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Michael Lender Obituary

LENDER, DR. MICHAEL Dr. Michael Lender, 68, of Orange, CT, devoted husband of Marilyn (Mandel) Lender, died at his home on Wednesday, July 10, 2013. Born in New Haven, August 29, 1944, he was the son of Lena S. Lender of Boca Raton, FL & the late Samuel A. Lender. Beloved father of Michele (Seth) Shedarowich of New Haven, Marla Lender (Karen Hall) of De Witt, NY, Meredeth (Paul) Indorf of Orange & Matthew Lender of Stamford. Dear brother of Marcy (James) LeBlanc of East Boston, MA. Cherished grandfather of Samuel, Solomon & Liam Shedarowich, Monae Lender, Dylan & Austin Indorf. Funeral services at Cong. B'nai Jacob, 75 Rimmon Rd., Woodbridge, SUNDAY morning at 10:30 o'clock with interment services to follow in the B'nai Jacob Memorial Park, Wintergreen Ave., New Haven. Memorial contributions may be sent to Yale-New Haven Hospital Children's Hospital, Neonatal Intensive Care Unit, 20 York St., New Haven, CT 06519. A private period of mourning will be observed. Funeral arrangements in care of The Robert E. Shure Funeral Home, New Haven. www.shurefuneral.com
Published by The New Haven Register from Jul. 11 to Jul. 12, 2013.

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Toni Newcombe ( Australia)

July 12, 2024

Thinking of you Dear M...Hope this finds you well and happy...Time seems to be flying by so fast..Take Care and Keep Well ..Love Toni ...in Australia ..X

Michele

July 9, 2023

MIssing you dad. I saw some Dalmadoodle puppies today. You would have loved them. I wish you were here.

Toni Newcombe ...Gold, Coast Australia

July 6, 2023

Thinking of you Dear Marilyn at this time...10 years since you lost your dear Michael ....... Always remembered. Love Toni Australia

Samuel

February 9, 2023

Hi Grandpa, love you.

Toni Newcombe

July 5, 2022

Thinking of you Dear Marilyn and your Dear Michael on this saddest of days. Another year has past and it is like yesterday that you messaged me Your Lovely Michael had past. Very Sad day. Warm Hugs and Love to you my friend All the way from Australia.. Toni xxxxx

Lawrence Todd Joseph

December 1, 2021

I was thinking of Dr. Michael
Lender and wondering why the
finest leave us far too soon. My beautiful calico cat
may have acted a little scared
of Michael but knew that he was
really a good friend. We miss you
Dr. Lender.

Toni Newcombe

June 3, 2021

Thinking of you & your family today Dear Marilyn ..Remembering your Michael Much Love Toni in Australia X

Marla

June 2, 2021

Dad, I am so thankful for all you taught me and shared with me. I think about you and miss you daily.

Michele

July 5, 2020

love you dad. you are very missed.

December 14, 2016

You are always with us. Your commitment to your ideals, your family and your profession are with us forever.
Marilyn

Marilyn

September 20, 2014

You are always with us.
Love,
Your Wife & Children & The Grandies

Marilyn Lender

July 4, 2014

July 4 A day you always hold my hand.
Your loving wife and forever best friend.

Marilyn Lender

June 23, 2014

You light our way.

nancy jurczak

June 7, 2014

you are forever in our hearts

Marilyn Lender

June 6, 2014

You are our hero.

Loretta Richardson

May 12, 2014

I am so sorry to hear this news. I was made aware by the invite to the building dedication. I've been going to Dr Lender with my pets since 1995. He was so knowledgeable and kind and had a very calming way about him. My 12 yr old Yorkie and I will miss him. My sincerest sympathies.

Nancy, Brian and Sean Largay

May 8, 2014

Mrs. Lender, I had no idea Dr. Lender had passed away until receiving the notice in the mail about the building dedication. We will never forget your kindness, love and generosity over our sweet girl Molly that went from being your dog to our dog. She eternally connected us for life, including the time we crashed your daughter's wedding :-). You will always have our love and gratitude. I'm so very sorry to hear the news. xoxoxoxoox

fran grade

May 6, 2014

sorry-we were just made aware of doctor's death.our sympathy to the family from ours:taurus,tasha, tava,murphy(Grade)muffin(Kyek)Toby(Osborne).
We'll never forget him;a gentle,loving piece of humanity

Your Loving Wife & family

April 15, 2014

For our dearly beloved husband, father and grandfather. You are always with us.

Marilyn Lender

November 29, 2013

You are always with me.

Dr. Samuel Fassig

October 30, 2013

To Marilyn and the family.

I am a classmate of Mike's @ OSU '73 and just learned of his passing in JAVMA. Due to my re-entry into military I lost touch with many in the class after graduation but I remember his smile, openness and always willing to help if a classmate was struggling. Back then no beard and he had a clever humor that would catch one off guard from time to time. I am sorry for your loss. I do believe the last time I saw him was @ our 20th reunion.

I do believe our loved ones never truly leave us, they live on in the kindness they showed, the comfort they shared and the love they brought into our lives. May he rest in peace. sf

Janis Melfi

September 8, 2013

Just recently learn of Dr. Lender's death. I do not know how to express my sorrow for the staff an his family. He was extremely helpful to me over the years. He not only had my pets as patient, but me. He help me through some very tuff times when my late dog Wolfie was diagnosed with cancer. With his guidance and willingness to work with the Animal Medical Center doctors in New York, Wolfie lived a happy life for an additional 5 years.

