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David Radford Obituary

David O. Radford February 23, 1949 - August 21, 2011 Oakdale - David O. Radford, passed away on August 21, 2011 at Hartford Hospital at the age of 62. He was born in El Paso, TX on February 23, 1949 to the late Orville and Isabel (Estrada) Radford. He married Sandra (McCormack) Radford on January 1, 1971 in Rye, NY. Dave served in the U.S. Navy during the Vietnam War where he was honorably discharged after receiving a medal for saving the lives of many in a civilian plane crash in 1976. After his discharge he became employed as a Block Operator for Amtrak for over 30 years where he remained up until his death. He is a lifetime member of the VFW in Plainfield and a member of the Masonic Lodge in New London. Besides his loving wife Sandi Radford of Oakdale, he is survived by a son David Radford II and his wife Stacy of Uncasville, a daughter Tonja Hillyer and her husband Matthew of Ayer, MA, a step-daughter Sherri Sheetz and her husband Garry of NY, a brother Juan Martinez and his wife Micah of Moreno Valley, CA, and a brother Robert Martinez of Bakersfield, CA. He also leaves behind grandchildren Rebecca and Tyler Radford, Bray Turner, Trevor and Destinee Hillyer, Jessica, Samantha and Dustun Sheetz, great-grandchildren Jezamine and Wyatt Hillyer, and several nieces and nephews. He is predeceased by a daughter Anna Wanita and a sister Rosa Sanchez. In lieu of flowers the family requests that donations be made in memory of Dave to the Oakdale Fire Department or the Montville Police Union. Services will be held at a later date at the convenience of the family. Please visit www.montvillefuneralhome.com to leave an online condolence for the Radford family.

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Published by Norwich Bulletin on Aug. 25, 2011.

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David & Stacy Radford

September 24, 2011

Dad--you will always remain in our hearts. You were a wonderful man who touched so many. May you be in peace now and never feel pain again.
Until we meet again.....
Love always,
David, Stacy, Rebecca & Tyler

Jane Hooper

September 22, 2011

Sandi, Dye & I will always remember the good times that you & Dave & Donna & Mal & Dye & I had at Harry's & David's take out stands. We laughed & cried together. Dave was a very special person, kind & gentle; a friend to all. We shall miss his smile, his laugh,his way with Tucker!!
When I look at the night sky, that falling star, is Dave coming to check up on all of us!!! Our love & a hug to you & the family, Jane & Dye & Tucker

September 21, 2011

Sandi, David & Tonja,

We knew your fathers time was almost up hear on earth. It was still a shock when we learned of his passing. He was a wonderful person who would give you the shirt off his back. I will miss his friendly greeting and smile. His passing is easier knowing that he is no longer in pain. My father and your father are now our guardian angels.

Rick, Maryann, Conrad, Morgan and Nick (His dog buddy)

Darryl, Amy, Hunter, and Tanner Driscoll

September 21, 2011

Sandi and Family
Dave will be missed by many people. For those who knew him were truly blessed. He was a great neighbor and friend. Always willing to give a helping hand even when he wasn't feeling well himself. So today we say so long until we meet again.

Donna Carlson

September 20, 2011

Dear Sandi and Family,
I will miss the quaint little saying that Dave and I had when he came off of midnights: "Good morning, Good night", watching Dave putter around in the yard and him just being a great friend. I will miss that friendship more than you know, and will always remember how great of a mind and how great his hands were with wood especially every time that I look at the big plywood moose that he made for me, because he know that I thought the moose was one of the most magnificent animals. I will miss you my friend and I will never forget the smile you gave me the last time I said, 'I love you'. We had some good times. I miss you my friend, Donna

Jane Greenwood

September 20, 2011

Sandi and family,
There is nothing anyone can say to make the heartache go away, after someone as special as Dave passes.
Sandi, You and Dave were always such wonderful friends and allies in our quest to find great homes for all our wayward animals. I always knew I could count on you both, for help with the pups anytime i needed it . My heartfelt sympathy on your loss Sandi. David was a truly special person!
Love
Jane

Amy Benkowski

September 12, 2011

My dearest friend Sandi and family,
Words can't express how sorry I am to hear of Dave's passing. He was a ray of sunshine in every space he occupied. His smile was infectious and hugs warm and caring. We were so lucky to have him known him.
Thoughts and hugs to you all.
Love
Amy & Stephen Benkowski

September 7, 2011

Sandi and family
We are sorry to hear about David. I know it has been a long time since most of us have seen you and David but we do have our memories of him. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and we pray that God gives you the strength and the peace that you need

The White Family
Denise,Jon,James,Lori,Janice,and Larry

September 6, 2011

Sandi and family
I am so sorry to hear about David. I know it has been a long time since I have seen you and your family. Our prayers are with you
Denise White Cluney

his fav shirt he was cremated in

tonja hillyer

September 4, 2011

Dad i just wanted to say that i love and miss u so much that it hurts. I know u are in no pain anymore and that u r with family and that is what keeps me going. As i sit here righting this i can take comfort in the fact that i have a piece of u in my special made necklace around my neck knowing u are not only watching over me but u are with me every second of the day.. You are my hero and i was blessed for 38 yrs to have had u as my dad..I promise to u that i will look out for mom and david and keep us all a close family forever so that we never drift. I know u did your part in the month or two in visiting u everyday at the hospital we have all bonded and the love was grown strong and because of u we will all be ok and like u said in hospital we will all love each other forever and take care of each other.. We will make u proud... I Love u always n forever..
your daughter,
tonja

Carole Henley

August 30, 2011

I only knew Dave for a short time, but in that short time, I knew a gentleman, a hard worker, and although brief, it was a pleasure. Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers.

