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Janet Angell
November 8, 2011
I met Ellen in 1981 as a fellow student at Berkeley. I am very sad to hear of her long struggle with breast cancer and death last week. She was a lovely person - kind, gracious, and a great warrior for human rights and justice. My deepest condolences to her husband, children and family.
Rebecca Gray
May 2, 2011
I remember Ellen as a fierce, intensely smart, vivacious woman whom I feel blessed to have known. I met Ellen when I was 17, dating her son David. Little did I know the force she was, and she was truly an inspiration to me on many occasions. One school night, not too long after Dave and I had started dating, she and Dave together showed up on my parents' doorstep. She smilingly announced that she had stopped by with David because the moon was full, and you should always give your loved one kisses on the full moon. I, who grew up with very conservative parents, was bewildered by the fire and zeal inside this woman at this instance and many others. She served as a truly supportive role model for me when I endured troubled times with my own parents in high school. I loved how she never settled for second best from anyone. I remember thinking she was so. cool. And she was so much more than that.
Here's to you, Ellen....
Rita Maran
April 14, 2011
From the moment we met at Boalt Hall in 1981, Ellen gave off sparks. She was an igniter, an eyes-on-the-prize mover and doer. In a hot tub with a dozen friends, I say with certainty that the space around Ellen in the tub gave off hotter, more robust clouds of steam than anywhere else! Ellen remains Presente!
Michael J. Schwager
March 31, 2011
Dear Ellen,
You were a force of nature, an inextinguishable fire. Your shining eyes lit up a room. Your passion for justice lit up the world.
We met when you were 17 and I was 19. We were together during a key time in both our lives: when I graduated from Temple University, when I started my first full-time job, when my parents divorced. We were together during your undergraduate years at Temple, during your graduate years at Bryn Mawr, and on a sunny day one May when you received your master’s degree. We were together for six years.
In the years afterward, we followed different paths. As our lives moved farther apart, you moved mountains. You knew what you wanted to do, and you did it. Facing the dilemma of choosing between anthropology and law, you answered as the intense, indomitable spirit you were: you pursued both. You pursued them with compassion, with vision, with vigor—with a relentless drive that brought remarkable achievements.
Every one of us will die someday, but you left much too soon. Yet you leave everyone you touched far richer for having known you, and you leave the world a far better place because you were in it and because of who you were.
Maggie Heim
March 26, 2011
My entry about Ellen in my blog:
http://scoobydoobeach.blogspot.com/2010/11/in-memory-of-ellen.html
Alfredo Zamudio
December 11, 2010
I met Ellen in 2002, and she helped me greatly when I was trying to make some sense of my project "Envisioning Colombia in Peace", while visiting Fletcher as a senior fellow. Ellen was generous with her time and with advice. I remember her as a friend and mentor. I keep still much of our correspondence. I learnt a lot and I will like once again to say THANK YOU.
Sandy Coliver
November 18, 2010
Ellen and I started our human rights careers together in 1979 working at Amnesty USA, Ellen in DC with the Latin America program and I in NY with the death penalty program. It was a dark time– with repression and killings rampant throughout Latin America, and the death penalty, with certain safeguards, having just been reinstated in the US – and an intense time for us personally. She was impressive – confident, well-spoken, already so knowledgeable about her areas of focus.
Then one day she told me about having met Glenn. There was excitement at first sight. They made a beautiful couple.
Her bachelorette party, at a hot tub place in Berkeley, was memorable. It was the first time I was ever in a hot tub – and what an initiation. Ten high energy women, laughing and talking about everything from genocide to men as we relaxed and reddened in the super-hot water.
We were together at the UN Human Rights Sub-Commission in August 1982 with Professor Frank Newman and his crew. I had finished law school by then, she was just going to start, but what a pro – with her fluent Spanish, and knowledge of Latin America, she moved easily among non-governmental experts as well as diplomats. I remember one meal at which we were joined by several activists including a leading Argentine human rights lawyer in exile, very attractive, who eventually returned to Argentina to head the Human Rights Directorate of the Foreign Ministry, and then was appointed to UN positions. They were in animated conversation and after a time it became clear that, as taken as he was by her intellect and charm, he had other interests as well. She kept pointing to her wedding ring, and somehow managed to slither out of the situation with determination but without dampening the evening’s conviviality. She could definitely handle herself!
Our lives intersected at various times thereafter, and we had a chance to renew our friendship when I moved to New York in September 2005 to take a job with the Open Society Institute. I had long admired Ellen for her work and writings in the field of transitional justice and human rights and conflict resolution. In New York, I learned how quickly she had made her mark in the field of indigenous rights, not just as an executive director but as a true substantive expert.
My boss, Aryeh Neier, a lion in the field of human rights, knew her since her days with Human Rights Watch starting in the late 1980s, and respected her highly. He approved grants to Cultural Survival each time she applied and commended her book, Prosecuting Heads of State on several occasions. Here’s a link to the launch of her book at OSI in April 2009: http://www.soros.org/resources/events/prosecuting_20090423. He again paid tribute to Ellen and the book at a subsequent launch, when he compared the author’s book in importance to Ellen’s book, clearly in his mind, the yardstick against which books in this field should now be measured.
Despite all of Ellen’s professional accomplishments, her children were always her first concern. She took the greatest pleasure in watching them grow in their own directions.
It is hard to fathom that such a bright light could fade so quickly. She has left an amazingly vibrant legacy.
Irene c morrison
November 13, 2010
iam very sorry for the passing of a very good lady may god help you and your family in a very hard time she is looking down on you and her family
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