Susan & Ed Wydra

August 12, 2013

Our sincere sympathy to Dr. Lender's family and practice in the loss of a really wonderful and compassionate man.
Dr. Lender was so kind to us and our beloved cat during our pet's last days.
He himself has left too soon.

Gaston & Norma Aguilar

August 9, 2013

We just learned of your loss. Please accept our heartfelt sympathy. We met Dr. Lender back in 2001 when we took our 2 dogs to him and continued taking them to the Orange Vet Hospital. We truly appreciate his care. Please know that even those of us who only knew him in a limited capacity appreciated him very much.

Jackie Donovan

July 29, 2013

To the family of Dr. Lender,

our heartfelt condolences. We have had Dr. Lender give the most compassionate and expert care for all of our dogs for over 35 years. He will always be remembered as a great humanitarian and friend.
All our sympathy to you.

Jacquelyn Donovan and Kevin McKeon and family and dogs.

Tracie Horton

July 29, 2013

Carl and I are sad at your loss. Please call us if you need us.

donna and ron montano

July 26, 2013

Our sympathies go out to you,Marilyn, and your family. We just heard of Michael's passing. He was a kind and gentle man and a wonderful doctor. He'll be missed. All our love,
Donna and Ron

Dorinne & Jeffrey G

July 19, 2013

Dear Marilyn and family. We go back a very long way. All our love and support go out to you. Michael, may you continue to do good in heaven as you did on earth. We love you all.

Laura Bros-Greco

July 16, 2013

Bo Dog and Happy Cat want to send their sincerest sympathies to the Lender family.Thank you for your compassionate and wonderful care.

Karen Sama

July 14, 2013

Dear Marilyn and Family, My sympathies to you all on Michael's passing. I am so thankful to have worked with him, he was a gentle, kind man who made his clients and patients feel better. My thoughts are with you.

Jacki and Scott Sutherland

July 14, 2013

Dearest Marilyn, It was our pleasure to meet you recently and share special times together getting to know you. We are heartbroken at your loss. From reading these entries, it is evident that your Michael was an extraordinary man. Please know that you are in our prayers.

July 14, 2013

A loving, affectionate and caring man who gave us our first chance in this country. He will be deeply missed. Our heartfelt sympathies to Marilyn and the kids and their families. May his soul rest in peace. Dr. Manj, Vinita, Dr. Pooja and Shiva

Toni and Ron Newcombe

July 14, 2013

Our deepest sympathy to dear Marylin and family . Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this sad time...

July 13, 2013

Dear Michelle and family,
I am so sorry to learn of your father's passing. May your memories sustain you through this most difficult time. May he rest in peace.
Sincerely,
Liz Mazzu

Patty Duffy

July 13, 2013

Patty Duffy here again make that 1974 not 1969, sorry about the wrong date!

Patty Duffy

July 13, 2013

Dear Marilyn and family; Dr Lender gave a young girl who wanted to be a veterinarian a chance to work as kennel help in his practice in 1969. Little did he or I know it that it would be instrumental in my future career as a certified veterinary technician and agricultural lender. I can not be there tomorrow for his services as I cannot find a replacement for me as a steward at the Green Mountain Dog Show (a show circuit that is celebrating it 40th year). Dr Lender I think would understand. My thoughts are with you at this difficult time. He was an amazing man, an excellent veterinarian and a person who is in part responsible for who I am to today and for the success I have had in my careers. Michael Lender will be missed by many of us.
Patty Duffy Corinth, Vermont

Anthony DiLieto

July 12, 2013

Many many years ago, Dr Lender met me at the Orange Veterinary Hospital at 3 AM to treat my dog who had life-threatening Encephalitis. I have never forgotten his kindness and dedication. He saved the dogs life. I have seen many vets since then and have never ever come across another who cared as much as he did. He was a credit to his profession and a kind and decent man. May he rest in peace.

Mary Finnegan

July 12, 2013

REST IN PEACE DR. LENDER.

Laura Simone

July 12, 2013

Prayers to Dr. Lender's family. He was a generous and caring man.
Laura Simone

Tony Vaspasiano

July 12, 2013

Michele, so sorry for your lost. Good memories will carry you through your time of grief. Stay Strong.

Joan Tomassi

July 12, 2013

A great man with such a kind soul. We will cherish our memories of you. Heartfelt sympathy to the Lender family.
Joan, Alexa and Anthony Tomassi

July 12, 2013

Michele, I am so sorry for your loss. This is so sad.
Much love, Randie

DAVID ERBA

July 12, 2013

DEAR LENA, MARCY AND FAMILY....my deepest sympathy and condolences.

Mark and Barbara Steinhardt/Sherrod

July 12, 2013

Honors to a man who was a beloved father, father-in-law, and grandpa and great sympathy and love to those who will sorely miss him. And to those who so lovingly helped him during his final days, blessings upon you!

Joe Marangell

July 11, 2013

Michele, I am so sorry to hear about your father. I'm thinking of you and your family.

July 11, 2013

Our thoughts and prayers are with the entire Lender family
Alan Baum, D.V.M. And Andrea Baum

Proud Grandpa Michael

Michele

July 11, 2013

July 11, 2013

We are so sadden to hear about Dr Lender passing away. May he rest in piece. Heartfelt sympathy to The Lender family. Mr.& Mrs Wandelear

July 11, 2013

A wonderful man who always put others, human and otherwise, first. Taken too soon. You will be sorely missed. Rest in peace. Whit Mack

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