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Joseph Carter Obituary

CARTER III - Joseph (Joe Carter) also known as TJ Swan, an American critically acclaimed and world renowned jazz guitarist, BMI music composer, songwriter and musician, sadly passed away at home on May 30. Holding a LIU Masters in music composition, he created a new jazz form of effortlessly fusing blues, jazz, bebop, classical and 20th Century idioms in a style not heard before him- a virtuoso. A funny eclectic story-teller, published author, educator, sommelier and chef, he loved his one of a kind, D'Aquisto lefty guitar and fly-fishing in Au Sable NY. Recordings on Velvet Swan Music include Straight Ahead Backwards, and In The Now. TJ Swan Americana recordings include Redemption, Tent Show Ditty, and Mr. Piggy's Southern Cook Book - a CD combo. He performed with Panama Francis, Bill Doggett, Bubba Brooks, Walter Perkins, Ruth Brown, Phoebe Legere and John Abbey. Born on July 17, 1961 in Flushing, New York; he lived in East Northport, Dix Hills and NYC. TJ tragically lost a valiant battle with Gastro Intestinal Stromal Tumors (GIST) Cancer, confirmed by his family. A private celebration of life will be held on Long Island. A public celebration at a later date. In lieu of flowers, please send offerings to Memorial Sloan Kettering, Ronald DeMatteo, MD GIST Research in his name. Joseph Carter III is survived by his beloved mother, Lorraine and father, Joseph Carter II, brother, Paul Carter of Wilmington, North Carolina; brother Mark and sister-in-law, Rose Carter; nieces Toni, and Angelina; nephew Mark Carter all of West Islip; Aunts, Uncles, cousins, special friends, fans, spiritual advisor Dale Langel, Roman, and life partner Liz Uzzo of Dix Hills. He is predeceased by his loving grandparents Joseph and Josephine Carter and Joseph and Mary Stiefer. Link Memorial Sloan Kettering to: http://mskcc.convio.net/goto/TJSwan

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Published by Newsday on Jul. 8, 2016.

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Jeff Radke

November 15, 2022

Joe:

Dude, I am so sorry to hear of this. Was a great pleasure hanging together in Tony's wedding band all those years. You were an original thinker, player and a great source of much needed sarcasm during too many lousy weddings that we had to endure. I'll never forget you going after "Caesar Romero" in the middle of a song while he was going after you. Rest in peace, buddy.

Your friends at Columbus Circle Wine

March 27, 2022

Love you and miss you. Eternal rest grant upon TJ, O Lord, and May perpetual light shine upon him, and May his soul Rest In Peace. Amen.

Blues man

Paul Carter

November 4, 2019

It's only rock and roll but I like it!!!

June 5, 2019

Beth McKillop-Capelluto

June 5, 2019

Joey! I miss you my friend. I knew you since we were teens. I know you are jamming in heaven and Dawn is listening and you are laughing!

April 29, 2018

Dave Evans

June 27, 2017

Joe, I tried to call you tonight...we hadn't talked in a while and I wanted you to know that I had moved...I really wanted to talk with you. When I got the message that your number was not working, I went on line and found the news...and now I'm crying. You were so full of life, I thought you'd always be there. I'm sorry I missed you.
I love you, Joe.
I hope we meet again...I think we will.
Love,
Dave Evans

Ralph V. Cutolo

December 28, 2016

Wow, utter shock. Sadly comes as I was looking for him to reconnect. I only just found out this very morning 12/28/16.
May God rest your beautiful soul my dear old friend.

Jim Anderson

September 28, 2016

Had the pleasure to practice and hang out with Joe at Five Towns College back in the early 80's. What a great sense of humor! Had some very funny moments indeed. Very sad to hear of his passing. Rest in peace my friend.

Diana Gavagan

September 11, 2016

We found out about Joe's death when we called Grasso's last night to see whom he might be playing with for Jazz Brunch today. What a shock to hear that he died in May. We have been enjoying his masterful playing there for many years His guitar made beautiful sounds! He was also a delightful person with whom we always enjoyed chatting. Jitterbug Waltz was one of our favorites. He will be missed. As my husband just said- He is enjoying jamming with Herb Ellis and Joe Pass in heaven now.

Sandy Rabinowitz

September 7, 2016

Joe Carter was our piano tuner here in Huntington High School. It was how I first came to know him, but then it quickly became evident that he was an extremely talented, sweet, wonderful man. Always had a hug for me and a big smile - I will miss him greatly.
Sandy Rabinowitz

Record Release "The Clubs"

Liz Uzzo

July 19, 2016

Jazz on the Vine with Heather Hardy

Liz Uzzo

July 19, 2016

The Grill

July 8, 2016

What can be said about Joe, TJ , TJ Swan, the Velvet Swan..... NOTHING BUT LOVE that was him. We were lucky enough to know him for more than half our lives. He was a musician, chef, grand storyteller,teacher, advisor and champion of everything good! Truly a fine example of living, caring and loving above all else. He is forever in all of our hearts. We are all better people for being loved by him and will honor that!
Nothing but Love Joe~
Maria, Michelle, Keith,Michael

You were so happy her with Walter Perkins, Bill Doggett and myself (Catherine) Bayside Queens

Catherine Laporte

July 8, 2016

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