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Philip Votto Jr.

1941 - 2013

Philip Votto Jr. obituary, 1941-2013,  East Hampton, CT

BORN

1941

DIED

2013

FUNERAL HOME

Maresca & Sons Funeral Home

592 Chapel Street

New Haven, Connecticut

Philip Votto Obituary

VOTTO, PHILIP J., JR. Philip J. Votto, Jr., born February 20, 1941 in New Haven, CT, of East Hampton, CT and Sun Lakes, AZ, entered his eternal life on November 23, 2013 after a courageous battle against cancer. He was predeceased by his parents, Philip J. Votto and Elvira (Possidente) Votto. He was the beloved of Diane. He leaves children Stephen C. Votto of Hamden and his children, Lauren and Sarah, Peter Votto (Lisa) of Rocky Hill, and Lisa (Kevin) Fitzsimmons of Hamden. He also leaves Diane’s children, Michael J. Devine of Danbury and James C. (Joy) Devine of Mesa, AZ, and their children, along with a great grandson. In addition, he leaves his sisters, Judith (Edward) Piazza of New Haven and Louise (Robert) Ferrando of Wallingford. Phil graduated from Notre Dame High School in West Haven and Fordham University with a degree in Pharmacy. He was the pharmacist/owner of Beirne’s Pharmacy in New Haven for over 40 years. Phil also owned and operated a Milford and a Fair Haven Medicine Shop along with a medical equipment business in Hamden. After selling his pharmacy in 2003, he worked until he retired in 2008 with Parkinson’s disease. During his pharmacy career, he was President of the New Haven Pharmaceutical Association, in addition to being on the Boards of the Mary Wade Home, New Haven Halfway House, Fair Haven Health Clinic, Yale New Haven Hospital Regional Directors Council, and Constitution Healthcare. Phil served as a consultant to Special Attention Home Care Service, Hill Health Care Center, and Community Health Care HMO. He devoted many hours to these organizations but his favorite community service was to his parish of St. Frances Cabrini Church in North Haven where he served on the Board of Directors and Finance Council for many years. Phil was also a member of the New Haven Amity Club. He derived great happiness from taking his grandchildren on “adventures” and teaching his Arizona grandsons the game of golf which his father and uncle taught him at the age of nine. In addition to golf, Phil enjoyed travel, whether to the great National Parks in this country, a trip to Italy, a baseball park, or a Yankee game. Although his professional life was full and empowering to Phil as he helped many individuals throughout his career, his true joy was his family and extended family. His aunts, uncles, cousins, nieces and nephews were a significant part of his life and he was always there for them. Phil will be remembered by all for his positive outlook and the humorous anecdotes he shared. He always jokingly talked about writing his memoirs in a book entitled “Over, Under, and Behind the Counter, Stories by Your Neighborhood Pharmacist”, and did he ever enjoy telling those stories. Friends are invited to go directly to St. Frances Cabrini Church, 57 Pond Hill Rd., North Haven for a Mass of Christian Burial on Tuesday at 11 am. Burial will follow in All Saints Cemetery. There are no calling hours. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the Amity Charitable Trust, P.O. Box 4129, Yalesville,CT 06492 or Notre Dame H.S. ,24 Ricardo St., West Haven, CT 06516 MARESCA & SONS FUNERAL HOME , 592 Chapel St., is in charge of arrangements. Offer condolences at www.marescafuneralhome.com

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Published by New Haven Register from Nov. 23 to Nov. 24, 2013.

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Kim Chapman

November 17, 2024

Phil was the kindest and most loyal friend anyone could wish for because it came so natural. His love for life and good food was so infectious. I truly appreciate all the wonderful times at work because he treated all of his employees like family. One couldn´t help but to love Phil and working for him. Continue to rest in paradise my dear friend.

Kim Chapman

November 17, 2022

In loving memory of a wonderful person who was very cheerful, generous, and happy helping others. We will love you and miss you always.

Kim Chapman

November 17, 2020

May this beautiful and wonderful person continue to Rest In Peace. Love and miss you Phil. ✝✝

Carolyn Clarke

November 30, 2013

Dear Diane, Steven, Peter, Lisa, Judy and Louise,
I am so very sorry to hear of the passing of Phil. Over the years I have always asked family members how he was doing. I know he had a long struggle. He was the sweetest guy and beautiful inside and out. He was a great dad to his three children and so happy he was able to walk you down the aisle, Lisa. I will always smile at his memory. He is a gem from the earth that will never be forgotten by me. Sending you all my love to wrap around your broken hearts. RIP my dear friend. Hugs to you in Heaven.

Dan Fagan

November 28, 2013

Diane, I'm so sorry to hear of Phil's passing. I always enjoyed the times I spent with him. His humor and kindness were always present. May God bless his soul along with you and all of your families.

