Katharine B MacKay

Katharine B MacKay obituary

Katharine B MacKay

Katharine MacKay Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from Oct. 20 to Oct. 21, 2014.
1948 - 2014
Katharine B. MacKay (Katy or KT) of Manhattan, died in the evening of September 30, 2014 in New York City. She was 66.

As a child of a career Naval officer, Katy and her family moved numerous times, spending her more formative years in Scituate, Massachusetts. As a college sophomore, Katy was in a car accident resulting in the loss of use of her legs. Refusing to be defined by this event, she forged ahead with exceptional determination, resilience, humor and resourcefulness. After graduating from St. Lawrence University in 1970, she carved for herself an extraordinary and fulfilling life of public service, becoming one of New York's most respected and admired public servants.

As a life-long active alumna of St. Lawrence, Katy was elected Alumni Trustee in 1986, then Term Trustee in 1992. Among her trustee leadership roles were chair of the Student Life Committee, the Information Technology Committee, and the Planning Committee. She was a member of the Alumni Executive Council, the President's Associates Membership Committee, and the planning co-chair for her 30th, 35th and 40th class reunions. She was co-chair for the "Laurentians" reunions, a renowned a cappella singing group of which she was a member as a student. Most of all, she loved meeting and mentoring students as a career advisor. She established the Katy MacKay University Fellowship Fund to support student research.

Beginning her public service right out of college, Katy worked for the Director of the Massachusetts Department of Human Services. She was subsequently recruited to serve with the Director of New York State's Budget Division during the State's fiscal crisis and near default of New York City in 1975. She then became Assistant Executive Director of the Port Authority of New York and New Jersey, first serving as AED/State Relations and later as Chief Administrative Officer. Katy retired from a quarter-century career of public service in 2003.

During her career, she served as a member of the Board of Directors of CICU, including as Chair of its Nominating Committee of the Board. Katy was a member and past Chair of WITS, a women's investment partnership. She also served on the Board of Directors of her cooperative apartment building, the Advisory Board of Hostelling International-New York, the Advisory Council for the Disabled for the 1980 Olympics in Lake Placid, the Governor's Advisory Council on the Disabled, and as a charter member of the Center for Women in Government in Albany.

Katy consistently conducted her remarkable life with inspirational integrity, strength, purpose and always with a welcoming smile. It was as though she was the only person who didn't realize she was a wheelchair user.

Katy is survived by her brother, Robert T. MacKay, Jr. of Los Angeles, California.

A celebration of Katy's life is planned for Springtime in New York City.

Memorial gifts may be made to the Katy MacKay University Fellows Endowed Fund at St. Lawrence University, c/o Tom Pynchon, Vice President for Advancement, St. Lawrence University, 23 Romoda Drive, Canton, New York 13617.

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May 17, 2015

Robin Hicks posted to the memorial.

April 18, 2015

Richard Prone posted to the memorial.

October 23, 2014

Sharon Landers posted to the memorial.

Robin Hicks

May 17, 2015

While I learned of KT's passing several months ago, I've just now discovered this online guest book, and wanted to submit an entry of both praise and condolence to her family and close friends. Will never EVER forget meeting and getting to know her when we were both at the PANYNJ. To have the opportunity to spend time with her in conversation with others over drinks, and to hear her insights and musings, was a treat beyond description. Her spry sense of humor, political acumen, raw personal courage and people smarts were instructive examples to me as I forged my career as a Human Resources professional. Godspeed to her soul!

Richard Prone

April 18, 2015

To the Mackay family:

As a high school classmate of Katy, I recall her as a fun-loving, smart, and standout field hockey player. After her move to New York, Katy was the driving force behind organizing our Scituate high class reunions. I will always remember her as a shining example of courage,optimism and faith. Please accept my sincere condolences for your loss. She will be missed by many.

Sharon Landers

October 23, 2014

KT, you were a quiet inspiration for all of us. It is not what you set out to be. You just did what you needed to get the fullest out of life. You were a good and faithful friend to so many, always there for us. I will miss you dearly.

October 21, 2014

May the God (Psalm 83:18) of tender mercy be with your family in this time of grief and sorrow.

October 21, 2014

It was my pleasure to have served on the Board of Trustees at St Lawrence University with Katy Mackay. Katy's wisdom and multitude of contributions to all aspects of life at St. Lawrence University will be missed by many. It was a pleasure to have known Katy during my tenure on the Board of Trustee's along with her. She was a true visionary of the needs and advancements of the University. She will be missed by many who loved her and respected her opinion and wise contributions . Sincerely, Karen Wachtmeister Trustee Emerita St. Lawrence University

October 21, 2014

Katy you were amazing and inspiring. If you see "Big Al" out there give him a hug for me! I know he's waiting for you.

Gayle Viebranz Welch (North Andover, MA)

Don Hermance

October 20, 2014

Through the many years of teaching thousands of students, a teacher is privileged to work with those few students who, by special, remarkable characteristics,, rise above their peers, demonstrating a level of courage and determination beyond description ,while retaining an admirable love of her fellow travelers. And such was our dear friend, Katy. We shall miss you!

Patti Frazer Lock

October 20, 2014

Katy was such a valued friend. We shared so many wonderful conversations about our beloved St. Lawrence University, and we shared so many laughs. Her integrity and positive attitude will always be an inspiration to me. We will miss her so.

Jeff Cook

October 20, 2014

A great lady, inspiration & classmate. We shared the same bday & celebrated each other every year whether we were together or not. There is a big hole in our class without Katy but it is filled with the many, many Katy stories.

Heather Lashier

October 20, 2014

I never knew Katy, but admired her spirit and determination. Everyone knew her or about her in Sciuate. I went to college with her brother at Hartwick, and would ride home with him on occasion. He loved her so very much.
My condolences to Robby~~
Sincerely,
Heather Baird Lashier

Janet Legro

October 20, 2014

I have such wonderful memories of Katy at SLU Board meetings. She was an amazing woman and so kind to me as a new board member!

Scituate Lighthouse

October 20, 2014

A glowing tribute to a remarkable human being who was my lifelong friend and confidante. I miss her sorely. I count myself blessed and fortunate, along with thousands of others whose lives Katy impacted, to have known and loved her.

Ann DeForge

October 20, 2014

What an awesome, wonderful, generous and faithful friend Katy was. One in a million, for sure. I will cherish her memory for as long as I live.

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