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Selby Pinney Obituary

PINNEY, SELBY T. Selby T. Pinney, age 59, passed to eternal life on August 13, 2013 after his long battle with cancer. He grew up in Windsor, CT, was active in baseball, and earned his Eagle Scout Award. Selby had a distinguished career with AT&T for 29 years, residing in Madison, CT. He leaves his wife of 36 years, Carole (Dzanis) Pinney, his two daughters, Loryn Pinney of Luperon, Dominican Republic, and Chandon, and her husband Moises Rodriguez of Miami, FL. He also leaves his mother and father, Dorothy and Allen Pinney, his brother, Edward, and sister, Barbara, as well as many loved nieces and nephews. Selby will be remembered by his family and friends as a wonderful cook and will always be in their hearts. Visitation hours will be Friday, Aug. 16, from 5 to 8 PM at Swan Funeral Home in Madison, CT. A memorial service will be held on Sat., Aug. 17, at 11 AM at Christ Chapel, 1185 Durham Rd, Madison. Friends may leave an online condolence by visiting www.swanfuneralhomemadison.com In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to Smilow Cancer Center of Yale New Haven Hospital.

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Published by The New Haven Register from Aug. 14 to Aug. 15, 2013.

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Charlene Murphy

November 7, 2013

I am so sorry for your loss. I worked with Selby for many years at Snet/SBC and was on his golf team. He was always a kind gentle soul, a perfect gentleman. I believe God called him home early because he had already earned his wings.

Walter Martinez

September 3, 2013

My thoughts and prayers go out to the Family & Friends of Selby. I had the pleasure of working alongside Selby at AT&T. We always carved out a minute or two during work discussions to talk about family, hobbies, and the weather. He was truly a warm person. He will be missed at AT&T.

Brad Genzano

September 3, 2013

Selby was a true gentlemen and a wonderful person. Carole my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. May god bless you.

August 28, 2013

I am so sorry about your great loss. You are in my heartfelt prayers and I know that at this time God will provide you with love and encouragement from friends and family. "Happy are those who mourn, for they will be comforted." ~ Matthew 5:4

Patti Hira

August 22, 2013

My thoughts and prayers are with the family. I had the pleasure of working with Selby at SNET/SBC/AT&T.

Lois Gurnham (prev. Aston)

August 22, 2013

I am so sorry to hear of the loss of Selby. Although i have been out of Madison for quite some time and have not seen either of you in awhile, my memories are also of a quiet and kind man. My thoughts and prayers are with your entire family during this time of grief, i hope you all can find comfort in the love and concern that is apparent in all the online messages here.

Heidi Canapinno

August 19, 2013

I'm so sorry for your loss. I never worked directly with Selby at ATT, but when I would pass him in the hallway, I was always met with a smile. My thoughts and prayers are with your entire family.

Bill Emmons

August 18, 2013

Jeanne and I are so sorry for you loss and pray that God helps you thru your pain.

Linda Henderson Gebo

August 17, 2013

I remember Selby from our graduating class of 1971. My memories are of a gentle, kind and quiet soul. My condolences to all of the Pinney family ... and especially to you, Carol, whom I remember so well. Selby, may you rest in eternal peace .....

Debbie Mard Moynihan

August 17, 2013

Selby and I lived in the same neighborhood as well as being in the same class. He was always so quiet. I'm sorry for your loss please know you are in my thoughts and prayers. WHS Class of 1971.

Doreen Muller-brown

August 17, 2013

Selby was part of Windsor High schools (CT) class of 1971. He married sweet Carole Dzanis, also class of '71. The last time I saw them was at our 20th reunion. As I said elsewhere they were glowing that night and so adorable together. I remember Selby's sweet shy smile. He was one of the good guys. My condolences to Carole and the family. God bless.

Leslie Grimshaw Toms

August 17, 2013

Carole, I was so sorry to hear of Selby's passing. Haven't seen either of you since the 20th reunion but I am sure that you remain two of the nicest people I ever knew. I hope you can glean strength from the thoughts and prayers of others as I am sure that he was loved by many, many people and family members.

Elizabeth Goodman

August 16, 2013

I'm terribly saddened by the news of Selby's passing. I remember well the few New Years Day dinners I attended at Ed and Vanina's. The meal and the company was certainly enhanced by Selby's presence. I know he will be deeply missed.

