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Robin Reason Lilley
December 9, 2008
Aunt Estelle,
When mama told me Kathy had called I was so eager to know what she said. I love it when Kathy calls, because we always hear the latest scoop on the family. I could tell there was sadness in mama’s voice so I asked what was wrong. Then she told me Uncle Dave had passed away. It was the most shocking news to me.
I ask how you both are doing all the time, and the last I had heard you both were doing well. I hung up immediately because I wanted to be alone. After hanging up with mama, my heart just began to hurt; tears starting flowing so fast as if it were my own father, husband or granddaddy. I started feeling guilty for not going to CT when I had wanted to, for not calling like I wanted to, for always putting off.
I was not fortune enough to spend years with Uncle Dave, like everyone else, because I am only 26 (ha, ha) but, the times I did, I will cherish forever. I used to be scared of Uncle Dave; his voice was so stern and fatherly that it scared me, so I tried to stay away from him. He knew this I think so he tried carrying on conversations with me every time he saw me, so I would always stand up straight and “try” to carry on “intelligent” conversations with him. He “acted” as if he didn’t like hugs and kisses, but I knew different. I then realized that Uncle Dave was nothing but a sweet, loving teddy bear!! Uncle Dave was such a generous and honest man. My diddy has always looked up to Uncle Dave and will always strive to be like him.
When mama and diddy would tell us “Uncle Dave and Aunt Estelle are coming home” we would be all over ourselves. We would try and skip school just so we could go to Grandma’s and Grandiddy’s house to see you both. On the last day, when it was time for you both to leave, I would always, mysteriously, get an eye infection. It upset me so bad to see you both go. When you both came home, it was like every problem we had was gone; timed just stopped when we saw you two. I wish I could have told Uncle Dave just how much he meant to my family and especially me. He has definitely heard it in my prayers, but I wish I could have told him to his face.
I would like to tell you, Aunt Estelle, just how much you and Uncle Dave mean to me and my family. My diddy, mama, Crystal, Danny and I idolize you both. You are a special, loving aunt whom we will always love and if there is anything I can do for you, please do not hesitate to call. Uncle Dave took care of so many people while he was here on earth, and the least we can do is take care of you. I love you very much, and I will see you soon.
Love,
Robin Reason Lilley
Leslie Lickerman
November 28, 2008
Dad,
You planted the seed which made me grow into the woman I am today and I can only hope that I can live up to all your expectations. I hope you will be proud of me as I was of you! You were and always will be a wonderful, caring, loving and devoted father and I will miss you each and every day of the rest my life.
Your daughter
DANBURY AUDI SERVICE DEPT
November 17, 2008
WE ARE VERY SADDENED BY THE PASSING OF MR. LICKERMAN.
Richard Brooks
November 13, 2008
I was very saddened to hear of Dave's passing. He was a kind and generous man who had a heart of gold. My sympathy to his family and friends at this difficult time.
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November 13, 2008
Kathy McKean
November 13, 2008
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2008
Gary & Nancy Coburn
November 12, 2008
A true family friend and gentleman. He will be missed. Our hearts go out to Hazel and his family in this time of sorrow.
Norma Gawkowski
November 12, 2008
Dear Hazel,
I am so sorry to hear of David's passing. He was a very dear, true and wonderful friend to my parents; Norm & Joan. And, I always loved it when my Dad would tell stories of traveling around via motorcycle or RV with David.
My deepest sympathies to you and your family.
Love, Norma Gawkowski
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