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Thomas Rembacz Obituary
He was born Feb. 7, 1952, in Chicago, to Mitchell and Rosemary Rembacz.
He was a 31-year member of the Des Plaines police department. Most recently, he was employed at the McHenry County sheriff's department in courthouse security detail. He loved photography and had started his own company, Rembacz Photography.
He is survived by his wife, Joan M. (McLaughlin) Rembacz, whom he married May 13, 1989, in Prospect Heights; two children, Sarah Rembacz and Leigh Rembacz; his mother, Rosemary Nickles; four siblings, Carol Nickles, Paul Nickles, Michael Rembacz and Darlene Jensen; and many nieces and nephews.
The visitation will be from 4 to 8 p.m. Thursday, Feb. 10, at Sts. Peter & Paul Church, 410 First St., Cary. Funeral Mass will be at 10:30 a.m. Friday, Feb. 11, at the church. Interment will be in All Saints Cemetery, Des Plaines.
Memorials would be appreciated for Sage Cancer Center at Centegra Hospital – McHenry or the St. Vincent DePaul Society.
For information, call Kahle-Moore Funeral Home at 847-639-3817 or visit kahlemoore.com.
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Memories and Condolences
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Sharon Langlotz-Johnson
February 17, 2021
Joan, a notice popped up in my email today for the legacy page. It made me smile, seeing Tom's name and remembering his kindness and sense of humor. I cannot believe it has been ten years already. I remember seeing you two with Leigh in the stroller in Woodfield Mall like it was yesterday. You and the girls will always be everything to Tom. He always had a smile on his face. He was one of the best.
CHAPLAIN BRUCE PETERS
March 14, 2011
DEAR JOAN ,SARAH, AND LEIGH YOU DON'N KNOW ME BUT I WORKED WITH TOMMY AT THE POLICE DEPT. IN DES PLAINES . I'M SO VERY SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS . TOM WAS A GREAT GUY BUT YOU DON'T NEED ME TO TELL YOU THAT. I WILL ADD TOM'S NAME TO OUR PRAYER LIST THIS WEEK END AT GREAT LAKES NAVAL TRAINING COMMAND AS WELL AS MY PARISH IN WAUKEGAN WHEN I CELEBRATE MASS THIS WEEK END
GOD BLESS AND STAY SAFE YOUR FRIEN IN CHRIST CHAPLAIN BRUCE PETERS BUFFALO GROVE POLICE
February 20, 2011
joan,sarah,and leigh i am so sorry to hear about tom he was a great man and my prayers are with you all if you need anything call i am always in the neighborhood jim (schwans)
February 16, 2011
Joan, I just found out about Tom, I'm really sorry! Tom and I were close friends in Des Plaines, and Best man at my wedding. I will never forget all the good times we had together! If you need to talk please call.
With Love
Rich and Gloria Biskupski (Wauconda, IL.)
Phyllis Pavese
February 15, 2011
My dear Joan, Sarah and Leigh,
I just heard about Tom and my heart broke for all of you. You and Tom were so wonderful when we were in China and I'll never forget you both being there and Tom taking such priceless pictures when I received Liana that night in Changsha. Wish I had known earlier, but my mom died last week too. Our love to you all and we will be in touch soon. Love, Phyllis & Liana
Beth & April Faulkner
February 15, 2011
Joan,
I just found out about this. I am so sorry. All our thoughts and prayers are with you and the girls.
February 13, 2011
Joan, Ellie and I are so sorry to hear about Tom. If there is anything we can do, please let us know.
With love Greg and Ellie.
Bob & Karen Kujawa
February 12, 2011
Joan & family,
We are so very sorry for your loss. Our prayers are with your family. The funeral was beautiful.
Debbie Woodlief
February 12, 2011
Joan,
I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers to you and your family.
February 11, 2011
Dear Joan,
Mary Frye said it best and if Tom were he, I think he would agree:
Do not stand at my grave and weep,
I am not there, I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow.
I am the diamond glint on snow.
I am the sunlight on ripened grain.
I am the gentle autumn rain.
When you wake in the morning hush,
I am the swift, uplifting rush
Of quiet birds in circling flight.
I am the soft starlight at night.
Do not stand at my grave and weep.
I am not there, I do not sleep.
(Do not stand at my grave and cry.
I am not there, I did not die!)
Our deepest condolences,
Mike, Jan, Kurt, Meghann, and Katie Boyd
Pam Samuelson
February 11, 2011
Hugs and prayers of comfort and deep sympathy to Joan and entire family. May you somehow find peace in the pain and sorrow of your enormous loss.