Melissa Lavanway DeLuca

August 16, 2013

I was fortunate to work for Selby, not only once but was lucky enough to have him contact me when an opening in his department came about, to work for him again. I also was a member of his team on the Telso golf league. Selby was a kind, caring man who was very professional and well respected in his job. The SNET/SBC/AT&T family has lost a true gem. I am blessed to have had the opportunity to know him. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family at this time

Vickie Somers

August 16, 2013

Very sorry to hear about the loss of Selby. I had the pleasure of working with him in SNET/AT&T. My prayers and thoughts are with Selby and his family. God Bless.

Francesca Dahlmeyer

August 16, 2013

I'm so sorry for your loss. Selby was aways a kind, inspirational, and professional person. I worked with him at SNET/SBC/ATT. Every memory is a good one of him.

David Downey

August 16, 2013

I worked with Selby for over 10 years, he was always calm and in control. A pillar to lean on when times were easy and a helping hand when things got tough. He will be missed.

August 16, 2013

I am so sorry to hear of Selby's passing. I worked with him for many years at AT&T. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family.

Ellen Flanagan

Dave Goodwin

August 15, 2013

I had the pleasure of working with Selby at AT&T over the past ~8 years and I am deeply saddened in hearing the news of his passing. Selby and I developed a friendship where we could always count on each other for help or advice and Selby was always one to offer a helping hand. I will surely miss my friend.

Bob and Sue Sawyer

August 15, 2013

We are so saddened by the passing of Selby. What a kind and gentle soul. Although we haven't seen him lately, we always had fond memories of him. Heaven is getting a very good man.

Kim and Scott Andrews

August 15, 2013

We will miss our devoted scuba diving partner. We're glad to have so many fond memories of the great times that we had together. Great people like Selby are hard to find and we're thankful he shared his life with us. Selby will always be in our thoughts....our deepest sympathy to his family and friends. He is greatly missed.

Jim Kenny

August 15, 2013

I was in boy scouts and graduated high school with Selby. We did a lot of camping and hiking together much of it in the rain. What a great smile and always upbeat and positive. You will be missed.

Tom McMahon

August 15, 2013

So sorry to hear of Selby's passing. He was truly one of the nicest people I had the pleasure of working with at SNET/SBC/AT&T. My prayers are with the entire Pinney family.

Ann Logan

August 15, 2013

So saddened by Selby's passing, he was one of the nicest people I ever worked with at AT&T...
Ann Logan

Jim Stankevich

August 15, 2013

I grew up with Selby in Windsor and we spent a lot of time together when we were very young; playing Pee Wee, Little League, and basketball. I have very good memories of that time and Selby was a good friend; my thoughts and prayers are with the entire Pinney family.

Mary Egan

August 15, 2013

I had the pleasure of working with Selby as my Director. My deepest condolences to the family. He will be greatly missed!

Maryann Atlas

August 15, 2013

I had the pleasure of working with Selby. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family. May he rest in peace.

Valerie Kane

August 15, 2013

Praying and sending peace, love and light to you and the 'girls' in this sorrowful time.
Deepest sympathy,

Stan MacLachlan

August 15, 2013

Selby was one of the nicest people I ever worked with. God has called him home and ended his suffering.

Don McGregor

August 15, 2013

I had the pleasure to live and laugh, feel pain and anger, and share joy, happiness and success with Selby for over ten years. All of us have been blessed to have shared time with him for whatever reason brought us together. I will remember Selby, as a senior AT&T executive recalled his memories of Selby, a kind and gentle person. May God bless you and your family Selby.

the Macy family

August 15, 2013

Carole, Loryn, & Chandon ~
We are so sorry for your loss, and hope that memories of happy times together fill the empty hole his passing has left in your lives.

August 14, 2013

Carole - My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your daughters at this difficult time. Linda Heath

Karen Seligson

August 14, 2013

I am so sorry to hear about Selby. You are in my thoughts.

Dawn Scott

August 14, 2013

Praying you have peace, comfort and healing in the days ahead. With deepest sympathy, Dawn Scott

August 14, 2013

My heart goes out to you all. Shelby fought the good fight. You were all there every step of the way by his side. Selby will always live on in your hearts & memories forever. You are in my thoughts & prayers. Love and light to you.
In deepest sympathy, Sue Monroe

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