Catherine Rose (Kay) Davies Frakes, 84, died on December 8, 2016 in Santa Barbara, after a very long illness due to Lewy Body Dementia. She was the daughter of British immigrants John Leslie Davies and Catherine Paul Rodgers Davies. She was predeceased by her parents and brothers, John Arthur Davies and Ambassador Rodger Paul Davies. Kay was born on September 3, 1932 and grew up in Berkeley, CA. She was a graduate of Stanford University, where she was admitted to two honor societies. She married a classmate, George E. Frakes, an Air Force lieutenant, in 1954 at the end of the Korean conflict. She was a military wife for three years living in four different states prior to returning to California. While living in Texas, Kay earned a teaching credential. She subsequently earned five other teaching credentials and a librarianship credential at the University of Southern California. Kay was the mother of James B. Frakes (Liz) of San Diego, Laura L. Frakes of Los Angeles, and Dr. Robert M. Frakes (Susan) of Clarion, PA.
Kay taught for 29 years for the Santa Barbara City Schools, primarily as a home/hospital teacher. She also was a librarian at the Cate School in Carpinteria. Kay was very active in her retirement years, and was the founder and board member of Vistas Lifelong Learning, a board member of the SBCC Luria Library Friends, an elementary-school tutor, a volunteer librarian for the S. B. Cancer Center's Research Department, and an active member of the League of Women Voters and AAUW. Kay loved to travel, and visited many European countries, all the North American countries and states, Mexico, several Central American nations, three South American countries, Polynesia, Australia and New Zealand, as well as China. She was a very active woman prior to her illness, playing tennis for the La Cumbre Country Club's C team, hiking in the Alps and Sierra Mountains, and an active swimmer.
She leaves her husband, Dr. George Frakes, three children, and four grandchildren: Christopher Frakes of New York City; Alex Frakes of Washington, D.C.; Hannah Catherine Frakes, a student at Stanford University; and Lilith Anne Frakes, a high-school senior student in PA.
Donations to honor Catherine D. Frakes may be made to the Visiting Nurses and Hospice Care of Santa Barbara; the S. B. C. C. Luria Library; or Stanford University
A memorial service is planned for Wednesday, January 4, 2017 at 11 am at All Saints Episcopal Church.
Arrangements Entrusted to McDermott-Crockett Mortuary
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December 13, 2017
You are not alone during this time of sorrow and pain. May God give your family strength and comfort to help you endure this loss. As you remember your beloved one, the God of peace give you comfort and peace in every way. May you find Strength from the love and care that surrounds you and comfort in the memories that you shared. Please accept my sincere condolences. 2 Thessalonians 2 15,16
December 13, 2017
You are not alone during this time of sorrow and pain. May God give your family strength and comfort to help you endure this loss. As you remember your beloved one, the God of peace give you comfort and peace in every way. May you find Strength from the love and care that surrounds you and comfort in the memories that you shared. Please accept my sincere condolences. 2 Thessalonians 2 15,16
December 13, 2017
You are not alone during this time of sorrow and pain. May God give your family strength and comfort to help you endure this loss. As you remember your beloved one, the God of peace give you comfort and peace in every way. May you find Strength from the love and care that surrounds you and comfort in the memories that you shared. Please accept my sincere condolences. 2 Thessalonians 2 15,16
TRUE BEACH
December 24, 2016
TO THE FRAKES FAMILY SORRY TO HERE OF THE PASSING OF YOUR WIFE A MOTHER.
December 22, 2016
Dear George,
Our deepest sympathy to you and your family on the loss of your lovely Kay. Our thoughts are with all of you.
Sincerely,
Judy and Dean Zimmerman
December 22, 2016
George and Bob, I send my condolences on your loss to you and the rest of your family. Carol Pfeil (from UCSB History Dept)
December 22, 2016
Dear George,
Kay was a sweet, lovely woman and she endured her disease with grace and determination. You provided her the best loving care anyone could ever want. Now is your time to rest and reflect. We will miss her. Deborah Brown and SPS
joe sevilla
December 22, 2016
George -
What a loss to the world!! I am so sorry for you and your family. I did not know Kay well, but enjoyed her each time we worked together. She was most special, but I don't need to tell you, do I. Her peace has to be welcome.
Scott Wenz
December 22, 2016
On behalf of the Wenz Family only to best wishes to George and family.
Scott
December 21, 2016
Offering my sincere condolences
(Isaiah 51:12) I[God] I myself am the One that is comforting YOU people.
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