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Charlene Murphy
November 7, 2013
I am so sorry for your loss. I worked with Selby for many years at Snet/SBC and was on his golf team. He was always a kind gentle soul, a perfect gentleman. I believe God called him home early because he had already earned his wings.
Walter Martinez
September 3, 2013
My thoughts and prayers go out to the Family & Friends of Selby. I had the pleasure of working alongside Selby at AT&T. We always carved out a minute or two during work discussions to talk about family, hobbies, and the weather. He was truly a warm person. He will be missed at AT&T.
Brad Genzano
September 3, 2013
Selby was a true gentlemen and a wonderful person. Carole my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. May god bless you.
August 28, 2013
I am so sorry about your great loss. You are in my heartfelt prayers and I know that at this time God will provide you with love and encouragement from friends and family. "Happy are those who mourn, for they will be comforted." ~ Matthew 5:4
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Patti Hira
August 22, 2013
My thoughts and prayers are with the family. I had the pleasure of working with Selby at SNET/SBC/AT&T.
Lois Gurnham (prev. Aston)
August 22, 2013
I am so sorry to hear of the loss of Selby. Although i have been out of Madison for quite some time and have not seen either of you in awhile, my memories are also of a quiet and kind man. My thoughts and prayers are with your entire family during this time of grief, i hope you all can find comfort in the love and concern that is apparent in all the online messages here.
Heidi Canapinno
August 19, 2013
I'm so sorry for your loss. I never worked directly with Selby at ATT, but when I would pass him in the hallway, I was always met with a smile. My thoughts and prayers are with your entire family.
Bill Emmons
August 18, 2013
Jeanne and I are so sorry for you loss and pray that God helps you thru your pain.
Linda Henderson Gebo
August 17, 2013
I remember Selby from our graduating class of 1971. My memories are of a gentle, kind and quiet soul. My condolences to all of the Pinney family ... and especially to you, Carol, whom I remember so well. Selby, may you rest in eternal peace .....
Debbie Mard Moynihan
August 17, 2013
Selby and I lived in the same neighborhood as well as being in the same class. He was always so quiet. I'm sorry for your loss please know you are in my thoughts and prayers. WHS Class of 1971.
Doreen Muller-brown
August 17, 2013
Selby was part of Windsor High schools (CT) class of 1971. He married sweet Carole Dzanis, also class of '71. The last time I saw them was at our 20th reunion. As I said elsewhere they were glowing that night and so adorable together. I remember Selby's sweet shy smile. He was one of the good guys. My condolences to Carole and the family. God bless.
Leslie Grimshaw Toms
August 17, 2013
Carole, I was so sorry to hear of Selby's passing. Haven't seen either of you since the 20th reunion but I am sure that you remain two of the nicest people I ever knew. I hope you can glean strength from the thoughts and prayers of others as I am sure that he was loved by many, many people and family members.
Elizabeth Goodman
August 16, 2013
I'm terribly saddened by the news of Selby's passing. I remember well the few New Years Day dinners I attended at Ed and Vanina's. The meal and the company was certainly enhanced by Selby's presence. I know he will be deeply missed.
Melissa Lavanway DeLuca
August 16, 2013
I was fortunate to work for Selby, not only once but was lucky enough to have him contact me when an opening in his department came about, to work for him again. I also was a member of his team on the Telso golf league. Selby was a kind, caring man who was very professional and well respected in his job. The SNET/SBC/AT&T family has lost a true gem. I am blessed to have had the opportunity to know him. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family at this time
Vickie Somers
August 16, 2013
Very sorry to hear about the loss of Selby. I had the pleasure of working with him in SNET/AT&T. My prayers and thoughts are with Selby and his family. God Bless.
Francesca Dahlmeyer
August 16, 2013
I'm so sorry for your loss. Selby was aways a kind, inspirational, and professional person. I worked with him at SNET/SBC/ATT. Every memory is a good one of him.
David Downey
August 16, 2013
I worked with Selby for over 10 years, he was always calm and in control. A pillar to lean on when times were easy and a helping hand when things got tough. He will be missed.
August 16, 2013
I am so sorry to hear of Selby's passing. I worked with him for many years at AT&T. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family.
Ellen Flanagan
Dave Goodwin
August 15, 2013
I had the pleasure of working with Selby at AT&T over the past ~8 years and I am deeply saddened in hearing the news of his passing. Selby and I developed a friendship where we could always count on each other for help or advice and Selby was always one to offer a helping hand. I will surely miss my friend.
Bob and Sue Sawyer
August 15, 2013
We are so saddened by the passing of Selby. What a kind and gentle soul. Although we haven't seen him lately, we always had fond memories of him. Heaven is getting a very good man.
Kim and Scott Andrews
August 15, 2013
We will miss our devoted scuba diving partner. We're glad to have so many fond memories of the great times that we had together. Great people like Selby are hard to find and we're thankful he shared his life with us. Selby will always be in our thoughts....our deepest sympathy to his family and friends. He is greatly missed.
Jim Kenny
August 15, 2013
I was in boy scouts and graduated high school with Selby. We did a lot of camping and hiking together much of it in the rain. What a great smile and always upbeat and positive. You will be missed.
Tom McMahon
August 15, 2013
So sorry to hear of Selby's passing. He was truly one of the nicest people I had the pleasure of working with at SNET/SBC/AT&T. My prayers are with the entire Pinney family.
Ann Logan
August 15, 2013
So saddened by Selby's passing, he was one of the nicest people I ever worked with at AT&T...
Ann Logan
Jim Stankevich
August 15, 2013
I grew up with Selby in Windsor and we spent a lot of time together when we were very young; playing Pee Wee, Little League, and basketball. I have very good memories of that time and Selby was a good friend; my thoughts and prayers are with the entire Pinney family.
Mary Egan
August 15, 2013
I had the pleasure of working with Selby as my Director. My deepest condolences to the family. He will be greatly missed!
Maryann Atlas
August 15, 2013
I had the pleasure of working with Selby. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family. May he rest in peace.
Valerie Kane
August 15, 2013
Praying and sending peace, love and light to you and the 'girls' in this sorrowful time.
Deepest sympathy,
Stan MacLachlan
August 15, 2013
Selby was one of the nicest people I ever worked with. God has called him home and ended his suffering.
Don McGregor
August 15, 2013
I had the pleasure to live and laugh, feel pain and anger, and share joy, happiness and success with Selby for over ten years. All of us have been blessed to have shared time with him for whatever reason brought us together. I will remember Selby, as a senior AT&T executive recalled his memories of Selby, a kind and gentle person. May God bless you and your family Selby.
the Macy family
August 15, 2013
Carole, Loryn, & Chandon ~
We are so sorry for your loss, and hope that memories of happy times together fill the empty hole his passing has left in your lives.
August 14, 2013
Carole - My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your daughters at this difficult time. Linda Heath
Karen Seligson
August 14, 2013
I am so sorry to hear about Selby. You are in my thoughts.
Dawn Scott
August 14, 2013
Praying you have peace, comfort and healing in the days ahead. With deepest sympathy, Dawn Scott
August 14, 2013
My heart goes out to you all. Shelby fought the good fight. You were all there every step of the way by his side. Selby will always live on in your hearts & memories forever. You are in my thoughts & prayers. Love and light to you.
In deepest sympathy, Sue Monroe
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