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Rita St. John Obituary

Rita St. John September 8, 1923 - June 26, 2013 Plainfield - Rita St. John, 89, passed away on Wednesday, June 26, 2013 at Harrington Court in Colchester. She was born on September 8, 1923 in Quidnick, RI, daughter of the late Jean Baptiste and Melodie (Cotnoir) Messier. She married Edward R. St. John, Sr. on June 7, 1947 at St. Mary's Church in Jewett City. He predeceased her on March 31, 1980. Rita was a graduate of Coventry High School in 1941. After high school, Rita moved to Jewett City where she was employed as a secretary to the purchasing agent of the Aspinook Cooperation and later, she worked in the main office of Plastic, Wire, and Cable. In addition, Rita was head librarian of the Slater Library in Jewett City for twenty years before she retired in 1988. Involved within the community, Rita was a communicant of St. John the Apostle Church in Plainfield, a member of Our Lady of Fatima Rosary Guild, and the Plainfield Senior Citizens. She is survived by her sons, Edward St. John, Jr. of Plainfield and William St. John of Coventon, TN; daughters, Marie Rodrigue-Fletcher of Portland, Betty Ann St. John of Norwalk, Beverly Boyd of Moosup, Linda St. John of Buford, GA, Sally Crosby of Charlotte, NC, and Theresa Lambert of Lilburn, GA; brothers, Andre Messier of Plainfield, Joseph Messier of N. Fort Myers, FL, and Norman Messier of Fort Myers, FL; and numerous grandchildren, great-grandchildren, nieces, and nephews. In addition to her spouse, Rita was predeceased by her son, Robert St. John; brother, Agenor Messier; and sisters, Flore LaChapelle and Annette St. John. Family will receive relative and friends on Sunday, June 30, 2013 from 4:00 P.M. to 8:00 P.M. at Leffler Funeral Home, 30 N. Main St., Jewett City. The funeral will assemble on Monday, July 1, 2013 at 8:45 A.M. at Leffler Funeral Home followed by a Mass of Christian Burial at 10:00 A.M. at St. John the Apostle Church, Plainfield. Interment after church services at St. Mary's Cemetery, Griswold. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the Plainfield Senior Citizen Center at 482 Norwich Rd, Plainfield, CT 06374 or at http://www.plainfieldct.org/seniorcenter.asp For the online memorial and guestbook, visit www.lefflerfuneralhome.com

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Published by Norwich Bulletin on Jun. 29, 2013.

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Sally & George

June 23, 2024

Still missing you after 11 years!! Love you MOM

My Mom and I 2/27/2013

Linda St.John

July 5, 2013

Mom, I picture you and Dad finally together and it gives me comfort but the pain is here and hope day by day it gets better. You have always been my rock!!! My life will never be the same. I will always treasure the visits to CT with Clint Chris and Cole throughout the years no matter where we lived. And will always treasure your month long visits with us when you were able to travel. When Chad died you pulled me through and you are together again and peace that gives me, our phone calls every week for hours at a time I am truly going to miss. I know that no ine can fill that void. Mom you were the best and you gave me strength when dad passed 33 years ago. My sons loved you so very much and they all have passed on to their children the name "Memere" and "Great Memere" so RIP my dear Mother until we meet again. I love you and miss you so much it physically hurts. Your twin Daughter Linda

amy hopkins

July 2, 2013

I did not sign the book yesterday (Sorry) july 1

July 1, 2013

My condolences to the Family of Mrs. St.john, especially cousin Tim, Beverly & their children, Patrick & Kelly, and friend Edward, Peace & love to you all as the queen of the family rest quietly in heaven...

Dominique Trudel

July 1, 2013

Memere Thank you for being such a great grandmother I remember you giving me my love for reading. Also I remember you teaching me the Our Father and the Hail Mary when I was a little girl and my mother was in the hospital. I remember my first trip to Florida and going to the library with you. I also remember how you'd trick me into taking a long walk with a promise of a frozen yogurt at the end not telling me that the frozen yogurt was right across the street and learning how to play cards. I will always cherish the memories that you gave me.

