MARIANO, MARY ELLEN Mary Ellen Mariano of Killingworth, CT, was born in Norwalk on January 2, 1947 and left this world peacefully, with her children by her side, on April 22, 2016. Mary Ellen was predeceased by her loving husband, Frank DeFlippo in 2015 and her parents, Edward and Florence Mariano. She is survived by her children, Joseph Haase and Erin Rodas, her daughter in law, Cecile, son in law, Marcelo, her four grandchildren (Jessica, Liliana, Megan and Luke) and her three sisters (Cathy Rapp, Susan Gallagher, Tess Mitchell and their families). Mary Ellen will be best remembered for the exquisite taste and beauty that she created in her homes and gardens. She was an exceptional cook and artist. She had a long love affair with literature, spiritual teachings, art, music, antiques and chocolate. Mary Ellen earned a Masters of Arts from Wesleyan University and a Bachelor of Fine Art in Interior Design from Paier College of Art. She loved her children and grandchildren and moved home to Killingworth to be near them after living in Florida for 12 years. The service will be private. The family has asked that donations be made to Middlesex Hospital Hospice, 28 Crescent St., Middletown, CT 06457.
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I think of and remember you always, and especially on this day. I miss you Mary Ellen. I miss our times together, our sister friendship, and the ease, honesty of our talks. Nothing replaces the love and presence of a big sister in your life. I pray that heaven is all that we hope it will be ~ that you, Frank, Mom, Dad and all those we loved are at peace. Love you, Cathy
Cathy Mariano Rapp
Sister
April 20, 2020
R.I.P. MY COUSIN WE HAD A GREAT FAMILY MISSING ALL SAY HI ILL BE THERE SOON LOL LOVE YOU CANDY
Candice Cotroneo
Family
April 19, 2020
Always in my heart and my memories. Love you Big Sister Mary Ellen. Cathy
April 19, 2019
Mary Ellen: Gone too soon from our lives, but always in our cherished memories, always loved, appreciated and missed.
Love from your little sister, Cathy
Cathy Mariano Rapp
January 3, 2018
Happy Birthday angel❤ Miss you so much, especially on days like this. Love you.
January 2, 2018
It has now been a little over a year since you died and I miss you dearly. I remember the times I would come over on a Sunday and help you and Poppy go grocery shopping. I remember how I would have to push the grocery cart in another direction because you were about to run someone over. And then later that day we would watch Harry Potter movies together and you would shush me whenever Professor Snape came onto the screen. Nana you inspire me every day, and I hope you know that you are still loved and missed. Love you forever and always Nana, your granddaughter Liliana.
Liliana Rodas
June 7, 2017
Mary Ellen - It has been way too long, and now you've ascended to a higher calling. I have only fond memories of growing up along side your family. I too remember that 4th of July. In fact I remember many of them. I also remember your lovely gardens, creative talents and hospitality. I'm sorry you had to leave it all so soon. By now you've been embraced with your loved ones and my dad and Donnie and the hundreds of other aunts, uncles and cousins that also left this earth way too soon. RIP. Prayers. Love Cousin Patti
May 5, 2016
My big sister, my confidant, my friend. You listened when no one else would. You loved me and my kids just as we are - flaws and all. You were an inspiration and a blessing. May heaven's walls be adorned with your beautiful, colorful murals! We will remember and love you until we meet again.
Love, Tess, Nick and Stephen
April 28, 2016
Our Heartfelt sympathy in the passing of Mary Ellen. Beloved Mother, Sister, Grandmother, Aunt, Sister-In-Law & Friend. You lived a life of Grace & Beauty and surrounded yourself with these things that brought you joy & peace. You will be sadly missed and forever remembered.
Rose & Michael Caputo
April 28, 2016
Rest in peace my beautiful sister. I will cherish every moment we shared together. You were a wonderful big sister and spiritual teacher. I cannot accept that you are no longer walking with me on this earth. I know you had a sense of peace about dying. We will love and remember you forever. You are now in the light with Mom, Dad, Frank, Connie and all those we loved. I love you, Cathy
Cathy Mariano Rapp
April 28, 2016
My fondest memory is the car accident on July 4 had to be 1965 coming home from fire works man were we in trouble!!! Our childhood was the best lots of family get togethers, laughter,food an yes yelling but my wish would be that everyone experience our Great Family and to this day we all enjoy each other. You will be dearly missed but never forgotten R.I.P.my dear older cousin you are free now an with family to continue to enjoy the legacy of the DEPALMER AN MARIANO SEE YA SOON CANDY. Nikki an Brenden
Candice Cotroneo
April 26, 2016
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