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RIBALOW--Meir Zvi, Internationally renowned playwright, poet, novelist, critic, and activist, died on August 23rd after battling prostate cancer. He was 63. Mr. Ribalow had 24 of his plays receive some 180 productions worldwide, winning awards in London, New York, and regionally. He won national awards for fiction, his widely published poetry, and musical lyrics; co-wrote ten children's books; and published articles on sports, music, theatre, literature, film, travel and chess. He was co-author, with his father, Harold Ribalow, of three books on sports, and was Director of an award-winning sports website. Mr. Ribalow's poems have recently been collected in two volumes, "Chasing Ghosts" and "The Time We Have Misspent" and two novels, "Peanuts and Crackerjacks" and "Redheaded Blues" -- along with a new play, "Masterpiece" -- have all been published in the past eighteen months during a typically furious burst of creativity that his illness did little to slow. He wrote articles for publications as diverse as The New York Times, The Sciences, Hadassah, and the program for the 1990 Kasparov-Karpov World Chess Championship, commented on films for the Discovery Channel, and hosted the online radio program "New River Radio" on ARTonAIR.org. His scholarly film commentary appears on a number of special edition classic DVD's, including High Noon and Sergeant York. A popular and widely respected educator, he served for almost three decades as Artist-in-Residence in the Department of Communication and Media Studies at Fordham University. Mr. Ribalow was born into a family of writers and scholars -- his grandfather, Menachem Ribalow, edited the only weekly newspaper published in Hebrew in the United States, and his father, Harold, was an internationally renowned author and anthologist of Anglo-American Jewish literature--and was supported and encouraged by his passionately engaged music educator mother, Shoshana, and sister, Reena Ribalow Ben Ephraim (also an award-winning poet and fiction writer). Mr. Ribalow graduated from Phillips Exeter Academy in 1966 and was a University Scholar and Class Poet at Princeton, class of 1970. He was a co-founder and Vice President of the Creative Coalition, a group of entertainment professionals devoted to social and environmental advocacy, working alongside fellow board-members Alec Baldwin, Christopher Reeve, Ron Silver, and Stephen Collins. He was also International Arts Coordinator of The Global Forum, where he worked with the Dalai Lama, Robert Redford and Mikhail Gorbachev. Mr. Ribalow was the Founding Artistic Director of New River Dramatists, the dream child of indefatigable producer Mark Woods, which offers playwrights week-long residencies in the mountains of North Carolina and has developed some 400 new plays and screenplays, almost half of which have already been produced or optioned worldwide. Mr. Ribalow attracted and mixed established, high profile playwrights such as the late James McLure, Wendy Hammond, Richard Dresser and Lee Blessing, with lesser-known, often young, but always deserving writing talents such as inaugural McLure Fellowship and 2012 O'Neill Residency winner Hilary Bettis. Mr. Ribalow directed numerous plays in London and New York, was Joseph Papp's Production Associate at the New York Shakespeare Festival for several years, and founded the American Repertory Company of London. A Broadway Gala Theater Benefit reading of his play Nature of the Universe with Blythe Danner and Brian Dennehy raised funds for The ALS Association of New York. Mr. Ribalow is survived by his mother, sister, nephew Shaiel Ben Ephraim and niece Riora Kerr, and by a grateful and still-expanding community of artists, writers, actors, performers, and philanthropists who learned much of craft and even more of care through his vision and by his example.

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Published by New York Times on Sep. 2, 2012.

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David Garretson

November 23, 2021

I was in Meir's English class at The Lawrenceville School in the early '70s-- shortly after his graduation from Princeton. In youth his wit, humor, and keen intelligence were an inspiration for me, and something of an antidote to the staidness of the boarding school environment. I'm happy to learn of his distinguished career and lasting influence.

Cal Gladen

December 14, 2020

Meir
was my teacher in script analysis and playwriting in 1998 as part of the Esper Studio. He was kind and funny and brought such an insightful wit to his instruction. After his classes, I felt as if a veil was lifted on the creative process. I never looked at the performance and production of plays the same. I am grateful to have known him, even briefly, and to be a part of his rich legacy. What a gift of love he left the world. My love to his family- Cal Gladen

Tamina Rashell

August 27, 2020

"Sanctuary" by Meir Ribalow my favourite poem . RIP Meir .

