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MARY VANDERMARK Obituary

SANFORD, N.C. -- Mary Elizabeth Vandermark, 42, passed away Saturday, May 22, 2010, at Central Carolina Hospital in Sanford.

She was born April 30, 1968 in Morristown to John Robert Smith and Ruth Roon Fanion. The family grew up in Sussex County and Mary attended Newton High School. Before moving to North Carolina three years ago, she was an office manager for Skylands Medical in Newton. Mary had most recently been employed as the office manager for First Choice Health Center in Belhaven, N.C.

Mary is survived by her husband of 10 years, Elijah Vandermark, of Sanford, and her son, Elijah Richard Vandermark, who is 9 years old. Mary lived for her son Elijah, they were best friends and inseparable. This year she was team mother for his baseball team. Pray that God will keep Elijah in his care.

She is also survived by her parents, John Robert Smith and Ruth Roon Fanion, of Sanford; her twin brother, Gerald Edward Smith and his wife, Julia, of Sanford; her brother Marinus John Smith and his wife, Jeanna, of Slagle, La.; her niece, Emily Rose Smith, and nephew, Gerald Edward Smith, whom she loved dearly and who were such a big part of her life; and many aunts, uncles and cousins originally from New Jersey, whom she was always there for.

All who knew her loved her joy of life, laughter, sense of humor and loyalty as a friend. She will be missed by so many people that will cherish her memories.

A graveside funeral service will be held on Thursday at 11 a.m. at Buffalo Cemetery in Sanford, with Rev. Sandy Williams officiating. The family will receive friends Wednesday from 2 to 4 and 7-9 p.m. at Miller-Boles Funeral Home in Sanford. Miller-Boles Funeral Home of Sanford is serving the family. Online condolences may be made at www.millerboles.com.

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Published by The New Jersey Herald on May 25, 2010.

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Cousin Kelly Quick

June 13, 2010

Mary, we have become such great friends/cousins, you were the laughter in my life, it was always so easy to talk to you, to share my thoughts and dreams with. Your smile, your laugh, and you always saying, "It's all good", will forever be in my heart. I will truly miss you, my FRIEND. Your whole family will remain in our thoughts and our prayers ALWAYS. I love you and miss you so much.

Betty Cicio

June 1, 2010

My sis, my best friend, I will never forget the smile on your face, the laughter in your voice, the comforting hugs, your gentle kind words and the many fun times we enjoyed together. Your smile and laughter will always be with me. I Love you and miss you very much. Just remember, " YOU AND ME ALWAYS AND FOREVER."

Betty Cicio

June 1, 2010

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Donna Cole

May 28, 2010

I was so sadden to hear of the news of Mary's passing. Mary and I worked together and her laughter, her joy of life was so infectious. My heart goes out to her family and her son Elijah (pip) as she so always fondly called him. You will be truly missed and you will always have a spot in my heart.

Heidi Vanderhoof

May 27, 2010

"My heart goes out to her family. I loved Mary very much and will miss her. I am so sorry for your loss. I will forever hold her her memeory!" Heidi Vanderhoof (Sussex, NJ)

Margaret

May 27, 2010

I was so sorry to read of Mary's passing! My thoughts and prayers are with her family. Margaret Larsen a patient of Dr Kane

michele sliker

May 25, 2010

Oh, i cant beleive what i read in the paper today, what a shock i am so lost for words! i am so sorry for the loss, Mary was a great person and best friend , i will cherish her memories always close to my heart! Elijah im so sorry for your loss and god bless you and elijah jr and mary.s family. She was an awsome women ,mom and wife and friend, mary had it all, i will rember all with her and wish i could be there but my prayers are and always will be forever and always. Mary my best friend forever in my heart, i love you sooo much rest in peace my sweet angel, god bless you! and god bless your family, marys laughter jokes and chering me up always will be remembered and her beautiful smile that followed her always. Love always michele sliker and donny and ashley gunderman, (stillwater nj)

May 25, 2010

Prayers with Elijah! My daughters are schoolmates of his and we feel deeply saddened that this has happened to his beautiful family. May God comfort you all in this terrible time.
The Diaz Family

May 25, 2010

I was sadden to learn of Mary's passing. I worked with her for many years in NJ. She was an exception person showing her love and care to all that met her. She will be dearly missed by the family and friends.
Joan Aukema (Wantage NJ)

Ashley Gunderman

May 25, 2010

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort. I can not believe this it is such a shock. I am very sorry Uncle Elijah, you and aunt marry were soo nice to my family. Your always in our hearts love, michele courtright, donny gunderman and ashley gunderman.

Teresa

May 25, 2010

Oh my what a shock to see of your loss in the paper today! You are in our prays and thoughts Elijah, Elijah and family. Teresa and Corey of Lafayette, New Jersey. Brenda and Zachary of Wild Acres of Pennsylvania

Patricia L Kane

May 25, 2010

Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you ... we remember Mary's wonderful laugh and joy of life ... she will be missed. With love, Frank, Pat, LCpl Frank and Michael Kane

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