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Laurie Burns Obituary

Laurie Burns, former Danbury kindergarten teacher and longtime resident of Danbury, died September 21, 2010 at home in Bridgewater. She was born Laurel Adelaide Parent on August 22, 1928 in West Hartford, daughter of the late Henry and Constance Hirst Parent. After graduating from Ellsworth Memorial High School in South Windsor in 1946, Laurie attended Alabama College for Women in Birmingham, Alabama (now University of Montevallo) graduating in 1950 with a Bachelors of Science degree in Social Work and Sociology. While in college, Laurie served her country in the U.S. Navy WAVES ("Women Accepted for Volunteer Emergency Service") at Birmingham Naval Air Station. Following graduation from college, she worked as a social worker for the Connecticut State Welfare Department in Hartford, and as a probation officer for the State of Connecticut Juvenile Court in Danbury. During that time, Laurie settled in Danbury, and in 1954, married Louis J. Burns, pharmacist and owner of Burns Drug and Surgical, Inc. and together they raised thre children. In 1965, Laurie began her career as a professional educator working for the U.S. Head Start Program and was assigned to the Danbury Public School System. She returned to school to advance her own education and in 1968 completed studies for a Masters of Science in Education from Western Connecticut State College (now University) graduating with honors. Laurie became a kindergarten teacher and taught at Roberts Avenue School and South Street School in Danbury from 1968 until her retirement in 1995. She was proud of her schools, her fellow educators, and the thousands of children whose lives she had the privilege to shape. Laurie's contributions to teaching included serving on the Danbury Kindergarten Curriculum Committee, on Connecticut's Early Childhood Education Conference Committee, as National Education Week Chairman for South Street School, as Parent-Teacher Organization Liaison, and as a Mentor. She was an active member of the Kindergarten Association of Connecticut and the National Association of Young Children. She was recognized with a listing in Who's Who in American Education and was a Union Carbide Teacher of the Year Recipient. Laurie's community involvement including volunteering with (at various times) the Red Cross, the National Association for the Prevention of Blindness, Junior Service League (Former President), Family and Children Services, Danbury YMCA (Former Board Member), Auxiliary Visiting Nurse Association, American Heart Association, the American Cancer Society, Stanley Lasker Richter Memorial Park Authority (Former Board Member), and Musicals at Richter (Former Director and served hands-on in capacities including wardrobe, concessions and house manager). Most recently, in retirement Laurie worked as a volunteer to help launch Americares Free Clinic in Danbury. Following the death of her husband, Louis in 1983, Laurie moved to Bethel, where she resided for 18 years until moving with her daughter's family to Bridgewater, CT in 2008. Laurie is survived by her son, Christopher "Scott" Burns and his wife, Lourdes of Alexandria Virginia; daughter, Lisa Burns and her husband, Richard Monda of Bridgewater; and son, Louis "Adam" Burns and his wife, Rocchina of Southbury, whose children, Adam and Andrew Burns called her "Dee Dee' and meant the world to her. In addition to nephew, Brad Brown of Clifton Park, N.Y., who was like a son to her, Laurie is also survived by three siblings, Victoria Allen and her husband, Tucker of Warehouse Point, Marget Henderson and her husband, Jack of Columbus, Ohio, and Nina Burr of San Rafael, Calif.; and many loving nieces and nephews. In addition to her parents and husband, Louis, she was predeceased by three siblings, Leonard Parent, Ann Merritt, and Leslie Andross. She continued to hold their families dear. Laurie had a talent for painting and drawing and loved reading, theater and the arts. She loved to eat out and to travel with friends and had a passion for golf. She will be remembered by her family and many, many friends as a loving and dedicated parent and grandparent, advocate for children and for those in need, community volunteer, supporter of the arts, and a role model. A memorial service will be held Saturday, October 2, 2010 at 10:30 a.m. at the Brookfield Congregational Church. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made in her memory to Americares Free Clinics, 88 Hamilton Ave., Stamford, CT 06902.

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Published by The News-Times on Sep. 26, 2010.

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Deolinda Moniz

September 22, 2022

Mrs. Burns was my kindergarten teacher at South St School and I still remember her till this day! She was such a warm and caring teacher and I loved her. RIP Mrs. Burns

Cory (Battaglia) Richards

September 27, 2010

To all of Laurie's family,
I send my deepest condolences on her passing. It was always so much fun to talk with Laurie on a wide range of subjects whenever I went to visit my family in New Milford. She knew so much about so many things! I know there will always be a hole in your heart now that she is gone but I hope that the happy memories you all have of her will eventually fill the majority of that hole with joy and love.
She has made such a positive impact on so many people throughout the years... she will be missed by many, many people!!!
I prayers and thoughts go out to you all.

September 27, 2010

Dear Adam and Rocky,and Lisa,and family,
I will miss your Mom. She was a lovely lady and I always enjoyed my time spent with her. May she rest in peace.
With lots of love,
Linda Wixted

Sandy Varejao Sanchez

September 27, 2010

Such a sweet lady with a warm and embraccing heart. This is sad news. My condolences.

Diane Pereira-Coutinho

September 27, 2010

Mrs. Burns was my Kindergarten teacher at South Street School in 1984. She was an amazing teacher and friend, I would alway's go see her year after year she will be sadly missed by all. May she rest in peace and may her family find strength during this difficult time. God Bless. We Love You Mrs. Burns.

Larry McGowan

September 27, 2010

Dear Lisa, Adam and Scott,
I'm so sorry to read about your mom's passing - she was a great lady. My thoughts are with you during this difficult time.

Sandra Lopes

September 27, 2010

RIP Mrs. Burns. You were the best 1st grade teacher there was. To her family, I want to give my condolences and prayers. She will be truly missed.

Deolinda Moniz

September 27, 2010

Mrs Burns was my kindergarten teacher over 30 years ago. She was a wonderful teacher and a great woman! She will be sadly missed by all!

Melissa Coffey

September 27, 2010

I was a kindegarden student of
Mrs Burns at Roberts Ave School.Then we moved and I started first grade at South Street. A few years later Mrs Burns Started the kindegarden classes at South Street.I was so happy to see her.
She never forgot a student by name.She was the sweetest,kindest person.I will always keep those fond memories of
Mrs Burns forever in my heart.
R.I.P. Mrs Burns

Melissa Coffey

September 27, 2010

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2010

Vickie Adams

September 26, 2010

Mrs. Burns taught with my Grandmother (Arlene Stone) at South Street. They both passed away this week. My prayers are with the family at this difficult time. My grandmother loved Laurie and her husband.

Amy Morgado-Peterson

September 26, 2010

Mrs.Burns was my kindergarten teacher at South Street School.She was the best teacher.She will be deeply missed by all who knew her.

Audrey Gertsch

September 26, 2010

Mrs Burns will be deeply miss by all that had the privilege of knowing Her, she was South Street Schools nicest Teacher. R I P Mrs Burns My Thoughts and Prayers go to your Entire Family at this time.

Lindsay Spindle

September 26, 2010

I had Mrs. Burns as a kindergarten teacher over 20 years ago. She was the best and will be greatly missed by everyone. Now she's teaching in heaven.

Lindsay Spindle

Courtney Almeida

September 26, 2010

Mrs. Burns was my kindergarten teacher in 1985. I loved her and have never forgotten her.

Dean & Penny Russell

September 26, 2010

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

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