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HARRIET VACHSS HARRIS

1940 - 2015

HARRIET VACHSS HARRIS obituary, 1940-2015, West Haven/new Haven, CT

BORN

1940

DIED

2015

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New Haven, Connecticut

HARRIET HARRIS Obituary

HARRIS, HARRIET VACHSS Harriet Vachss Harris, born in Stamford on June 2, 1940, passed away on March 29, 2015 at The Connecticut Hospice in Branford. A longtime resident of West Haven, she had recently moved to Tower One in New Haven. Predeceased by her parents, Benedict and Bessie Scott Vachss, Harriet leaves behind her husband of forty-seven years, Harry Harris; her children, Rebekah S. Carolla (Andrew) of East Haven, CT, Sondra J. Harris (Jeffrey Verrier) of North Las Vegas, NV, and Allan J. Harris (Patricia) of Easton, MA; her granddaughters, Lila Belinda Harris and Charlotte Francesca Harris; her brother, Stephen Vachss of Dublin, CA; her sister, Marcia (Mark Braunstein) of Stamford; two nieces and a nephew, and many dear friends. Harriet loved reading (especially science fiction), music, writing, maintaining her decade-plus online journal, and cheering on the UConn Huskies women’s basketball team. These are passions she passed to her children. She was a wonderful teacher with every story she told. A graduate of Stamford High School, University of Connecticut (Class of 1963, BA in Biology and Chemistry), The Katharine Gibbs School, and The Avraham Y. Goldratt Institute (Jonah-certified), she went on to work as an office administrator at the American Red Cross Blood Services, Creative Output, and The Avraham Y. Goldratt Institute. After she had retired, she continued to work part-time as a paralegal and as a Literacy Volunteer. Harriet had asked that thanks be given to her internist, Dr. Lynne Hillis, for many years of care; her family would further like to thank the Angels at Hospice. Harriet died in comfort, at peace, and with dignity. In lieu of flowers, Harriet’s family requests that donations be made to the American Cancer Society (www.cancer.org). Funeral Services at the Independent Vilner Lodge Memorial Park, 107 Victor St. East Haven, CT, THURSDAY, April 2, 2015 at 12:00 o’clock. Family and friends may also call at the Carollas’ residence on Thursday, Sunday, Monday, Tuesday, and Wednesday from 5:00 p.m. to 8:00 p.m. Funeral Arrangements in care of The Robert E. Shure Funeral Home, New Haven, CT. www.shurefuneralhome.com
Published by The New Haven Register from Mar. 31 to Apr. 1, 2015.

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B. Jean Connal

March 25, 2025

In sympathy for the loss of your Mom. I remember her when I would visit Rebekah and her fiancé then husband Andee, especially at holiday time. Also, that Rebekah would faithfully attend services after her Mom´s passing. Your friend, BonnieJean Connal

B Hean Connal

March 26, 2022

I wanted to express my sympathies to her daughter Rebekah. Your Mom was always cheerful at holiday parties and other special events. You were and are such a good daughter. Praying for you at this difficult time, BonnieJean Connal

February 9, 2016

Rebekah, Sorry for the loss of your Mom. I am glad to have met her at your holiday parties and your wedding reception! This is truly a well written tribute to her. In sympathy from Bonnie-Jean Connal

May 21, 2015

REBEKAH ..I was unaware of the loss of your Mom until just now. What a huge loss it is! She was a wonderful person. Our chats in our back yards always left me with lots of information because of her abundance of knowledge and logic. I do miss you all!! Again, I am truly sorry.
Chris Trasacco & family

Michael F

April 30, 2015

Please accept my condolences on Harriet's passing. I feel fortunate to have met and worked with her when I was in Hamden about 18 years ago. I especially admired her storytelling abilities and her unique "life filter" when she commented on current events (or even swapping recipes).

I will remember her in my prayers.

With deepest sympathy to the family,

Neil and Amanda Kemp

April 13, 2015

Our sincerest condolences. She was a wonderful neighbor!

April 8, 2015

Dear Rebekah and family - I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your mother, Harriet. I really enjoyed the chats we had! May happy memories comfort you always. Gail Carroll

Gina (Herstory)

April 3, 2015

I was Harriet's blogging friend and am sad to hear of her passing. She was a great lady always ready with incite, advice and purpose. I shall miss her... and my thoughts are with her family and friends.

Carlo and Donna Noe

April 3, 2015

Alan and Family

Donna and I would like to express our deepest sympathy and may your fond memories carry you through this most difficult time

Mom and Lila 2

Allan Harris

April 3, 2015

Mom and Lila

Allan Harris

April 3, 2015

Graduation

Allan Harris

April 3, 2015

April 2, 2015

Sorry for your loss - our thoughts are with you at this time.
Frank & Sophie Rasile

Maritza Boak

April 2, 2015

Harriet was a wonderful inspiration to me. I enjoyed being with her and will miss her. She was a special person. My deepest sympathies to the family.
With love,
Maritza Garcia Boak

Judy simon

April 2, 2015

So sorry for your loss.

Wally DelVecchio

April 1, 2015

So very sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Infinity Pharmaceuticals

April 1, 2015

Peace and comfort to all of you at this time, please accept our condolences.

LeiLani Doornbosch

April 1, 2015

The world has lost someone irreplaceable. We miss you, Harriet

Paula Brandes

March 31, 2015

My heart goes out to you and your family. Sending hugs and blessings across the many miles that separate us. I am so thankful I got to meet her. She was funny, sassy, smart, and so full of spice. Thanks for sharing her with us.

Sue Morgan

March 31, 2015

So very sorry for the loss of this lovely, literate, intelligent woman. She was a wonderful mom and a friend to many.

March 31, 2015

I am just one of the many lives that your mother touched during her time with us, I only wish I'd met her sooner. May your memories of her fill this hole in your heart, with the same feelings of love that being with her always did.

David Gartner

March 31, 2015

I'm sorry to hear of your mother's passing. Zichrona livracha. May Harriet's memory always be for a blessing.

Stephanie Keobel

March 31, 2015

May you always cherish the beautiful memories that your mother has bestowed upon you.
My heart hurts for you and your loved one's during this period.
Thinking of you and sending lots of love and light to you Rebekah (And Andrew) xoxo

Debbi Lord

March 31, 2015

MY MANY CONDOLENCES TO: HARRY, REBEKAH, SONDRA AND ALAN.
LOVE,
DAVID AND BILLIE SELLARS
DEBBI LORD AND DAVID SMITH

SAGE, ARKANSAS

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Independent Vilner Lodge Memorial Park

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