Jay Palylyk

November 27, 2013

Dear Votto Family,
My family and I are so sorry for your loss. Phil was always an amazing person and fellow pharmacist and always available to help. I recall having a wonderful time with him in Las Vegas a few years ago at one of our conventions. May he rest in peace.

Debra Levi

November 26, 2013

My Sympathy to all of the Family & Friends of Phil Votto

"Heaven is a better place with the one & only Philip Votto" & he would chuckle!

Kim Chapman

November 25, 2013

My heartfelt sympathy to Diane, Steven, Lisa, Peter, Judy, Louise and the rest of your family. Phil was one in a million and in a league of his own. He was one of the most kindest and caring person I have ever known. Always going out of his way to make a difference in each life that he touched. I am thankful and blessed to have known such an honorable man. God Bless You All.

Sue Law

November 25, 2013

Diane,
I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I am thinking about you and praying for your family.

November 25, 2013

Dear Steve, family and friends of Phil's,

I extend my heartfelt sympathy for your loss. Phil was a wonderful and loving person - whom I was fortunate to know.

I know you will sorely miss him. May happy and joy filled memories of him comfort you always.

My best,

Ed Hayden

November 25, 2013

Diane, my sympathy and love go out to you but as long as you remember him, he will always be with you. He will be missed. Maria Diaz

November 25, 2013

My deepest sympathy to Judy,Louise, Peter, Lisa, and grandchildren. We lost one of the most caring person I ever you will be miss by all of us that knew you. Maria Diaz

John Sweeney

November 25, 2013

Diane, My deepest condolences on the loss of your dear Phil. I will keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.

Gayle Marshall

November 25, 2013

Steve I am sorry to hear about your dad. My thoughts and sympathy are with you and your family at this time. I am sure he was a kind and thoughtful man like you and will be truly missed.

The Gullage Family

November 25, 2013

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

November 25, 2013

My deepest sympathy to Steve, Lisa, Peter, Diane, Judy, Louise, Phil and Eddie Piazza.... Such a precious individual! May you all carry on with the great memories you have been blessed with over the years. Love is with you Phil, from my heart to yours. You will be greatly missed. So glad I got to see you a few years ago....Much love, Marlena

Glenn & Rosanna Gonsiewski

November 25, 2013

Our sincerest condolences to your family.

November 24, 2013

Dear Diane, We send our deepest sympathies to you and your family. We are so glad to have had the luck of getting to know Phil. He is a wonderful man. Love, Cathy, Bill, Sydney and Harry

Lorraine Riccitelli

November 24, 2013

So sorry Lisa glad he made your beautiful wedding day Much Love Rich @ Lorraine

Christine & Greg Morrone

November 24, 2013

Steve, I am so sorry to hear about your Dad. We've been friends since elementary school. In my 'married' family, we, too, had a family business (the gas station). It's the old family businesses which are the ones the public recalls best, with fondness. Beirnes was one of those businesses. None of the 'big boxes' can compare to the service and care provided from a family business. But, I do agree - the 'real life' stories to be told ALWAYS provided the BEST 'entertainment' at family gatherings! We never thought to write a book.. but, that WAS something your Dad would have thought of! He certainly would have captured an era and I'm sure, with his long career, he would have had ENOUGH STORIES to complete a GREAT memoir!
Your Dad was a good man and a great father to all of you. We are sorry to hear of his passing. Remember the stories and the good times together, and may your fondness of him help you through this difficult time. May your Dad (husband and Grandfather) always remain close to each of your hearts.

November 24, 2013

What a wonderful person. We are happy that we had the opportunity to meet, get to know and spend some time with Phil and Diane.
Dianne and Tom

November 24, 2013

My dearest sympathy to you and your family. From Danka and Adrian Zielinski

Paul and Carissa Mastriano

November 24, 2013

Lisa and family, our deepest sympathy, thoughts and prayers are with you during this emotional time. Please know we will think of you often throughout the holidays. With love, Paul and Carissa Mastriano and family

November 24, 2013

Peter and family. Your in my thoughts. Christine Fronckiewcz and Christopher.

November 24, 2013

My dearest sympathy to you and your family. From Christine Frank.

November 24, 2013

Phil was one of the good guys and a great pharmacy owner.If I needed an answer to a question Phil had it.
Larry Ryter Boca Raton Fl
Owner Country Club Pharmacy in Hamden

November 24, 2013

Tears are streaming down by cheeks right now Diane as I remember all the good times I had as a child in the "Votto's" backyard. Judy will remember us playing badminton, climbing the trees and playing pinochle. I am so happy that I did get a chance to talk to him these past years. Thank you for being there for him. Rachela "Laudano" Player

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