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Herbert Allmers Obituary



ALLMERS
Herbert H. "Bert", 79, of Long Beach Island, NJ, passed away on Friday, June 29, 2012 at Memorial Sloan Kettering Hospital surrounded by his loving family. Born in Dumont, he was a long-time resident.
Bert retired in 1992 as the Deputy Chief of Detectives for the Bergen County Prosecutor's Office. He graduated from Dumont High School, Rutgers University, and received a Masters degree from Fairleigh Dickinson University. In 1976, he graduated from the FBI National Academy (Quantico, VA), 105th session and was a member of PBA Local #221. He was a lifetime member and past President of the New Jersey Polygraphists Inc. and was instrumental in forming the Community Center for Mental Health in Dumont, he served as Chairman for six years. He was a member of the Dumont Fire Dept. Co. #3, becoming Chief in 1973 and a lifetime member of the New Jersey State Fireman's Association. He served on the Board of Director's of Cedar Lawn Cemetery in Paterson. He belonged to the Alpine Tilden-Tenakill Masonic Lodge #77 of Tenafly and the Salaam Shriners Temple in Livingston, NJ.
Bert will be sadly missed by his loving wife of 50 years, Nancy (nee Forster), his devoted sons; Scott and his wife Kerry, Gary and his wife Colleen, his cherished daughters; Kimberly Dowd, and Krissy Manning and her husband Frank. A great joy in Bert's life were his adored grandchildren: Kelly, and Billy Dowd, Ryan, Kylie, Brennan, and Camryn Allmers, James, Julie, and John Allmers, and Frank, Kassidy, Karly, and Kelty Manning.
Bert loved spending his winters in Jupiter, Florida. A loyal friend to many, he touched countless lives.
A celebration of his life will be held on Thursday, July 5th, 2012 from 2-6 PM at Frech Funeral Home, 161 Washington Avenue, Dumont, NJ.
In lieu of flowers, please send donations to Memorial Sloan Kettering Hospital; 1275 York Avenue, NY, NY 10024; or Southern Ocean Medical Center; Rt. 72 West, Manahawkin, NJ 08050.

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Published by The Record/Herald News on Jul. 2, 2012.

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William Vazquez

June 27, 2025

He was a good neighbor, a great friend, always with a warm smile for everyone.
He left us many wonderful Memories.
He was and is sorely missed.

William Vazquez

June 26, 2019

From the first day I met him, we became fast friends. Always missed him when he went North (a snowbird) and happy to greet him on his return. He and Nancy were truly in class of special people. GOOD FRIENDS!

Cindy Gambale

July 8, 2012

Burt, we love you and will miss you, dearly. You are in our hearts every day. How lucky for all of us to be gifted with such a wonderful man in our lives.
R.I.P Herbert Allmers. xo

Ed Bernett

July 5, 2012

Nancy I send my deepest sympathy to you and your family. You don't know me but Bert was a classmate an fellow lodge member i wll keep you and your family in my prayers. Ed Bernett Hudson Fl.

Jay Haviland

July 5, 2012

The world lost a good man. My deepest sympathy to the enitire Allmers Family. With sympathy,

john masters

July 4, 2012

my first boss in the prosecutor's office.A true gentleman and an excellent teacher. We were all better for our time spent with him.

Bob and Rita Goodwin

July 4, 2012

Our sympathys to the entire Allmers family. Burt was a great great person. He will be missed.

July 4, 2012

Dear Nancy and Family,
Our deepest condolences to you and your family. We will keep you in our prayers.
May he rest in peace.
Phyllis & Ed Carpentier

July 2, 2012

Dear Nancy and Family,
Our deepest condolences to all of you. We continue to keep Bert, and all of you in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.

~ Dolores & Jim O'Hara, Christine & Tom Cleary
North Beach ,NJ

John & Millie LoRusso

July 2, 2012

Dearest Nancy and Family,
May it bring you comfort to know that nothing will diminish the ways your husband and father touched your lives. The love and memories you shared will remain forever.
With our deepest sympathy

July 2, 2012

Dearest Bert,
You fought the good fight and were extremely brave throughout.
Unfortunately, the Good Lord has not given us the grace to overcome that malady.
We cannot question God's decisions other than to know he has a plan for each of us.
Our hearts are with Nancy, and the family.
Our summer visit to LBI will not be the same without you.
Goodbye for now, till we meet again.
Bill & Barbara Vazquez

peter mazzeo

July 2, 2012

My deepest condolences to the entire Allmers family. Bert was a fine man and valued member of the law enforcement community. I always considered him a good friend & know he will be missed by his family & friends. May God rest your soul.

Debbie Gitto

July 2, 2012

My heart goes out to you and your whole family. I know it has been a journey ~ I only hope that memories and love will give you comfort, a small consolation I know... Love transcends all things and your Dad will be with you always, in a special way... xoxo

July 2, 2012

REST IN PEACE BERT. WHEN THE LORD CALLS OUR LOVED ONES HOME, HE LEAVES A GIFT OF MEMORIES IN EXCHANGE! MY BEST TO THE
FAMILY-- STAY STRONG!
LOVE, MARGARET MANDATO AND FAMILY

Tom & Cindy Misskerg

July 2, 2012

RIP Bert. Good friend and member of the extended family. You will be missed.

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