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Aubrey Peterson Obituary

PETERSON--Aubrey Weymouth, 70, of East Hampton, New York, beloved husband of Elizabeth Telfer Harbison, father of Aubrey Hawley Peterson, Erik Baekeland Peterson and Oliver Weymouth Peterson and brother of Karen Peterson Earle. He died at home in East Hampton surrounded by his family. The cause of death was pancreatic cancer. Born in Flushing, New York, the son of Arnold Hawley Peterson and Medora Weymouth Peterson, he attended Buckley Country Day School in Great Neck, graduated from Phillips Exeter Academy in 1955 and Yale University in 1959. He served in the U.S. Army reserve for six years. He was the grandson of Marie Peterson and Andrew Herman Peterson, who was captain of the racing schooner Atlantic that held the west to east record across the North Atlantic from 1905 to 2005, and of Alice Weymouth and Aubrey Weymouth, who was the structural engineer for many of the great New York City skyscrapers including the Empire State Building and the Chrysler Building. He was a descendant of Frank Marion, the Revolutionary War Swamp Fox. He worked as a shipping broker in New York City for twenty years. In 1986, he moved with his children and former wife, Paula Minnick, to East Hampton where he became a real estate agent. In 1992 he joined Dunemere Associates, now Brown Harris Stevens. He was devoted to Phillips Exeter where he served in alumni positions as well as on the Board of Trustees as President of the Alumni Association. He treasured his education at Exeter and the friends he made there. He was a member of the Maidstone Club in East Hampton and the Yale Club of New York. He will be remembered for the love he gave to his family and friends, his gentle soul, high ethical standards, sense of humor, and independence. He played by the rules. He is also survived by two grandchildren, Aubrey William and Stella Sophia. A memorial service will be held on Saturday, February 16, at 1pm, St. Luke's Church, East Hampton. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Southampton Hospital Foundation, 240 Meeting House Lane, Southampton, NY 11968 or Pancreatic Cancer Research Fund, Attention Dr. David Ryan, Mass General Hospital Development Office, 165 Cambridge St, Suite 600, Boston, MA 02114 .

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Published by New York Times on Feb. 14, 2008.

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Morgan Stebbins

February 19, 2008

Dear Lecia,
I am SO sorry about your dear Aubrey. I had no idea that he was ill until I ran into Polly and Newt in Old Lyme last Friday. I remember Polly saying years ago, that A. was truly a gentle-man. I would add in both senses of the word.
All the lovely comments about him seem so apt. I wish I had known him better but what I did know of him was wonderful and I am thankful for that.
In Garrison I saw Douglas B. who said he had sung at the service which I imagine was beautiful.
I am thinking of you, dear Lecia and send you my most heartfelt condolences,
with love,
Morgan

Michele van der Kieft

February 18, 2008

So sorry for your loss

Judith Carmany

February 18, 2008

Lecia - We are so sorry for your loss - you and Aubrey's family are in our hearts and minds and prayers. Aubrey was a true gentleman with a fun loving nature and a gentle outreach. Everyone who ever met him will miss him. Sorry we were far from Long Island this past weekend. Love
from, Judy and George

Robin & Sidney Graves

February 18, 2008

Aubrey & Lecia added spark & fun wherever they were. Their love and warmth was infectious. We will miss the kind and gentle man who played by the rules, and feel such a sadness for dear, wonderful Lecia

Kevin Conboy

February 16, 2008

Aubrey,a true gentleman.I will always remember his cheerful nature,and his upbeat nature.I consider myself fortunate to have worked with Aubrey in East Hampton.

Chita Phong Phanh

February 15, 2008

Thank you for brightening our days with your smile and good humor. It has been a privilege to know and to work with you.

Ben Shute

February 15, 2008

Aubrey was one of the constants in our Exeter class, a fine and caring person who will be sorely missed.
Deepest sympathies to his family.

Blake Harvey

February 15, 2008

Aubrey Weymouth Peterson I am proud to say he was my Godfather. Aubrey and my Mother Medora Moock were cousins. She was also very close w/ Aubrey's sister Karen. Although out paths crossed very few times in latter years, I was always very happy to see him. Aubrey had such a easy going way about himself. Like a characther out of a Fitzgerald novel, he always made me feel great. And that's the memory that will live w/ me forever. I will miss him.

Arthur Fitts

February 14, 2008

Thanks for all you have done for so many of us. It has been a privilege to know and share our Exeter experience. God is with you.

Sissy Ueland

February 14, 2008

To know him is to love him.

Rolf Clark

February 14, 2008

Aubrey, well done!

harvey white

February 14, 2008

Aubrey was a warm presence, interested and encouraging and was one of our classmates who kept us all interested and in touch with each other.He was a great help to me during and after PEA
My heartfelt condolences go out to Elizabeth, Karen and the whole family

Sarah Ames

February 14, 2008

Beautiful name, Aubrey Weymouth Peterson, for a beautiful person. Even for the short time that we knew Aubrey, we could tell he was that rare find: a happy individual. Our sympathy goes out to Lecia and family.

Father Alan Edmiston

February 14, 2008

I am the priest who supplied for Fr. Price at St. Luke's, East Hampton these past three Sundays.

I recall speaking with Aubrey several Sundays back after church. He expressed his sadness that he'd not be getting to Florida this winter.

I spoke with you at the door after service this past Sunday when you told me that he'd slipped into a coma and that his passing was near.

I'll make sure he is mentioned in our prayers this Sunday here at Trinity Church, Vero Beach.

What a wonderful career and life he had!!

With much love and many prayers, Fr. Alan Edmiston.

Robert Parson

February 14, 2008

Such sad news to receive.I had the distinct honor and pleasure to sit next to Aubrey in the daily assembly for my three years at Exeter. I think the Times measured this nice human being very well in a few words:" his gentle soul, high ethical standards, sense of humor, and independence. He played by the rules. Bob Parson

Peter Lareau

February 14, 2008

Deepest sympathies for your loss. All our lives were enriched by a remarkable person.

Dan Beresford

February 14, 2008

Exeter '55 has been a wonderful class. Losing Aubrey leaves a much bigger hole than most. We will miss him greatly.

Henry ("Sandy") Phillips

February 14, 2008

Farewell, dear Aub. Rest in peace.
You were one of our very best!
Thank you!

"Sandy" Phillips '55

John Herrmann

February 14, 2008

it pains me to learn of Aubrey's death. At ExeterHe was a lively funny guy and very sympathetic . Only gradually did it dawn on me what a kind and distinguished person he was. From his obituary I now have a better sense of how admirably public-spirited he was.

chuck dyer

February 14, 2008

such a good-humored, upbeat person at all times..he really enjoyed his most recent stay at Exeter last summer

John Saul

February 14, 2008

Oh, what sad news. In our English classes at Exeter we were taught to avoid the word "nice" but Aubrey corresponded to my image of a "nice person".

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