To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
Ed Robinson
May 19, 2010
Jay was a very cool dude...I liked him a lot. Gone but not forgotten.
Pat & Ann Patterson
May 18, 2010
Dear Debbie, Jayson, Jayme and family,
We were saddened to hear of Jay's passing. Jay's smile and upbeat nature will be fondly remembered as well as his ability to help his neighbors at a moments notice. We loved how he would stop by for a neighborly chat and the parties he and Debbie threw at their lovely home.
Sincerely, Pat, Ann and Kyle Patterson
Wild Rose Circle neighbors
May 18, 2010
I was deeply saddened to hear about Jay's passing, Please accept my sympathy, and know that my love, thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
Jay was the BEST and I have so many wonderful memories of him. I was blessed to have worked with and for him throughout his career at LPIH. He truly was "Mr. Rehab" and created a Rehab unit second to none in Southern Calif.
May the Lord bless and comfort all of you during this difficult time. Let your hearts be filled with loving memories and joyful times together.
Love, Deanna Rennich
May 11, 2010
May 11, 2010
We were deeply saddened to hear about Jay's passing. He was such a kind and gentle person and would do anything to help someone in need.
We will always remember his wedding shower at our home in Cerritos, and how much he enjoyed being soaked in the pool by his many LPIH friends.
May God bless you and watch over your family, and may your memories bring you comfort during this difficult time.
Ingrid and Ron Humphrey
May 10, 2010
Please accept my deepest sympathy in the passing of a true gentleman and a wonderful person to work with during our career days at LPIH. I can close my eyes and envision so many moments we shared in trying to make LPIH an outstanding facility. May your family be blessed with so many special memories as well.
Nancy Machado
luanna cancino La Palma Hospital
May 10, 2010
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Jennifer (Church) Firmin
May 9, 2010
My memories of Jay are so many, as our families spent many years camping together in Tuolumne Meadows. We had such fun fishing and hiking, and playing cards at night around the campfire. May you feel comfort in the love that is sent to you at this difficult time. My condolences to all of the Hilmer family.
April 30, 2010
My condolences to Jay's wife and family. I met Jay in his Chico/ONR days and we enjoyed a friendly rivalry in competing companies. He usually won. I am glad he found a happy ending to his career. He was a good man whose work made many lives better. I regret I could not see him one more time. Rest in peace Mr. Hilmer. Jeff Garbutt, Folsom,CA
Judy & Steve Abbott
April 29, 2010
Debbie, we are so sorry to hear about Jay. We have fond memories of you, Jay and your family and all those softball days in Chico. Are thoughts are with you.
KL & Carol Johnson
April 29, 2010
We were so sorry to hear of Jay's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with Debbie and the kids. We know how hard it will be without Jay. May your memories bring you comfort and get you through this difficult time.
Mac Murray
April 29, 2010
I had the honor of being Debbie and Jay's neighbor for a few years in Chico and it is a very sad day to lose someone as great a person as Jay. I wish the best for the family and will always cherish those Margarita's by their pool and the great times we had.
All the best. Mac Murray - Chico
Showing 1 - 11 of 11 results

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?
Read more
We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.
Read more
Information and advice to help you cope with the death of someone important to you.
Read moreIf you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.
Read more
Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.
Read more
You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.
Read more
These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.
Read more
Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.
Read more