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Paul Bredenberg Obituary

Professor Emeritus, North Carolina State University, Department of Philosophy and Religion, 1950-1986, Ensign, U.S. Navy, World War II, Civil Rights Activist Athlete and Promoter of Youth Sports Paul Arnold Bredenberg, Ph.D., died on Sunday, November 15, 2009, at Mayview Convalescent Center, in Raleigh, at the age of 86. Paul Bredenberg had lived in Raleigh since 1950, where he raised a family, taught philosophy for 36 years at North Carolina State University (NCSU), spearheaded a youth tennis program that fostered an entire generation of Raleigh tennis players - and became known as a champion of civil rights in North Carolina and the Triangle region (Raleigh-Durham-Chapel Hill). Paul Arnold Bredenberg was born October 24, 1923, in Schenectady, NY, to Alfred Bredenberg, Jr. and Cora Edith (Felton) Bredenberg. Paul's grandfather, also named Alfred Bredenberg, had emigrated to the United States from Sweden, settling in upstate New York. In 1926, Paul's family moved from Schenectady to Erie, PA, where Paul grew up. Paul is survived by his wife of 62 years, Gladys Marie (Ellis) Bredenberg; his brother, Willard Alfred Bredenberg; his sons, Alfred R. Bredenberg and wife, Virginia of Raleigh and Jeffrey E. Bredenberg and wife, Stacey Burling of Oreland, PA; and grandchildren, Paul W. Bredenberg, Adam Bredenberg, Colin Bredenberg, Bevan Quinn, Jeremy Quinn, and Mauireen Quinn Bell. Paul began attending the University of Pittsburgh in Erie in 1940, but his education was interrupted by World War II. During the war, Paul served as Ensign in the U.S. Navy on a destroyer in the South Pacific. At the war's conclusion, he left the Navy, but not before meeting his wife-to-be, Gladys, in Charleston, SC, where he was stationed and where she was living and working. To continue his education, Paul returned to Pennsylvania, attending the University of Pennsylvania at Philadelphia. He graduated in 1947 with a bachelor's degree in philosophy and returned to Charleston without delay (skipping his graduation ceremony) to get married to Gladys. After their marriage, Paul and Gladys moved to New Haven, Conn., where Paul obtained a Ph.D. in philosophy at Yale University. During that period, 1947 to 1950, they lived for a time in New Haven with Paul's aunt and uncle, Hilda and Fred Fowler, then in their own apartment. After finishing graduate school, Paul and Gladys moved to Raleigh, where Paul had obtained a job as assistant professor of philosophy and social studies at North Carolina State College (now University, NCSU, aka "State"). Paul and Gladys's first son, Alfred Roy Bredenberg, was born in 1951 and their second son, Jeffrey Ellis Bredenberg, in 1953. When the boys were small, the family lived on Carlton Ave. in Raleigh, near the college campus. For the academic year of 1955 to 1956, the family moved temporarily to Palo Alto, Calif., where Paul studied poetry under Ivor Winters at Stanford University, on a Ford Foundation Faculty Fellowship. He also obtained a Rockefeller Foundation grant to study at Harvard University during the summer of 1956. Paul was promoted to Professor at State in 1963. In 1962, Paul and Gladys and boys moved to their new home on Crump Rd. in Raleigh, adjacent to an extensive tract of North Carolina state farmland, which is now NCSU's Centennial Campus. During his academic career, Paul chaired the Committee on Academic Freedom of the American Association of University Professors and served as president of the North Carolina Philosophical Association. Paul retired from the university in 1986. Paul was known in North Carolina and the Triangle region as an advocate of civil rights. He served on a steering committee in 1969 that led to the establishment of the Wake County chapter of the American Civil Liberties Union (ACLU). After the chapter's establishment, he served several terms on the board, including a stint as president. In 1992, he received the chapter's W.W. Finlator Award, presented annually to local champions of civil rights. For most of his life, Paul was an avid tennis player, becoming Raleigh city champion twice and achieving state ranking for his doubles play. He became known in the Raleigh area for his work in youth tennis, coaching the Raleigh boys' tennis team and running a free Saturday youth tennis clinic for many years, contributing to the formation of a whole generation of Raleigh tennis players. In 2005, Paul was honored at the NC Tennis Hall of Fame in Greensboro with a memorial pathway stone inscribed "In Honor of Paul Bredenberg, for All That You Did for Junior Tennis." After his retirement in 1986, Paul pursued many hobbies and special interests, including tennis and golf, deep sea fishing, vegetable gardening, pastel painting, matting and framing, and stone polishing. He and Gladys spent many glorious days at their vacation house near Sparta in Paul's beloved North Carolina mountains. In 1998, Paul and Gladys left their Crump Road home and moved to Whitaker Glen, a lovely retirement community in Raleigh, where they have enjoyed the company of many long-time friends and acquaintances. Paul became known for his contributions of stories, articles, essays, and poems for the Whitaker Glen newsletter. In March of this year, Paul entered Mayview Convalescent Center, passing several peaceful months until his death on Sunday. Paul's family wishes to extend their greatest thanks to Dr. James Parsons Jr., medical director, and the staff of excellent caregivers at Mayview, who showed so much compassion for Paul during his final days. An informal gathering for family, friends, and acquaintances of Paul will be held Thursday, Nov. 19, 5:00 to 7:00 p.m., in the Whitaker Glen Building B Atrium, 501 E. Whitaker Mill Rd., Raleigh, N.C. 27608. Friends and family will be invited to share experiences and remembrances. In lieu of flowers, donations may be sent to ACLU Wake County Chapter, c/o NC ACLU, P.O. Box 28004, Raleigh, NC 27617; or Unitarian Universalist Fellowship, 3313 Wade Ave., Raleigh, NC 27607. Arrangements by the Cremation Society of the Carolinas. Online condolences at www.cremnc.com

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Published by The News & Observer on Nov. 17, 2009.

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William Walsh

November 24, 2009

Gladys , I am Bill Walsh and was on the ACLU board in the early 70's, I believe, when Paul was Chair. I think Jerry Elkin and Jack McNeil were on about the same time. I am at Auburn, AL now after a 12 year stint at Auburn University. Paul was always my hero and his contributions to civil rights and fair treatment of all remain in my mind constantly.

ann hart

November 19, 2009

Dear Gladys, you and your family have my sympathy in the death of your husband, Paul. I will keep you and him in my prayers. Sincerely,

November 17, 2009

Gladys,

My dad, C.G. Baxley of Baxley's restaurant, considered Paul one of his very favorite people. Paul called him "Jeremiah" and dad called him "King David". This grew out of their many conversations and debates over cups of coffee at the restaurant, along with other friends. When I was a young girl, my dad took me to see many of Paul's tennis matches. He was really a fine man. May God bless you and your family in this great loss.

Barbara Baxley Brown Smith

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