Jeffrey Alan Hadler

1968 - 2017

Jeffrey Alan Hadler obituary, 1968-2017, Berkeley, CA

Jeffrey Alan Hadler

1968 - 2017

Jeffrey Hadler Obituary

Published by The News and Observer from Jan. 29 to Feb. 5, 2017.
Jeffrey Alan Hadler

March 27, 1968 - January 11, 2017

Chapel Hill

Jeff Hadler, beloved husband, father, son, brother and friend, succumbed to cancer on Wednesday, January 11, 2017 in Berkeley, California. When there were no straws left to hold onto, he said, "I love my daughters, I'm proud of my career, I enjoy my home, and my marriage is really good. I'm at peace." Jeff's wife and daughters, Kumi, Maia and Noe Hadler, of Berkeley; his parents, Carol and Nortin Hadler of Chapel Hill; his sister, Elana Perl of Washington DC and his aunt, Mona Hadler of NYC, were with him when he died and are deeply saddened by his passing. They have undying love and admiration for Jeff, and will miss him dearly, every day.

Jeff was born in Boston, grew up in Chapel Hill and graduated from Chapel Hill High School. As a high school student, he spent a summer in Jakarta, Indonesia with the American Field Service. He returned committed to understanding Indonesia's cultural panoply with a view toward a scholarship that would serve its peoples. He received a BA from Yale University in 1990 having designed a curriculum rich in ethnography, linguistics, literature, political science and theology. He earned a PhD in Southeast Asian history at Cornell after which he was a Fulbright Senior Scholar at the State Islamic University Syarif Hidayatullah in Jakarta. In 2001, Jeff joined the faculty of the University of California at Berkeley.

Jeff rapidly made a name for himself in the field of Southeast Asian studies. He published extensively on a wide range of subjects. His book "Muslims and Matriarchs: Cultural Resilience in Indonesia through Jihad and Colonialism" won the prestigious Harry J Benda Prize from the Association for Asian Studies. He taught courses on the religions, cultures, art, history and, particularly, the literature of Island Southeast Asia. He was known for great story-telling skills, for narratives laced with his legendary wit, and for devotion to students. He was a particularly perceptive and steadfast advisor to many graduate students and a friend and mentor to many Cal faculty and staff.

Jeff had boundless generosity of spirit. This stood him well in leadership positions as Chair of the Center for Southeast Asia Studies and Chair of the Department of South and Southeast Asian Studies. He also had a finely honed and shining moral compass. He devoted many hours in his last years to combatting sexual harassment at UC-Berkeley, "I'm tired of being told to keep my mouth shut and let the wheels of justice turn, because they're turning pretty slowly." He was anything but silent.

Jeff was the most devoted of husbands and fathers. He delighted in walking and talking with his daughters and did so regularly. Jeff leaves a great void in the lives of many more. He also leaves a legacy of scholarship and of a life well spent. Berkeley has established the "Jeffrey Hadler Memorial," a fund to support the study of Indonesia and the Islands of Southeast Asia (https://give.berkeley.edu/hadler).

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January 23, 2024

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February 6, 2017

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William Morris Dean

January 23, 2024

One more January moment of remembrance, each one more difficult than its predecessors.

Morris Dean

January 23, 2023

Jeffrey passed away in Berkeley. I was born in Berkeley a few days over 80 years ago. Jeffrey and my own son Geoffrey were classmates for one year in Chapel Hill High School, before Geoffrey transferred to what was then the North Carolina School of the Arts (and is now the UNC School...). I cannot think of Jeffrey´s untimely passing without sadness for him, his parents and sister, his wife and their children. His father and I were roommates at Yale our Freshman and Sophomore years. I´m grateful that the "luck of the draw" brought our lives into parallel orbits. (Photo of Geoffrey interviewing me for my 80th birthday.)

February 6, 2017

I'm sorry for your loss. May you find peace from God.

February 2, 2017

Please accept my sincerest condolences on your loss. May the power of prayer ease your sorrow, give you peace and provide comfort during this difficult time (Matthew 21:22).--ERJ

On the back porch in Mebane, 2012

William Morris Dean

January 31, 2017

It was with great sadness that I learned in December, from Jeffrey's father, who was a roommate of mine at Yale, that Jeffrey was very ill and wasn't going to make it.

I never met Jeffrey, but I knew his parents and his aunt, and I had met his sister, in their parents' home in Chapel Hill.

So many connections with the Hadlers! I visited Jeffrey's grandparents in their home several times while I was an undergraduate at Yale, also meeting Jeffrey's great-grandmother (Mrs. Hochberg, I believe) and his uncle, Manny, who also died way too young.

And I have several connections with Jeffrey himself. Jeffrey and my own son, Geoffrey, were in the same class at Chapel Hill High School (before Geoffrey transferred to the North Carolina School of the Arts). Upon reading the obituary provided here, Geoffrey noticed that his own son, my grandson, was born on Jeffrey's 25th birthday. And I was born in Berkeley....

I wish I had been able to get to know Jeffrey.

January 30, 2017

May the God of all comfort strengthen your entire family and may you also be comforted by the scriptures found at Psalms 116:15

January 30, 2017

May the God of all comfort strengthen your entire family and may you also be comforted by the scriptures found at Psalms 116:15

January 30, 2017

Q

January 30, 2017

I am so sorry for your lost. May you find comfort in he God of all comfort because he cares for you. 1peter 5:6-7.

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