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VIRGINIA JOFFE Obituary

JOFFE--Virginia Ryan,

who was also known as Dinny, died on April 21st at her home in New York City surrounded by family and friends. She was 74 years old. A graduate of Colby Sawyer College, Virginia earned an MS in Social Work from Columbia University in 1969. The first years of her career were spent working with young single mothers in New York City. After her marriage to Peter H. DeHaas, and the birth of her two children, she began a twenty-year career in New York City Independent schools. She was an administrator for The Dalton School, a college placement advisor at The Walden School, and a beloved school counselor at The Spence School. Throughout her life, Virginia volunteered her time and expertise for the good of others. She worked with Prep-for-Prep, and was a board member for several organizations including Global AIDS Interfaith Alliance, The International Women's Health Coalition, and The New York Women's Foundation-for which she served as President of the board in 2000 and 2001. Virginia was also a prolific photographer, exhibiting in galleries both in New York City and on Nantucket where she and her second husband, Robert D. Joffe, had a home. In 2002, she collaborated with friend and poet Carmen Firan, publishing In the Most Beautiful Life, a book of photos and poems about Romania. In 2015, she helped produce the independent film, Peter and John. Virginia's husband of 28 years, Robert D. Joffe, died in 2010. She is survived by her sister Betsy Ryan of San Francisco, daughter Lisi DeHaas and daughter-in-law Sandra Contreras of New York City, son Ryan DeHaas and daughter- in-law Wivianny DeHaas of Salisbury, North Carolina, stepdaughter Katherine Joffe of Great Neck, New York, and stepson David Joffe and daughter-in-law Katrinka Hrdy of New York City; and four grandchildren, Aidan, Samantha, Alexander and Maximus. There will be a memorial service followed by a reception on May 5th at 6pm at All Souls Church, 1157 Lexington Avenue, NYC. In lieu of flowers, please consider making a donation in Virginia's memory to either The New York Women's Foundation or Weill Cornell Breast Center (1. Triple Negative Breast Cancer Research Fund in support of Dr. Linda Vahdat's Research; 2. https://crowdfunding.cornell.edu/breakingthroughcancer)


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Published by New York Times on Apr. 26, 2017.

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Mary Newman

April 20, 2020

I will never forget Dinny. She was my model of what a woman should beintelligent, compassionate, patient, and loving. All this with a lovely sense of humor. We all lost a wonderful woman, but the greatest loss was to her family. To them I again send sympathy and hope for the future.

Michael and Gabriela Spano

May 4, 2017

There was a lightness to Dinny that was truly uplifting We will miss her lovely spirit and friendly demeanor and offer our condolences and deepest sympathy to the Joffe family.

joie gregory

May 3, 2017

Virginia's presence to this day is felt at Groundfloor Exercise, where she touched the hearts of many a client and all the teachers.
we all knew how much she loved her family and we send our deepest condolences. i consider it an honor to have known her.

Jodi Rothe

May 1, 2017

Dinny created friendships in many different "venues". She was truly a woman full of energy and love of life. I was her country/Berkshires - and sometimes New York City - friend. She radiated light and creativity - and she loved her family deeply. She was immensely gifted in all fields - and she was a beautiful, tall redhead too.

May 1, 2017

May your beloved R.I.P and may memories shared together along with prayers to our God and Father comfort and console grieving family and friends.

Mary Newman

April 28, 2017

Dinny's gifts of wit, wisdom, and wise counsel made her a treasured and trusted friend to so many. We count ourselves blessed to have been included among that number and send sympathy to all who share our loss. Mary and Fred Newman

Robert McKee

April 27, 2017

I always called her Virginia for some reason, but Dinny was a special person and meant a lot to me. Both Joff and Dinny played a meaningful part in my life and I will miss them.
Love,
Robert

KELLEY

April 27, 2017

MAY THE THOUGHT OF KNOWING THAT FAMILY AND FRIENDS SHARE IN YOUR GRIEF BRING THE FAMILY A MEASURE OF COMFORT.PLEASE READ PROV 17:17

April 26, 2017

My condolences to the Joffe family for their loss and know God feels for you in your pain and patiently listen to your prayer for comfort. 1Pe 5:7 and 1Thess 5:17

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