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Mary Lind Obituary

LIND Mary Patricia "Pat," 70, of Oakland, NJ peacefully departed to her eternal life on July 24, 2011 at Villa Marie Claire in Saddle River, NJ. Born on July 12, 1941 at Margaret Hague Maternity Hospital in Jersey City, she was the only child of Frank and Cecilia Ferguson of Hasbrouck Heights, NJ. Pat graduated from Immaculate Conception High School in Lodi, NJ in 1959 before attending Seton Hall University where in 1963 she was one of the first women to obtain a Baccalaureate degree in Nursing. In 1968 she obtained her Master's in Nursing, specializing in obstetrics at Columbia University where she also obtained her license in midwifery and became an associate professor. Over the years, she worked at Hackensack University Medical Center in Labor and Delivery and the ICU, Holy Name Hospital in Labor and Delivery and taught obstetrics at their nursing school and at the Englewood Women's Clinic as a nurse and midwife. Pat then went on to attend Union County College in 1982 to become one of Valley Hospital's first paramedics, a career that spanned nearly 24 years until retirement. During her medical career she attended the birth of nearly 1000 babies. Pat has also served as an emergency medical technician for the Ho-Ho-Kus Volunteer Ambulance Corps where she also acted as the corps President and Captain, and is a life member, and the Oakland First Aid Squad. She helped teach emergency obstetrics and gynecology to EMT and Paramedic students and Police cadets at the Law and Public Safety Institute in Mahwah, NJ and Union County College for nearly two decades. On September 11, 2001, as thousands fled Manhattan, she and her partner on Valley's MICU responded to the World Trade Center, before being stationed at the triage and treatment area at the South Street Seaport. Known affectionately to her grandchildren as"MomMom", the most important thing in Pat's life was her family. Carl Lind and his wife Loryn and their daughters Sydney and Paige of Pompton Lakes, NJ, Evan Lind and his wife Yoko of Toronto, Canada; Kristina Lind and her daughter Alixis of Mahwah, NJ and all her extended family and beloved friends. Pat will be remembered for her devotion to the Catholic faith and her love of God, her dedication to the teaching of emergency medical personnel and nurses, her ability to put the people around her at ease and calm their fears, her love of Siamese cats, her "grand-dogs" and Lake Sunapee, and her strength and conviction in the face of adversity that inspired all of those around her. She will forever be loved and missed by everyone whose life she touched. Visiting hours, Friday, July 29, 2011, 2-4, 6-9 PM at the Vander Plaat Funeral Home, www.vpfh.com, 257 Godwin Ave.,Wyckoff, NJ. Funeral Saturday, beginning with prayers at 9:00 AM at the funeral home, followed by a Funeral Mass at 10:00 AM, St. Elizabeth RC Church, 700 Wyckoff Ave., Wyckoff, NJ. Entombment will follow at Maryrest Cemetery, Mahwah. In lieu of flowers; Pat has asked that donations be sent to Nancy Leyrer, Program Assistant, Memorial Sloan- Kettering Cancer Center, 1275 York Ave., Box 470, New York, NY 10065 or Villa Marie Claire, 12 West Saddle River Rd., Saddle River, NJ 07458.

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Published by The Record/Herald News on Jul. 26, 2011.

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Monica

September 13, 2018

During this time of great sorrow and pain, know that you are not alone. May God give your family strength and comfort to help you endure this time of loss. As you remember your beloved one, may our Father, the God of peace, give you comfort and peace in every way today, tomorrow, and always. Please accept my sincere condolences.

July 27, 2011

Evan, Carl and Families,
You are in our hearts and on our minds. Wishing you peace and love during this time.
Sincerely,
Alisha and Eugene

Jack Glynn

July 27, 2011

Our sympathies to Pat's family. She was a great partner on the MICU and I have many fond memories of our time working together.

Lars Lederer

July 26, 2011

Our thoughts are with your family during this difficult time. - The Lederer Family

Dawn Winters

July 26, 2011

My thoughts and sympathy are with all of you. Your Mother was a wonderful person who will be missed by all who had the privilege to know her.

Amy Ehnert

July 26, 2011

You are all in my thoughts and prayers. You're mother was a wonderful and kind person. I feel lucky to have known her.

Mary Magnabousco

July 26, 2011

To the Family of Pat Lind: Please accept my condolences on the passing of your Mom. Over the years I attended many courses with Pat in the EMT programs and her lectures. She will be missed. Rest in Peace. Mary C. Magnabousco, Past Captain of Maywood First Aid

Diane Moritz

July 26, 2011

Well said and she will be forever missed!

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