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SIMON GOURDINE Obituary

GOURDINE--Simon. The National Basketball Association mourns the loss and celebrates the life of former NBA Deputy Commissioner and Players Association Executive Director Simon Gourdine, who passed away on August 16. He was 72 years old. Following two years of service in the U.S. Army, where he attained the rank of captain and received the Army Commendation Medal, and three years as an assistant U.S. attorney in the Southern District of New York, Mr. Gourdine joined the NBA in 1970 as assistant to the commissioner and became vice president of administration in 1973. He was named deputy commissioner in 1974, becoming the highest-ranking African-American executive in sports at the time. In 1976, he was part of the landmark collective bargaining negotiations that created the league's first free agency system, an agreement that also saw the NBA absorb four ABA franchises. Mr. Gourdine left the NBA in 1981 and became commissioner of the New York City Department of Consumer Affairs in 1982. He went on to serve as secretary of the Rockefeller Foundation and director of labor relations for New York's Metropolitan Transit Authority before returning to professional basketball in 1990 as the general counsel of the National Basketball Players Association. He was named its executive director in 1995 and negotiated a new collective bargaining agreement on behalf of the Players Association later that year. The NBA family has lost an innovator and a great friend. We send our deepest condolences to Mr. Gourdine's wife, Pat; their children David, Peter and Laura; and the entire Gourdine family.

Published by New York Times on Aug. 22, 2012.
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i served with Simon in Viêt Nam. Many stories, but will never forget his handing me, before going to Viêt Nam, an Anglo New Englander 2LT, (he a 1LT) coby of Malcolm X autobiography saying were going to be real close so this will help you know me. Im going to set up a blog (age 76) and this will be me first filing.
I loved him and his family and want to reach out to Pamela and his children.

David Kellogg

Served In Military Together

June 24, 2020

Dear Pat and family, I just found out that Simon died in 2012. I am sorry for your loss. May wonderful memories comfort you.

Gloria Shepherd

June 12, 2018

Valenda Newell

September 8, 2016

We pledged Webb Patrol together. He became Renaissance Man with all his accomplishments against a tremendously broad brush of the Economic, legal, military, and Political Landscape. For 50 years whenever I had a problem be it personnel or executive it was ingrained in my DNA that I would ask myself " What would Si say/think"? So important was he to my maturing years. After not speaking to him in close to 50 years I called to relate how important he was to be and find out how he was doing. He was as warm and interested in our conversation as if we spoke on a regular basis. One year later I called him back and told him he had to write an autobiography for several people who should have known him had no idea of his successful life. He thanked me for my input and modestly said he would think about. He passed the following fortnight. My deepest sympathy to his family and friends I am sure you have added to his life like he added to mine. As an after thought you might want to write a biography of a great man in interesting times.

Lew Gruber

January 27, 2014

Peter, so terribly sorry for your loss. Years ago, I was a close friends with your wife, rebecca fine. It was when trying to find rebecca on line that I stumbled across this sad news.
Prayerfully,
Nora Curioso

nora curioso

October 24, 2012

To the Family of Simon Gourdine,
We, Ellen & Elaine Golding. Twin CCNY classmates of Dep. Commish of the NBA, cochairs of the Program Committee on the Alumni Board of Directors,mourn his passing. On Tuesday Sept. 11th, we submitted Simon's name to the CCNY In Memorium Archives. You in the Gourdine Family are all in our prayers on this the 50th Anniversary of our 1962 Class Reunion. It was a pleasure to communicate with Simon in May and June. We remain shocked and saddened by the untimely Passing of one of our most illustrious schoolmates.
Sincerely, C.Ellen Golding CCNY 1962 & 1965 &
C.Elaine Golding, CCNY 1962 & 1965

C.ELLEN & C. ELAINE GOLDING

September 13, 2012

John 5:28

August 28, 2012

I was deeply saddened to learn of Simon's passing. And my deepest sympathy goes out to his family. I had the pleasure of working for Simon as Director of the Complaint Division at the Dept of Consumer Affairs. He was an outstanding leader and knew how develop and improve the workings of the agency. It was an honor to be a part of his staff

Ruth Altman

August 25, 2012

Dear Sister,
I am sorry that I can not be with you during this time of loss. May God bless you and the family during this sad time in your life. Know that we love you and will always be here for you.

