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Mauro John, AIA, 80, passed away on September 3, 2014 with his family by his side at his home. A resident of Upper Saddle River, NJ since 1977. He was a parishioner of the Church of the Presentation in Upper Saddle River, NJ. Born on July 11, 1934, in Manhattan, to Gaetano Cappitella and Maria D'Errico, he was the younger of two children.
He is survived by his three children: Mark G. Cappitella, Christina (Tina) M. Bartels and her husband Joseph and Nicole A. Snyder and her husband Owen. Also by his grandchildren Nicholas, Melissa, Kelly, Christopher and Emily and his step grandchildren Ana and Douglas and his companion Evelyn Senaldi. His wife, Christine W. Otte Cappitella and his brother Joseph A. Cappitella predeceased him.
He grew up in East Harlem and attended Benjamin Franklin High School. He earned a degree in Architecture from City College of New York in 1956. Mauro John Cappitella, BSArch, MS, MBA, AIA was pledge chancellor of Sigma Beta Phi, treasurer of the Architectural Society, vice-president of Webb '56, and a member of the Art Society and Carnival Committee. He played intramural baseball in 1954-'55.
After graduation, Mauro worked for a year as designer for Garfinkel & Marenberg and then joined Western Electric Co. in 1957 as an architect. That same year, he enlisted in the U.S. Army, serving for two years as a first lieutenant with the 3rd Infantry Division. In 1960, while working for Western Electric, he entered Columbia University to do two years of post-graduate work. He earned a master's degree in urban planning in 1967 from New York University. The following year, while pursuing a master of business administration degree at NYU (1969), he joined the Port Authority of NY/NJ as a project architect. He was with the PA for more than twenty years in their World Trade Center office. In 1977, he also went into private practice as an architect and professional planner, Mauro J. Cappitella, AIA.
A member of the AIA, Mauro has served as president of the Architects League of NJ (1988 and 1993) and holds the Director of the Year Award for 1980 and 1981, the AIA Architects League Past President's Award for 1988 and 1993, and the 1993 Anton L. Vegliante Award. He has been selected for inclusion in Who's Who in the World, Who's Who in America, Who's Who in the East, Who's Who in Finance and Industry, and a number of architectural profiles. In 1998, he lectured at the City College at the reopening of the Great Hall.
In addition to his professional architect's affiliations, Mauro has volunteered at West Point Military Academy since 2000. He is a member of the Republican Party. He has been a Rotarian and he has been a member of the Society of U.S. Army 3rd Infantry Division since 1990. He has served as the director of the Saddle River Swim and Tennis Club and the Saddle River Investment Club.
Mauro loved to travel and was a sportsman, participating in a wide range of outdoor activities including boating, hiking, walking and swimming. But for most of his neighbors in Upper Saddle River he will be best remembered as the Tan Man in his regular lounge chair at the swim club and 34 years walking his regular daily route around USR.
Mauro (Mario, Moe, Mo, Maurine, Morris, Morey) is remembered for his pride in his first generation Italian heritage, his high valuation of education and professionalism, and a strong work ethic. These were tempered by his love of storytelling and love of all things Disney. For him customer service and quality products were paramount as well as maintaining a well-groomed appearance. More than anything he was committed to the importance of family and community involvement.
His wake will take place on Friday, September 5th from 2-4 and 7-9 PM at Robert Spearing Funeral Home at 155 Kinderkamack Rd. in Park Ridge, NJ.
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His funeral will be held on Saturday, September 6th at 10 AM at Church of the Presentation, 271 West Saddle River Road in Upper Saddle River, NJ. Immediately following his funeral, interment at Ascension Cemetery, 650 Saddle River Road, Airmont, NY. Reception celebrating Dad's life will follow at the Church of the Presentation.
Contributions in Mauro's memory may be sent to City College of New York, 21st Century Foundation, 160 Convent Avenue, Shepard Hall 154, NY, NY 10031. Make gift payable to 21st Century Foundation, indicate on the memo line "in memory of Mauro J. Cappitella." To extend condolences online or share memories in the guestbook, visit www.northjersey.com and click on Obituary and search for Mauro.

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Published by The Record/Herald News on Sep. 5, 2014.

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Irma Chazotte

September 16, 2014

Please accept my sympathy on Mauro's passing. Mauro was a great Rotary friend. His mellow voice, friendly smile, and story-telling will be much missed. Peace, Mauro.

Nicole Cappitella Snyder

September 9, 2014

Thank you for the gift of life Dad. I feel blessed to have learned so very much with you and through you.
These past months have been the most challenging and rewarding at the same te.
The greatest being reconciliation, closure and your peaceful and pain free transition!!!
I love you and light a candle in your name.
For light conquers darkness and darkness can never overcome it!!

Paul Bryan

September 9, 2014

I will miss Mauro's presence at the Architects League meetings, as well as his friendly advice. He was quite an asset to our group.

Harry Shannon

September 7, 2014

Moe was one of my best friends at the Port Authority. We worked together for over 20 years. He loved architecture and was so proud to be an Architect. He was committed to the AIA and anyone who had an interest in the profession. We went out to lunch together almost every day for all those years. That's thousand of lunches at local sandwich shops, restaurants and many, many trips to Chinatown. I am a very slow eater so I generally listened as Moe told me stories about his life. After over twenty years of lunches,
you can imagine how many times I heard these stories, but he enjoyed telling them and I enjoyed listening. There were his early years growing up in Spanish Harlem, his alma maters, City College and Columbia University, his first architectural job with Western Electric, his adventures in Europe while in the military, the different encounters he had with his clients, unique characters met throughout his life and, of course, his beloved wife and three children. Moe and I attended numerous architectural functions together. conventions in Atlantic City and local dinners promoting new products. We even went to Minnesota to attend the Anderson Window "School." On this trip we roomed together - always lots of laughs, good food, interesting conversations and, of course, a martini or two. Since we retired I would see Moe at our Christmas luncheon where about a dozen of us would meet and reminisce about our glory days. This year Moe won't be there, but I'll set a place for him, complete with a martini, and he will be the main topic of conversation. I will miss my friend, Moe. He was a very special man and, until we meet again, may God hold him in the palm of his hand.

Tina Cappitella Bartels

September 7, 2014

Dear Dad,
I am so proud of you and your accomplishments in all facets of your life. You inspired others to follow their dreams just as you followed yours - ALL of which you personally designed and successfully achieved.

Joseph Bruno, AIA

September 6, 2014

Mauro was one of the finest gentlemen that I have ever met. He was always willing to share is wisdom and told the best stories. Scores of Architects (and their clients) throughout New Jersey owe Mauro a debt of gratitude. That enormous smile could instantly improve the mood in an entire room. Rest in eternal peace my friend.

James Hennessy

September 5, 2014

Your Dad, Mauro, had a profound impact on my career choice, when he spoke at my college (NJIT) 20+ years ago. I am forever grateful to him for sharing his story with us.
James P. Hennessy AIA

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