at this time but please know that I will pray for your strength to make it through this time in your life. Much love to you and your family.
Jason Houghton
November 11, 2011
My darling wife Lynn,
I miss your voice, your touch, you next to me and every where I look I see you.
My heart aches so much since God called you home that words cannot describe this profound loss I feel.
You were my inspiration on what goodness really was, and demonstrated that every day, and to so many people that you have helped, even when you were battling with cancer.
You inspired me on what it is to be a Christian, and I was always amazed by the sheer strength of your faith.
Our last words, when I leaned over and whispered in your ear, "I love you" and you found the strength to say, "I love you too". While I will always treasure that, it hurts so much.
We told each other many times a day that we loved each other, and I know that you knew that I love you more than anything in this world, and I knew without a shadow of a doubt that you loved me the same.
You truly were a gift from God and what a blessing to have you.
I wish that we could have grown old together like we both wished, but God called you home.
I love you honey and I always will.
Love always,
Jason, "hubby, hubster"
Jessica Houghton
November 11, 2011
Jason, thinking of you all, love you jess, Tom Millie and josh xx
Steve Arsenault
November 11, 2011
Jason, words cannot express how sorry I am for your loss. Know that you are always in our thoughts and prayers.
Take care and God bless.
Jason Houghton
November 11, 2011
My darling wife, I miss you so much, it's unbearable not to hear your voice. I know that you knew that I love you, and you also knew that I felt your love deeply. We spoke of our love for each other all the time and I have comfort in that and also that you are with God in perfect peace, love and joy.
You lite up my life and others like no one could, you helped the helpless and always put other before yourself. You are my inspiration on how to treat people and also an inspiration on what a Christian should be.
My heart is broken, and I've never known pain like this, but I promised you I would remember the happy times, our laughs where we would cry laughing.
Well my soulmate, until we meet again in heaven.
I love you, and always will,
Jason, "hubby"
Maria Starr
November 11, 2011
Dear Jason, Joshua and Aaron:
I'm so sorry for your loss. May your fond memories of Lynn be a comfort to you during this particularly difficult time of year to lose a loved one before the Holidays.
November 11, 2011
Dear Jason and family, we are thinking of you all, we will miss lynn so much, our dear sister in law,we have so many happy memories, our hearts are breaking for you and with you, all our love always, gary and sharon Houghton xxxxxxxx
Joshua Starr
November 11, 2011
Mom, you were always a calm port in the storm of life and it's hard to not feel adrift at times. I want you to know that you affected me in a positive way and made me strive to be the best person I can be. I will deeply miss our late night chats and the laughter that we always found. You are loved and always will be. Let love light your way always. I miss you so much already mom.
Love, Joshie
Anne Renaud
November 11, 2011
I have happy memories of the one time I met Lynn, at her son Aaron's 21st birthday party. Her love for her family was clear, and her open and colorful personality was delightful. Rest in Peace.
Diana Walker
November 10, 2011
Jason, if only I had the words to lighten your heart but all I can say is how very, very sorry I am to hear of your loss. You and Lynn had a very special bond and she was a beautiful person. Keep that beautiful memory alive.
Lin Kullick
November 10, 2011
Thinking of you, Jason, and remembering how lovely Lynn was... Wishing you loving and peaceful memories--
Lin Kullick
November 10, 2011
Thinking of you, Jason, and remembering how lovely Lynn was... Wishing you loving and peaceful memories, Lin Kullick xoxo
Andrea Skelton
November 10, 2011
Dear Jason and Family,
We mourn the loss of our great friend, master of hugs, full of very important advice and ALWAYS there to listen and help us with anything we asked. We are going to miss Lynn so much. Our hearts are breaking for all of you. We love all of you, please let us know if there is anything we can do.
Jim, Ange and Family xxxooo
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