Pam (Tagge) Samuelson - LGH
Bob & Karen Kujawa
February 11, 2011
Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. Tommy will always be remembered as a warm and kind hearted man and I will cherish the memories I have as a co-worker and friend. His smile will surely be remembered always. God Bless!
Sharon Langlotz-Johnson
February 10, 2011
Joanie,
We will all miss Tommy's smile and kindness. Tommy will always be one of the good guys & we are all better people because we knew him. He was respected and loved by so many. Thank you and your girls for sharing him with us.
Sandy Podborny
February 10, 2011
Joan, Sarah and Leigh,
Having gone through the death of my sister not so long ago, I feel your deepest pain. But you now have an angel up in Heaven, looking over you every day. When little things "just happen" and defy explanation, you will know where they come from. Our Lord is cradling Tom in His loving arms and is holding and supporting you as well in your time of loss. God Bless you all!
Amy Moerschbaecher
February 10, 2011
We at the Sage Cancer Center and I personally send our deapest regards to all of you. We will keep you in our prayers. Your extended family at the Cancer center
David Crawford
February 10, 2011
My thoughts, prayers are with you now as they have been throughout this difficult trial.
There is no sense to this loss. We, as a community can not fathom your pain, yet we hurt with you. It is said that within tragedy, God shows His might and miracles; today he has summoned an entire community that cares to comfort you and your family.
We all will miss Tom and offer our suppport in all possible ways to you and your girls.
With warm regards
Greg and Maura Mall
February 10, 2011
Our thoughts and prayers go out to you, Joan and the two girls. Thank you for all you have done and gone through the last several months.
Tom was always one of the "good guys" on the job who demanded respect as a supervisor, but also as a friend. He was always a professional in his police career and his photography work. When I think of Tom, I am only filled with admiration for his devotion, especially to his family. May the Lord be with you and the girls.
The Layshocks
February 10, 2011
To the Rembacz Family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you through such a difficult time. We did not have the privilege of knowing Tom, but will remember him with a smile on his face, a camera around his neck, and flanked by his girls. He is now dancing with Jesus.
Blessings,
Diana Henry
February 10, 2011
I know where you are at. My love, thoughts and prayers are with you and your children. Please, dont be afraid to ask me for anything.........
February 9, 2011
Joan, so sorry to hear about Tom...I just wish we could have known him better. It sounds like he touched many with his kindness. He served and protected here on earth and now will do the same from up above. You were his very special angel to care for him the way you did. God bless you and the girls at this difficult time.
Love, Cathy & Tom Olson
Jim Flood
February 9, 2011
To Tom, Joan & Family,
Tommy's pain is over, but, beware, his "spirit" and his sense of humor will remain forever! Watch out for some of those "Tommy, the Friendly Ghost" tricks!
He was as good man, a great police officer and father and husband - not a bad run, as he might say!
Mike Aiardo
February 9, 2011
The Rembacz Family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you all. Tommy is a man that will always be remembered for his kind heart, sense of humor and love for his family.
Cindy Amore
February 9, 2011
Joan, I know how difficult these months have been for all of you know. I hope you can find comfort in knowing your beloved Tom is at peace in God's loving arms. Please know that you all continue to be held in my daily prayers. Remember you have a "special angel" to watch over you.
February 9, 2011
I am so sorry to here about Tom
My thoughts are with you and your family
Jim and Kathy McAfee
jill Sciortino
February 9, 2011
I have been out of the courthouse for 2 years and saw your husband everyday. He was so so nice and very proud of his girls I remember him bringing pictures of them and we would talk family because I also live in Cary and go to St. Peter and Paul. This is such an shock and very sad. He was very proud of you being a nurse and help the people who are sick. My heart is very heavy and all my prayers and thoughts are with you Tom will be missed. God Bless you!
February 9, 2011
My heart mourns with you, Joanie and the girls. We must keep his memory alive with the love he gave to us. God bless and support your family. Barb Jackson Woodstock, Il.
Deb and Jim Ward
February 9, 2011
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
February 9, 2011
We are so sorry to hear of Tom's passing. May the memories you carry in your heart be a source of comfort to you, and may God be with you during this sad and difficult time.
Bill & Judy Spyrison
February 9, 2011
Our deepest thoughts and prayers are with you Joan, Sarah and Leigh for your loss and sorrow. May God be with you.
Jo and Katie Riley
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