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Adam Tobia Obituary
Adam Kennedy, 51 years old, of Park Ridge passed away on November 5, 2015. Adam is survived by his wife Dr. Michele Calderoni; his children Parker, Phiona & Pierson; his father Orlando "Toby" Tobia and Toby's wife Alice, and a loving family including his brothers and sisters, and an abundant number of cousins, nieces and nephews. He is also survived by the members of Calderoni family who loved him like their own brother and son. He is preceded in death by his mother Mary B. Tobia.
Adam was born on March 9th in Closter, NJ to Mary & Orlando Tobia. The youngest boy of 9 children, he is a graduate of Northeastern University. He was the owner of Toby's Electric Service, the company his father founded in 1948. He was a generous individual who loved his family and was passionate about his children. He was a dedicated member of the community and known for his active involvement in Park Ridge football and basketball programs. He will be remembered as a kind and loving father who encouraged his children to pursue their dreams. Visitation at Becker Funeral Home, 219 Kinderkamack Road, Westwood on Monday 2-4 and 7-9 pm. All are welcome to attend and celebrate Adam's life on Tuesday at Our Lady of Mercy RC Church, Park Ridge at 11:00am. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Asbury Park Where Music Lives, asburyparkmusiclives.org Send condolences at: www.becker-funeralhome.com
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Memories and Condolences
for Adam Tobia
David and Dawn Conkling
November 1, 2016
Adam. We will always remember you and all our good times together. You'll never be forgotten ! We will miss you today and always. Love and hugs to Michele, Parker, Phiona, Pierson and family Xoxoxoxo
December 1, 2015
Dear Michele & Family, My condolences & prayers are with you and your family at the sad loss of your Adam. He was one of a kind, a great husband and an awesome Dad! May the memories of so many fun times together hold you through the Holidays. God bless you, comfort you and keep you always. Susan Greene
Dom Albi
November 12, 2015
I was so sorry to hear of Adam's passing. I didn't know him as an adult. My family and the Tobia family are loosely related as family. My kids and the Tobia "kids" grew up together. Mine in Norwood, Adam and his siblings in Closter. I just lost my wife Grace. She knew the Tobia kids well and loved every one of them. Know that my Grace and mom, Mary welcomed Adam into their loving arms and that he is alright now. Your friend, Dom
Lori Spechler
November 11, 2015
To the Tobia family,
Our deepest condolences for your loss.
Sincerely, Lori & Ron Spechler
Phil Fusco
November 10, 2015
Dear Tobia Family,
Our deepest thoughts, prayers, and sympathies to your entire family. You will all be in our thoughts and prayers.
The Fusco Family
November 10, 2015
Dear Michele, Parker, Phiona and Pierson. Our deep thoughts and prayers are reaching out to you now as you go through such grieving times as this. We hope that you all can cope with this tragedy. Our sincere condolences are with you... The Christensen family
Jim Moldow
November 10, 2015
To the Tobia family
I was a customer on many occassions over the years, and I admired Adam's integrity, honesty and professionalism. We'd chat about our kids, and he was a good man. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family.
Jim Moldow
formerly of Hillsdale
November 10, 2015
Michele,
Our deepest condolences to you, your family and all of the Tobia family. You will all be in our thoughts and prayers.
Tim and Donna Slattery and children and the extended Slattery Family (NJ and Florida).
Jerry Mendez
November 10, 2015
Our deepest condolences to your family.
Dr. Mendez and family
Gayle, Joy, & Joshua Gruenberg
November 10, 2015
Dear Michele, Parker, Phiona, and Pierson,
Our thoughts, prayers, and sympathies are with you now and as you move forward. May your warm memories comfort you and bring you peace.
Lisa Van Clief
November 9, 2015
Dear Tobia Family,
The Van Clief family (Claire, Elwood "Bud", Lisa and Shelley ( first from Closter then Norwood) Send you our condolences.
ednalou manley
November 9, 2015
Michele and Family,
I am so sorry for your loss. Ricki and Tony told what a nice man he was.
You will be in my thoughts and prayers.
Ednalou Manley
Calderoni family friend
Dan & Ruth
November 9, 2015
Michelle,
We have you and your wonderful family in our hearts and prayers. Know that we are always available for you. Collectively, we will all provide the love and strength needed to ensure that Adam's spirit continues.
Deepest condolences,
Dan and Ruth Hopkins
Mary & Carl
November 9, 2015
There are few words that convey our sadness and sympathy for you and the children at this difficult time. Adam was a special guy and here's hoping fond memories of him will ease your sorrow as time passes. With heartfelt sympathy for you and your family, love, Mary and Carl
Janet Rodenhausen
November 9, 2015
Dear Michele and Family -You are all in my thoughts and prayers at this most difficult time. Much love to all of you.
Annie Acuti
November 9, 2015
Michele,
My deepest heartfelt sympathy to you and your family. My love and prayers are with you.
janet wafer
November 9, 2015
Michelle,
I am shocked to hear of your loss and my thoughts are with you and your family . Janet Wafer
Steve & Carol Isaacson
November 9, 2015
Dear Michelle
A person that departs from this earth never truly leaves, for they are still alive in our hearts and minds, through us, they live on. Please accept our condolences, Adam will not be forgotten.
Steve & Carol
JILL ALLISON
November 9, 2015
While there's nothing I can do to change what happened, I can continue to offer you my prayers . Extending my most heartfelt condolences to you and your family."
Jill Allison
Tammy Levinson
November 8, 2015
There are so few words to find that express our deepest condolences to you all! Prayers, thoughts, and loving sympathy to you all. May your happy years and memories together help comfort you at this time of sadness, emptiness and loss! Celebrate his amazing life and the legacy he leaves behind! XOXO
Marlene Quijano
November 8, 2015
Dear Michele & Family,
Our deepest sympathy to you and your family. May your memories bring you peace during this time of sorrow.
Marlene Quijano, Sofía & Nicholás Sabella, Frank Sabella
November 8, 2015
Michele and children. Our prayers are with you all. We cherish memories of Adam. His personality lit whatever room he was in.
Love,
Marty and Phil
Kathy Dinkel
November 7, 2015
Dear Michele,
My deepest condolences. I'm keeping you and your family in my prayers.
Trish Calabrese
November 7, 2015
Dear Michele,
I am so sorry, our deepest sympathy to you and your family.
Trish & Frank
Ray Jimenez
November 7, 2015
Michele
Our deepest condolences.
Adam was the salt of the earth and a good man. I cherish my memories of him.
May your faith, family and friends serve as support to you, Pierson, Phiona, Parker and the family thru this difficult period.
Ray and Gaby Jimenez
Melissa Welch
November 7, 2015
Michele we are keeping you and the whole family in our prayers. Adam will always be in our hearts as a kind and incredibly loving person. His smile brightened the room! Love from Missy, Ken and Hailey
James Gordon
November 7, 2015
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
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