August 29, 2011

Dear Radford family,
I was very sad to hear of Dave's passing. He was a true gentleman. My thoughts and prayers are with you all in your time of sorow.

Mark Waters

Charles Hunter Sr

August 29, 2011

Sandi, my prayer go out to you and your family. I work at Amtrak in Boston. David will be missed by us all.
God Bless the Radford family.

August 27, 2011

My hearts, thoughts and prayer go out to the Radford family. I knew David when he was working for Amtrak and as a Karate student of mine. David will be missed by many and remembered as the wonderful person that he was. The good memories last forever.
God Bless David and the Radford family.
Thomas Yuchniuk

David Lucas

August 27, 2011

I'm sorry for your loss. I worked with Dave for the past 5 years. He had that uniqueness about him that you rarely see, he had the ability to look for the good in everyone and everything. No matter the day or time he always had a chuckle and a smile. He will be missed by many. I'm happy for the opportunity given me to have been his co-worker for the past 5 years.

Kimlyn Marshall

August 27, 2011

Dear Sandi and Family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you. Hold his happy, easy going ways with you always. All the animals he helped will be waiting for him.

Ron Bannister

August 26, 2011

My most deepest condolences for the Radford family. I grew up just behind the house in Oakdale and remember David Sr. very well. Always a warm heart and helping hand to us neighborhood kids and a very cool neighbor. Godspeed fellow sailor. May you have fair winds and following seas on your new journey. You will be missed, but not forgotten.

August 26, 2011

To my aunt Sandi and Family, I am praying for you and your family to have peace and strength at this time. You have my deepest sympathies. Take Care & God Bless, Love Isabel Kupka & Family

Virginia Cole

August 26, 2011

Give strength to the Radford family for there loss and thank you lord for all the good memories of our uncle David.

Juan Martinez

August 26, 2011

Dear Sandi and Family, I am so sorry for your loss, but yet so happy that my brother had a wounderful life with each of you. When we had our talk's he would speak about his children and wife, "with out you guys my brother would be so lost" and you children and great grandchildren, whom he was very proud of, he spoke about your life accomplishments. And especially his wife , who cared and loved my little brother so much. My brother was a very lucky man to have such a great family. My little brother had the worlds biggest heart. God bless you all Sandy, Children and grandchildren, you are all in my prayers. Your family here in California love you all and will miss our David! my brother, uncle and dear friend very much. Please take care of each other and we will always be here for you all. Love the Martinez, Cole, Kupka and Tenorio Family.

Tenorio Family

August 26, 2011

To my aunt Sandi and Family, we love you very much and are saddened by Tio David passing away. We are praying for all of you, remember we still have him in our hearts. God bless you Sandi take care.

Teresa Romero

August 26, 2011

To our aunt Sandy, sending our love and prayers to you and your family, we will miss our uncle Dave very much. The memories that we shared together are something that no one can take away from us. Romero and Sanchez family

Garry Sheetz

August 26, 2011

We are greatly saddened today to find out we have lost such a wonderful father, grandfather but mostly a loving caring friend. We know that we have all been apart the last few years but have always kept you in our hearts and always will. We love and miss you the Sheetz Family.

Tom Nall

August 26, 2011

i worked with David in the Track Dep't and knew him as a Block Operator. Take care he is now at peace.

Nancy Stuart

August 26, 2011

Sandi, I was so sorry to hear of Dave's passing. His fellow workers at Amtrak will miss him.

Julie Crouch

August 25, 2011

Dear Sandi, Family and Friends,
I am sad to hear of Dave's passing. He had a heart of gold and was always such a happy man. I don't ever remember him complaining even through his terrible illness. He truly enjoyed his time with family, friends and pets. He will be greatly missed by many people. With love and sympathy -

August 25, 2011

Dear Sandi and family, Ed and I were saddened to hear of Daves passing. We hope that the good memories of all the special moments you shared will help you through the difficult days ahead.
Ed and Donna Shafer

Shannon Reynolds

August 25, 2011

To the Radford Family, Words can't express how sorry we are for your loss. Dave was a wonderful man and will be sadly missed by all of us. He touched everyone's heart, from the elderly to young children and it didn't matter whether he knew you or not. We are fortunate we not just knew him but could call him family. Just know that as the days and weeks pass, your hearts will be comforted by the love and wonderful memories of a selfless life lived. Love to all of you! Love, Shannon, Michael & Devon

B & K Sylvia

August 25, 2011

Sending our sorrows at the loss of Dave. A wonderful person in his own right. Our condolences to the family.

August 25, 2011

Sandi, I am sorry for your loss. It has been a long time since I have contacted you since I have been retired here in Florida. I still remember our child days growing up in New London. My best wishes to you and the family. My e-mail is " [email protected], if you have time to send one. Fond memories and the best. Fred Nunes, (727) 278-7272

Tony/Carleen Banas

August 25, 2011

To The Radford family, We are so saddened by the loss of such a sociable,friendly,helpful and a great man in David. David always was there and cared when a need arises. He always looked out for his neighbors. We loved him and he will be missed. Love from our family to yours, Carleen and Tony

SANDI RADFORD

August 25, 2011

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998

Roberto Martinez jr

August 25, 2011

Myself and all his nephews im sure will never forget him wreseling with us in my tia micahs backyard

Roberto Martinez jr

August 25, 2011

My tio david will be truly missed even from afar my prayers go out to all his lovedones

August 24, 2011

Sandi & family, so sorry for your loss. It was always special to visit with Dave, you and the family when you came to California. I have lots of good memories of Dave when we were kids that I won't forget. Our thoughts and prayers are with you now and always. Love, Carlos, Linda & Family

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