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FREDERIC COOK Obituary

COOK--Frederic W.,

77, died peacefully at home in Cortlandt Manor, NY on April 4, 2018, surrounded by his family. Fred was an enthusiastic husband, father and grandfather, an ambitious and lauded entrepreneur, a talented and prolific gardener, and a passionate hiker and dessert-eater. Born on December 15, 1940 in Philadelphia, PA to Althea Fellows Cook and Frederic Thomas Cook, Fred was named for his grandfather, Frederic William Cook, a superintendent of schools in Plainfield, NJ. A proud Eagle Scout raised in Syracuse, NY, Fred attended Dartmouth College on an NROTC scholarship, graduated with a love of lacrosse and many friends, and served four years as an infantry officer in the Marine Corps. In 1966 he joined Philadelphia-based Towers, Perrin, Forster & Crosby (TPF&C) a company that provided insurance, employee benefits and compensation consulting. After seven years at TPF&C and with his wife and three small children, Fred established his own firm, Frederic W. Cook & Company, with executive compensation consulting as its sole focus. By the time he retired in 2013 the firm had grown to have over 80 employees in seven offices and has advised many of the largest and most successful businesses in the world. The firm's market share of the Fortune 1000 and S&P 500 is unmatched. From the very beginning, it was Fred's plan to create a company that would succeed him, not by selling it to a larger firm, but through recruiting people who would want to take leadership and maintain independence because they could not imagine any better place to work, would be well paid for their efforts, and because they owned and ran the firm. His passion was getting people to think about what was meaningful to them, and then developing structures and incentives to motivate them towards achieving a vision that benefited future generations. Fred was known as an innovator and an industry leader. He was a champion of women in the workforce, adopting job sharing and remote working arrangements in his company. He was an early advocate and creative mind on the topic of executive and manager stock ownership, on the belief that having "skin in the game" with investors would drive long-term performance. His contributions have been recognized with an Honorary Life Membership in the American Compensation Association (now World at Work), as a Fellow in the National Academy of Human Resources and with a World at Work Keystone Award. In addition to his business accomplishments, Fred was a member of the Defense Department's Business Board from 2002 to 2013, and an avid Board Member of the Hudson Valley Shakespeare Festival from 2013 to 2018. Fred had a lifelong passion for the outdoors and physical fitness, completing many marathons without once training on a treadmill, and climbing the 46 High Peaks in New York State's Adirondack Mountains. He climbed many of those peaks multiple times, in both summer and winter. He particularly loved introducing his family and friends to the Adirondacks he loved so much, with large family reunions, college reunions, hikes to swimming holes, outdoor hot tub soaks, and trips with his granddaughters up some of those same High Peaks. In life as in business, he loved to create traditions and share his passions. Fred is survived by his beloved wife of 54 years Sara Jasper Cook, his three daughters and their spouses, Laura Booth (John), Elizabeth Mastro (Louis) and Jennifer Wright Cook (Chris Oden), three grandchildren, Julia Jasper Booth, Aimee Fellows Booth and Miranda Matoska Cook Oden, three siblings, John Cook, Darryl McLean and Sue Hoople, and a thriving extended family of cousins, nieces, nephews, grandnieces and grandnephews. He will be deeply missed by his family and friends. Memorial services will be scheduled later in the year. In lieu of flowers, the family asks that contributions be made to Achilles International or the Adirondack Council, two organizations he generously supported.

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Published by New York Times on Apr. 7, 2018.

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Sheilah and Bert Rechtschaffer

April 29, 2018

Dear Sarah
I just discovered Freds passing today. We didnt know. Always wonderful memories of a gracious and sweet man. Our condolences and best wishes. Love
Sheilah and Bert Rechtschaffer

April 9, 2018

Sara and family: I remember Fred as boy and young man.From 7th grade dancing school through 4 years at Nottingham High School, Fred was always a dear friend ..one who was loyal and steadfast.
He will be missed by many. Marsha Arlott Wooster

April 9, 2018

My deepest condolences. I recently learned of Fred's passing. I was honored to work at FWCook for 14 years and always had a great respect for Fred and the generous and selfless ways he ran the company. Every time I use my Steuben anniversary gifts I reflect on the great fortune I had to be part of that company. May your cherished memories bring you comfort. Sincerely, Lorinne Dowd

On one of those family Adirondack hikes

Marsha Cook

April 9, 2018

A brother-in-law unrivaled in love of family. I am saddened that he left us so early in life, yet grateful to have known him. I will miss seeing him. Love to all the rest of the Cook family.

