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Debra Mersereau Obituary

MONTAGUE - Debra Mersereau, 61, unexpectedly passed away Sunday, Dec. 16, 2012, at her residence.

Born in Passaic on Nov. 8, 1951, to the late Edward and Nathaline Mackowicz, Debby grew up in the Dutch Hills section of Clifton before moving to Wantage and most recently Montague. She was a registered nurse and was currently employed at Andover Subacute and Rehabilitation Center as well as the Loving Care Agency in Dover. She was a former member of St. Monica R.C. Church in Sussex, where she served as a Eucharistic Minister.

Debby was predeceased by her husband of 26 years, Brian, on Feb. 3, 2011. She is survived by her two sisters, Cathy Toth, and her husband, John, of Wantage, and Donna Giordano, and her husband, Joe, of Montague; her brother, Edward Mackowicz, and his wife, Veronica, of Byram; her nieces and nephews, Brian, Eric, Jeffrey, Brad, John, Casey, Michael, Laurie, Alyson, Chelsea, Kylie, Kellie, Matthew, Mark and Nicole; and many great-nieces and nephews.

Funeral services will be held 9:30 a.m. Thursday, Dec. 20, at Pinkel Funeral Home, 31 Bank St. (Route 23), Sussex. A Mass of Christian Burial will follow at 10 a.m. at St. Monica R.C. Church, 33 Unionville Ave., Sussex. Private cremation services will be held at the convenience of the family. Friends may pay their respects to the family from 4 to 7 p.m. Wednesday, Dec. 19, at the funeral home.

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to Father John's Animal House, 50 Father Johns Lane, Lafayette, NJ 07848. Online condolences may be offered to the family on www.pinkelfuneralhome.com.

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Published by The New Jersey Herald on Dec. 19, 2012.

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Geoffrey Handel

December 10, 2022

Even though it´s been 10 years since Debbie passed, I just found out today. I lived next to her in Clifton in the early 80´s, we went to her wedding, and I always remember her as such a kind, compasnionate person. Our deepest sympathy to her sisters and brother. Geoff and Ceci Handel

Niko (Kay Trimble's daughter) Lantz

January 25, 2013

I was so sorry to hear about the passing of Debby. She and Brian were always so fun to be around. I still remember the Bon Jovi , New Jersey Homecomming concert, they took us to. They were the best. I'm sorry for your loss.

Steve and Lynne Kolb

December 22, 2012

Dear Cathy and family,
We are deeply saddened to hear of Debbie's passing. It is a sad time for you. We wrap our arms around you in prayer and thoughts.
May she rest in peace.
Steve and Lynne Kolb, Sussex NJ

Diana

December 22, 2012

Debra, I couldnt believe when they told me about it. Thank you so much for your phone call and I do remember when u said that for me was hope but no for u, however I know we suffered the same, yes I am young but pain is the same old & young.

December 22, 2012

Just heard the shocking news, my sincerest condolences to the family. Debbie was a very sweet and caring person. She will be missed. Enjoyed spending time with her and Brian over many years
Ann McLoughlin

Michael & Ellina Peters

December 21, 2012

My cousin Debbie, who is now with Jesus, Brian, Uncle Eddie and Aunt Nathie; you are missed and loved very much.
Bud, Cathy, and Donna, may God bless you and your family with faith, hope, strength, and peace.

Prov. 3 Vs 5,6

Tim DeKoker

December 21, 2012

Rest in peace Aunt Deb.

Aunt Margaret DeMetro

December 21, 2012

Debby,, u are so loved & Missed but U are now at peace ,,U are with Your parents,Brian,Uncle John & all those who loved U & all who u loved,,

Cathy Anzalone

December 20, 2012

Dear Eddie, Cathy, Donna and Family
I am so deeply sorry to hear of the loss of Debbie. She was such a sweet and caring person. When we had the pleasure of joining you for family celebrations we always had such a wonderful time. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this difficult time. With Love and remembrance,
Cathy, Rich, Daniel, and Rachael Anzalone

Michele DeMetro

December 20, 2012

Love & Miss U Debby

Lucille Peters

December 20, 2012

This is the light for Debbie as I knew her when she was young. A sweet and kind person that was well liked. My heart goes out to her family in this tragedy.

Michele DeMetro

December 20, 2012

Love & Miss U always Debby

Mona Croyle

December 20, 2012

There are no words to express our very deep sorrow. A shining light has gone out of our lives. Our hearts and prayers are with you on this sad day. Love, Mona and Harry

December 20, 2012

So sorry we could not make the services, but our hearts, thoughts and prayers are with you all. Love Uncle Walter and AuntLettie

Helaine Guerino

December 20, 2012

Debby was a sincere, caring and compassionate person. My thoughts go out to her family.

carmen collins

December 19, 2012

it is so hard to find the right words to let you know how much you will be missed
but you will be very missed

Patricia Donza

December 19, 2012

Debbie was a very sweet person. We worked together and she was always a kind and caring nurse. She will be missed by her patients and all the nurses she worked with. God bless your family.

Rhonda Rome

December 19, 2012

My deepest sympathy to your family. I knew Debbie & Brian for a lot of years when I worked with him and they were also customers at our business.

Donna Smith

December 19, 2012

Deb,
was one of the kindest nurses I have ever worked with, she cares so deeply for her residents, she will be truely missed by all

December 19, 2012

My deepest sympathy goes out to your family. Please take comfort that God feels your pain (Zechariah 2:8) and He will comfort you. We will be praying for your family.

Ann Klein

December 19, 2012

Much sympathy to Debra's Family. She was a king and caring person who was dedicated in her care-giving to Loving Care Patients of East Rutherford and gentle in spirit with the ability to be sensitive to the needs of others. May her memory be a testimony to character of what it means to be passionate and devoted as a nurse to fragile populations

Midge Barron

December 19, 2012

A loving and caring professional, you will be missed by all - Requiescat in Pace.

Pat Mindos

December 19, 2012

Debra had such a heart of gold. Her warm personality inspired me so much.

Penny Belcher

December 19, 2012

Deb, I can't beleive that you are gone, you were such a caring loving friend and you took such good care of my brother in the nursing home, he will miss you very much as will Jim and myself. You are with Brian now and I wish for you both eternal peace. God Bless!

December 19, 2012

Cathy,
My sincere condolences to you and your family.
Cheryl Buxton RN

Rosa Borrego

December 19, 2012

Debra was a very loving caring nurse to all her patients. I will miss her hope she find piece my thoughts and prayers go out to her famliy.

Liz Elflein

December 19, 2012

No words can express how sorry I am for your loss. Thought and prayers to Debbie's family. She was a very caring and generous person and I am privileged to have been able to work with her years ago.

Janel Rumsey

December 19, 2012

I worked with Debby for years at the Sussex County Detention Center. I was heart broken to hear the news. She will be missed! She was seriously a kind hearted woman, always generous. I am sorry for your loss! Prayers are with her family continuosly.

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