Betty Ann

July 1, 2013

Mom---For 33 years you so bravely carried on without dad, missing him everyday. You didn't get to spend your golden years with him but now finally together for eternity.
Thank you for your example of strength and resiliency no matter what you faced. You always found a ray of hope in everything.
Rest in peace mom noone deserves peace more than you. I will always remember you for your unconditional love.
Bev sending you especially a big hug during this sad time for us all. I know mom always felt safe with you nearby. You never letnher down and no matter what was going on in your own life you made sure she was never alone. Thank you! Rest in peace mom..love you!
Betty Ann

lucy hopkins

June 30, 2013

How fortunate we are to have had such a great person in our lives.
Rest in Peace, Dear Friend.

Monica Trudel

June 30, 2013

Thank you for great childhood memories. My first trip to Florida, learning to play rummy, introducing me to the library and many more. Love you, rest in peace memere.

rick mccrackan

June 30, 2013

sorry to hear of your loss. my her memory live on in your hearts.

Alan Chevrette

June 30, 2013

Aunt Rita, I know you are in Heaven with Uncle Ed and the Lord. I will never forget all you two did for me and all the Hardy Boy books you bought me and all you did as my Godparents. You will be missed but I will always remember your leadership and your legacy. Say hi to Uncle and my brother Brian. Love you forever. Your loving Nephew/ Godson, Alan

gEORGE cROSBY

June 30, 2013

You are the best mother-in-law a guy could ask for. Rest in Peace until we meet again.

Mikey

June 30, 2013

Rest in peace grandma. You are on your way home. I couldn't be there but I am there in spirit. See you in my dreams.

alicia

June 30, 2013

Sorry for your family's loss, but happy for your reunion in heaven. You were a sweet mother in law. RIP

Gail Estes

June 30, 2013

To all my cousins I reach out with sincerest sympathy as I remember your Mom as the best librarian Slater ever had. I recall Aunt Rita with a smile on her face and joy in her heart, feeling welcome in her presence. Peace and Love to all.

Jimmy & Trish Newton

June 30, 2013

Praying for you and your family

Judy Breen

June 30, 2013

So sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

June 30, 2013

Rest in Peace Grandma

Rosalie Laskarzewski

June 29, 2013

Prayers and condolences to the St.John family. Rita is in the arms of the Lord
and likely playing BINGO with the Angels.
I have wept in the night for the shortness of sight, but I never have yet felt a tinge of regret for being a little too kind. A.U. I remember Rita as always being kind, and having a kind word for everyone. I will miss her at the Plainfield Senior Center, where she was Librarian for many years and our Book Review Writer..We will all miss you dearly. Rosalie Laskarzewski, Plainfield Senior Citizens

Phil and Theresa Lambert

June 29, 2013

Remembering Mom and Grammy St.John today, as she raised 9 children and a host of grandchildren. You are with dad now. Until we meet again, we will cherish the memories! Thank you Bev and Tim, Eddie and Marie for all you did for Mom in the last days! Love, TT, Phil, Greg Andrew and Hannah!

June 29, 2013

For Mom

Gail an Craig Savage

June 29, 2013

Bev, I know what a great daughter you were to your Mom, and I am sure she was very greatful for you. You couldn't have done any better. I am praying for you to get through this very difficult time.

LIz (Herbert) Andstrom

June 29, 2013

My condolences to the Messier/St.John family. I remember Mrs. St.John as the librarian in Jewett City and also as a neighbor (grew up on Mathewson St. in J.C.) She was a lovely lady.

June 29, 2013

Bev,Tim,Patrick,and Kelly, may we offer our sincere condolences on the passing of your beloved mother, mother-in-law, and grandmother. She was a wonderful lady who had a zest for life, which has been passed on to you Bev and through you to Pat and Kelly. Know that we are here for you, if you need us, that grief hurts but heals and that she is now sitting at the right hand of our Father and with you Dad and no longer suffering or in pain. You, Bev did an exceptional job in taking care of her these last number of years, and I know she was very thankful for it. Lindsay And Bruce

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