Nick Perry

April 9, 2018

Dear Sara, I will always treasure my friendship with Fred and look back joyfully on the many trips into the woods with him. I am blessed to have met you both so many years ago at SMFL. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.

Cimi Silverberg

April 9, 2018

Fred was one of the most inspiring people I've ever met. I am honored to be a part of the firm that bears his name. His passion for his work and adherence to the highest standards of integrity serve as an shining example for all of us. He will be missed.

Dan Plumley

April 9, 2018

My heat goes out to wife Sara, Laura, Elizabeth and Jennifer especially and your entire family, close relations and friends who, like me, are mourning the seemingly far too sudden loss of Fred. He was so very much alive within himself in the best sort of way; kind and inquisitive; smart and faithful fully to those he loved and to more recent comrades like me with whom he shook hands vigorously and embraced and let me share a lovely part of his life in the Adirondacks where he was truly happy. If there is anything, no matter how small, I can do Sara, just let me know please. I will miss him dearly after the shock wears off, but am so proud of all of you who truly loved him and helped make Fred Cook a true man's man - a true gentleman and a most wonderful human being.

April 8, 2018

What wonderful memories we have of Fred here in Ireland at Matt and Caroline's wedding. He generously sponsored a meet up in Dooly's hotel the following morning, which turned out to be a high light of the wedding. May God mind you all and I am sure Fred is singing up there in heaven. Mary, Caroline's sister

Lori Abramowitz

April 8, 2018

Dear Sara and family, Adam and I are so very sorry for your loss. I wish we had more time to get to know him as he was such a wonderful man and did so much for others. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Lori and Adam Abramowitz.

Michael Reznick

April 8, 2018

Fred's personal love of what he did and the people he did it with always came through. He was a mentor to many of us and a true leader of men and women.

It is an honor to work in the firm Fred founded. The principles he cherished are cornerstones of its success, and are present every day.

Susan McNeill

April 7, 2018

Dear Jennifer and family,
It is a pleasure to learn more about your father. What a remarkable man; a trail blazer in many ways!
This is a lovely tribute.
I only met your father once briefly but recall that he was kind, interested and engaged.
Kei and I send our condolences to all of you.

Matt Ward

April 7, 2018

Sara & Family:

So very sorry to hear about Fred. He was my friend and mentor. Sara and Fred were the hit of our wedding reception and are still the talk of Birr, Ireland today. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this sad time.

Matt, Caroline, Eva & Clareen Ward

Angelina

April 7, 2018

I am so sorry for the loss of your loved one Mr. Frederic W. Cook. May it bring you comfort in knowing that God knows your pain, and that he cares for you, and will help you through this difficult time. John 6:40.

SUE CRYSTAL

April 7, 2018

My deepest sympathy to Sara and family.

April 7, 2018

Dear Sara and family,
Sending our heartfelt care and love for you. You are a treasured part of our community and Fred will be missed, we are all here for you.
Much love,
Soli Pierce

Roger Brossy

April 7, 2018

Fred leaves a legacy of integrity, commitment and passion that permeates a field he helped pioneer.

April 7, 2018

So very sorry for your loss. Fred was a wonderful and caring man.

Mike Mastro

April 7, 2018

So sorry to hear of Fred's passing. A good and successful man in business and in family values. My best wishes and condolences to his family

Larry and Patti Cashion

April 7, 2018

We will miss a strong and honorable man...and friend.

Jennifer w Cook

April 7, 2018

I love you so much Pops! XXoo

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