Aliza Avital

August 27, 2019

It's almost a year that my sister Rochel, a dear friend of Meir, had joined him in a better place.

Tamina Rashell

August 27, 2019

Remembering Meir Ribalow and Bryony O Donohoe (UK) another friend who both passed away on the 23rd of August . I still love to read "Sanctuary"one of the many poems Meir wrote. Feeling a sense of loss and sadness.

August 27, 2019

Very talented.

Tamina Rashell

January 23, 2019

I remember visiting my friend Sam and her friend Meir many years ago in New York, I appreciated his great sense of humour and often read his poem "Sanctuary" .

January 22, 2016

Today I miss you Meir.

Deborah Nichols Tall

November 29, 2015

I was remembering a spring semester at Ithaca College/London Program and got to wondering about Professor Ribalow and his whereabouts. I no longer need to wonder. He is with all the angels of kindness, gentleness and peace. I am so sorry for your loss and for a great life cut a bit short.

Katy Quinn

August 23, 2015

I met Meir when he came to lecture at my college and he gave me my first chance to work professionally in NYC. I learned so much by watching him direct and and I will never forget his kindness and commitment to helping young artists.

Melissa Eddy Quilty

March 6, 2015

You are missed. I payed Kate in your BAD GIRLS, twice. You directed and were a wonderful friend.

Melanie Flaherty

March 18, 2014

Meir Ribalow was a wonderful and inspiring professor. I am so sad to hear of his passing but feel lucky to have had him as a teacher. My condolences to his family.

March 14, 2014

so sad to know he is gone. a noble humanitarian. - Mark Pines

wil prout

December 15, 2013

I have just finished reading Mr. Ribalow's peanuts and crackerjacks. As a lover of baseball, may I say it is the best baseball novel I have ever read (and I've read a great many).

October 24, 2013

I was very saddened to hear of Meir's passing. He was my teacher at William Esper Studio in NYC. He loved the craft, his students and the art of acting. Thank you Meir for sharing your gifts.

To Meir's family, as the days and weeks pass, take some comfort in knowing he lives on in all of us - his students.

-Tamiko White

Santo & Margaret Mollica

April 28, 2013

We just learned of Meir' s passing and feel the loss.
He started out as a customer to our east village copy shop, the source unltd, where we'd discuss the mets, music and art over the machines kicking out copies of his latest manuscript. As the years passed he became a friend. I just finished "Peanuts and Crackerjacks", a perfect game of a novel about life & baseball and one evening my wife wondered aloud "how's mr . ribalow doing?" so in trying to contact him we got the news. He leave behind his spirit thru his work.

Ryan Kincaid

February 15, 2013

Professor Ribalow was, without a doubt, the absolute greatest professor I ever had at Fordham. He instilled in me a love and appreciation of film that I will forever be grateful for. Since taking his courses, it is impossible to sit through a movie and not think to myself "What would Ribalow say about this?" He always had time after class to talk to me about the latest movie I'd seen and what his thoughts were on it. Sometimes those talks would go on for a good while, and he never seemed in a hurry to end our conversations, even though he lived a ways away from campus. Thank you Professor. For everything.

Pat Patterson

December 3, 2012

I also just learned of Meir's death and was deeply saddened. Davidson Community Players is a local community theatre in Davidson, NC that premiered his brilliant play, Masterpiece. It was the first (and maybe only) time that he saw it. We all absolutely loved getting to know the man and mind behind this play. As stage manager, I was addicted to the plot, characters and symbolism. Getting to know him & this play was life changing. His Masterpiece will live on!

Katelyn Maloney

November 19, 2012

I have only recently learned of Professor Ribalow's passing upon a recent visit back to my alma mater, Fordham University. He was a great teacher, and I am deeply saddened to learn of his struggle with cancer and to think that I will never again have the opportunity to stop by his office for a friendly chat. He was always welcoming and enthusiastic for conversation, and you could tell that he was sincere and passionate. I am glad that he not only taught us about screenwriting but that he shared so many of his favorite films with us. I'll always remember that his childhood favorite was "Shane."