Love,
The Lenhardt Family

August 24, 2012

To the friends and family of Mr. Simon Gourdine, I am sorry for your great loss, Mr. Gourdine has accomplish many things for the NBA players. May you know that  Jehovah is giving support to all who are falling, And is raising up all who are bowed down.

Margaret

August 23, 2012

Joana Marshall

August 22, 2012

To the Gourdine family,
My sincerest condolences. Sad to hear of his passing. I am glad I had a chance to meet him many years ago as a friend of his eldest son, David. God bless.

Hoon Sull

August 22, 2012

my feelings go out to family, and friends.simon accomplished alot in his life, i am certain he will do the same in heaven.

linda nunn

August 22, 2012

Simon was my colleague at the NBA in the early nineteen seventies. A true gentleman of extraordinary integrity and moral strength.

Michael Burns

August 22, 2012

Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always.

August 22, 2012

Pat, David, Peter & Laura,
We were so sorry to hear about Simon. You are in our thoughts and prayers. I'll call you soon.
Love, Polly and Butch

Polly and Butch Zetterman

August 21, 2012

Rest in peace Mr.Gourdine. May you rejoice in heaven with the angels. My deepest condolences to the Gourdine family. God bless.

Katherine Pinkard

August 21, 2012

Simon was truly a hero and he will be missed by many of us who remember him from his days at CCNY.Condolence to his family.
Napoleon Mitchell

Napoleon Mitchell

August 21, 2012

May God bless you all.

Gregory Green

August 21, 2012

May God bless you all.

Gregory

August 21, 2012

He was truly an unsung hero to the many players that have taken their involvement in the NBA as a given...An inspiration...

Bill Ligon

August 21, 2012

Pat and Family, We were deeply saddened to hear of your loss. Simon will be missed by so many people. You and your children can be very proud of Simons accomplishments. Cherish his memories, for they are very precious. AAlong with your family, those in the ABA ans the NBA will miss him also. Take care of yourselves. Throw your burben upon Jehovah himself, And he himself will sustain you. PS. 55:22 Deepest Sympathy.

The Brown's

August 21, 2012

Pat, so sorry to hear of Simon's passing. May you and your children find comfort in prayer at this sorrowful time. Psalms 61:1

D

August 21, 2012

God bless the family of Simon Gourdine and give them peace, comfort and strength to get through the coming days ahead.

Praying for you in Alabama

August 21, 2012

To the family of Simon Gourdine,may the God of peace,give you peace in your time of grief[Philippians4:7]

August 20, 2012

Our thoughts and prayers are with the family in your loss of your husband, father, and brother. May God's riches blessings forever keep you and comfort you.

Howard and Jeanette Edlow

August 20, 2012

My heartfelt condolences to the family. I had the pleasure of working for and learning from Si at the NYC Department of Consumer Affairs in the early 80s. As Commisioner, he capably balanced the concerns of consumers and the business community and taught me, a young lawyer, how to critically think about issues and the importance of considering the ramifications of different approaches before adopting one. He was very smart in a practical as well as learned sense, and I think often about how fortunate I was to have him as a mentor.

Warren Traiger

August 20, 2012

Simon was a dedicated contributing citizen, a proud father and a wonderful person.

Oliver and Lorraine Koppell

August 20, 2012

I was still in my teens when my dear friend Pat Campbell introduced me to her tall and handsome
new boyfriend, Simon Gourdine. From the first day I met him I knew that here was one of the kindest and most honorable men I'd ever met.Somehow I just knew it and that feeling never changed through all these
many years. I was privileged to be a part of their wedding ceremony and to be a part of their lives and there are no words that can express the saddness and terrible sense of loss that I feel.
All I can say is, a beautiful man had a
beautiful life; the best wife possible and three great children and then his greatest joy, his first grandchild.
I believe he died a happy man. He will
be missed for as long as we all live.

MaryMargaret Walker

August 20, 2012

My condolences to the Gourdine Family.
RIP my law school classmate. It is almost unimaginable that in a few weeks, it will be 50 years since we began our studies at Fordham law school, in what was then the law school's brand new building at Lincoln Center.

Howard W Dragutsky

August 19, 2012

A great friend colleague of mine, and so many others, Simon distinquished himself every day with his honest, positive approach to life and work. His historic contributions to the world of sports and race relations were ground breaking on many levels. He set the standard by which all others will be measured for decades to come. I will remember him always.

Billy Goldstein

August 19, 2012

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