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Samuel Holmes Obituary
Sam was born in Springfield, MO, on November 3, 1997. He passed away Friday March 17th after ending his own life. He possessed a kind and clever sense of humor, and never had a bad word to say about anybody. He fought a long battle with anxiety and depression, and the decision to escape his pain was the one time he put himself first. Sam lived a full life, excelling in everything he did. He played golf since he was four, and competed for Glendale High School - where he helped take his team to the state title and finished fifth individually and was proud to compete for the Missouri State University Golf Team. He was a deep thinker who touched many lives with his quiet, supportive demeanor. He loved animals, especially his Doberman Bruno.
He was proceeded in death by his grandmother Joanne Foutty, and grandfather David Holmes. He is survived by his parents Mary Jane and Tim Holmes, and elder sibling Mary Scott of Springfield; his aunt and uncle, Mike and Karen Dreyer, their children Kacki and Jack, of Leawood, Kansas; his grandmother Sue of Springfield; his grandparents Toni Arnett and Sam Arnett of Lubbock, Texas; his grandfather John Foutty of Florida; and his additional extended family and many friends.
Visitation will be held at Gorman-Scharpf Funeral Home, on Tuesday March 21st, from 5pm - 7pm. A Funeral Service will be held at The Venues, 2616 E. Battlefield, on Wednesday March 22nd at 2pm.
In lieu of flowers please make donations to the Missouri State Foundation - Men's Golf Team, Kenneth E. Meyer Alumni Center, 300 South Jefferson, Suite 100, Springfield, MO 65806
To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
Memories and Condolences
for Samuel Holmes
Sponsored by Gorman-Scharpf Funeral Home, Inc. - Springfield.
Nicholas Hirsch
January 18, 2018
In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.
My beatiful brother Ernie
Deedra Beck
November 18, 2017
I am so sorry for the loss of your beautiful boy. I did not know him, but I wish I had. I recently learned about your son and his death from a recent Newsleader article about closing the gap in mental health services.
Sam's story deeply resonated with me, as I see my beatiful younger brother in his story. I lost my brother, Ernie, in 2006. He suffered with anxiety and depression from his teens extending into adulthood. He was active in gymnastics as a youth and loved to draw. His favorite classical music artist was Vivaldi and he appreciated works of art by Modigliani.
I did everything I knew to help him; however, I felt very much alone. It was terrifying. He died from alcohol abuse at the age of 38. A part of me died with him that day in July.
I was angry. I could not get anyone to see that at the core of his disease was mental/emotional. He needed help quickly to save his life.
I will always wonder if there were more I could have done.
I hope you do not mind that I have posted a photo of my brother.
Thank you for starting the conversation, and please reach out if there is anything I can do.
Julie Johnson
May 15, 2017
Dear Tim, Mary Jane and Mary Scott,
My heart breaks for you and I cannot imagine the depth of your pain. May your son's memory live strong in your hearts. Sending love and strength to your family.
From Julie, Roger, Asher and Nico
Kevin Eaton
March 27, 2017
I lost my husband 3 years ago to suicide. He struggled with depression as well as alcohol abuse. I suffer from depression as well. Almost 2 years after his death ive tried to make it into something positive. I volunteer at AA and also attend a suicide support group here in springfield. If i can help one person then he didnt die in vain. I pray this young man is at peace. Now is a time to help, we should never judge. Please feel free anyone reading this if you need help with alcohol abuse or suicide grief or just need an ear to listen or a shoulder to cry on reach out to me. If i can't help you personally i will find someone who will. Bless Sam and his family and may his memory be one of love and joy.
March 23, 2017
I never knew Samuel, but wanted to say he must of been a fine young man. I am so sorry for your loss.
May you find peace in his peace.
steve mcmillen
March 22, 2017
Tim, Mary Jane and Mary Scott, I am so sorry for your loss of Sam. My prayers are with you all. Sam's life ended way to early, take comfort in knowing he is in a good place. The heavenly fairways dont have the struggles of the earthy fairways and I am sure he has peace.
Steve McMillen
Mike Ricket
March 21, 2017
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
Shelly and Ryan McCalla
March 21, 2017
We are so saddened by the news of Sam's death. We pray for peace and comfort for all of his family, teammates and friends. We are sorry we cannot attend Sam's service. Please know how much Lukas thought of Sam.
Heather, Lester, Levi and Tanner Elder
March 21, 2017
To the Holmes Family:
We were heartbroken to learn of Sam's death. We enjoyed meeting Sam and your family during summer golf outings with our sons. Levi and Tanner always enjoyed being paired with Sam and thought the world of him as a fellow golfer and friend. Our most heartfelt thoughts and prayers are with you at such a terrible time.
Rev. David Perdue
March 21, 2017
Dear Family,
The family of St. Stephen's Episcopal Church, Lubbock, Texas sends prayers and condolences in your loss. May Sam be escorted to his heavenly home by the angels of God, and may God's perpetual light shine brightly upon him. Our prayers continue for comfort and restoration of body and mind for you all.
Phil & Heidi Rapstine
March 21, 2017
We pray that he is lifted up on angel wings! Our condolences to his family.
March 20, 2017
MAryjan Tim.
I am so sorry for your loss my prayers going to you and all the family
Maria portillo.
March 20, 2017
From an old golf bear that watched Sam grow up into a fine young man.........RIP. All my prayer's Tim and Mary Jane.
jay Zimmerman
Janice Dyer
March 20, 2017
I do not know Sam or the family, but feel a connection as my twin boys, who will be turning 20 both attend Missouri State University. I can't imagine the pain you are suffering, but I pray that you will find some peace through all of this.
Our family will send a donation to the Missouri State Men's Golf program as you requested.
Prayers for healing. The Dyer family
Deborah Davila
March 20, 2017
Mary Jane I am so very sorry about your family's loss. I wish I could carry some of your pain and sorrow. You are a wonderful woman and you helped me deal with such grief and a sense of being so overwhelmed. I will never forget that. I have you in my heart and am sending love and support. I think the world of you and am blessed to know you. I do not know why you have lost your precious son, but I know his love is with you always. If you ever need an ear or a shoulder, I would be proud to be there for you.
Deborah Davila
TERESA B
March 19, 2017
PRAYER's for Sam, may he rest in peace
And prayers to all of his family,
This saddens my heart as well --
My grandson took his own life almost 2 years ago--- only (3) days before his 15/ th Birthday--- he excelled in school to,
The lost & found is a wonderful place to go if you or the family needs someone to talk.....
I understand
My DEEPEST SINCERE SYMPATHY ✝
Lisa Burton
March 19, 2017
Sam was one of the sweetest, kindest souls I have ever had the pleasure of meeting. His cherubic First Grade face is burned in my memory forever. My heart is hurting for Mary Jane and Tim.
Sundee Leingang
March 19, 2017
I didn't know Sam put I understand the pain he was in. My prayers are with your family.
Trisha Haltom
March 19, 2017
Our family loved seeing Sam at golf tournaments. Tristan and Taylor enjoyed golfing and being around Sam. They were always excited when they were paired with him. Our deepest condolences and prayers are with your family.
The Haltom Family
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