Albert Aboody

October 26, 2012

I was very saddened to learn of Meir's passing only today. Although I've had no contact with him since our undergraduate days as Princeton classmates, I remember his smiling face and welcome to me as one of the class oddities, a Jew of Iraqi descent from India. He was very much a part of that idealistic generation that sort to right social wrongs and replace the cold utilitarianism of contemporary politics with an ethics of values. If only I'd known he was living in New York I would have delighted in reacquainting myself with him. He was a man who even as a young boy had the soul of the universe.
Albert aboody

David Chamberlain

October 24, 2012

Every once in awhile we get special opportunities to expand our understanding of life through the vision of another person... thanks to someone whose ideas and comprehensions far exceed our own. At Princeton Meir was an inspirational figure in my life as an aspiring artist, and he influenced many of us who knew him... in ways that became more apparent as we matured to enjoy the genius of his vision. He was wonderfully ahead of his time, and played a part in many creative lives and endeavors. And he was a powerful example of what it is to be profoundly human, a huge contributor. Thank you, Meir.

Marcia Brown

October 6, 2012

I am so honoured to have known you,you will be greatly missed.

Gina Sweeney Leahy

September 25, 2012

Meir was a lovely man and was so very kind and lovely to my daughter, a student at Phillips Exeter. He captured her essence in his poem, Toubac. Such talent, such kindness. We are better for knowing him.
GSL Exeter, NH

Cassandra Medley

September 22, 2012

In great great gratitude for your friendship, your everlasting support and encouragement-- especially when inspiration was tough. Thank you, thank you, bless you for all of the wisdom, the laughter, the laser-sharp feedback about my plays; and for the pleasurable, challenging, uplifting, unforgetable times at the River House. New River Dramatists was an extraordinary group of actors, directors, and playwrights-- one like no other in the contemporary theater. That vision was your vision, and those of us who were part of it were so damn fortunate. Thank you, dear, previous friend. Bless you.

D S

September 19, 2012

He certainly lived his dream.

He and I were in the same class in grade school for a brief time. My parents knew his parents through their Labor Zionist activities back in the day.

One thing I do distinctly remember about him. He had a broader world view, a larger world view, than anyone else I had met by that age, including most all adults I had met. It was kind of scary and intimidating as a child to meet someone of my age who was so much more mature and perceptive and visionary than anyone I had previously met; and only a few people since that time have even came close.

Bonny Lambert

September 11, 2012

Dear Mrs. Rib, Reena and family, Meir is the most amazing person to come into my life. I am Blessed and honored to have known him for 33 years. His smile, and our times at Fenway, will always live in my heart, Love forever,

Anita Mohan

September 11, 2012

My mentor and friend, my shoulder and confidante. One of the kindest people I have ever known. Where is the moon tonight Meir? Love you my friend.

Tony Campisi

September 9, 2012

When we were young we played softball together. When we got to middle age we found time to talk about many things besides baseball. I miss you, my friend. Now you and our beloved Jim can pick up right where you left off.
Rest in peace.

Polly Hootkins

September 6, 2012

His photo says it all ... he smiled all the time. He achieved so much and appeared to know everything. Yet, he never craved "fame". Yes, he was a real
gentleman. He will be greatly missed.

September 4, 2012

I knew his mom. She was my music teacher. Nobody can hold a candle to Mrs. Ribalow.
Roni Sutofsky Beer

Lyn Coffin

September 4, 2012

I only met Meir once and yet I treasure him as a friend. And I mean that present tense. I had no idea of how broad and deep his interests and abilities ran (what an amazing testament his obituary is) - I just knew he was someone whose intelligence and kindness I could always trust.

Elizabeth Kerri Mahon

September 4, 2012

Meir was a gentleman, a scholar, and one of the nicest men that I've ever met. I'm going to miss discussing baseball, film, and theatre with him. He is much missed.

Teri Noel Towe

September 4, 2012

The memories of his camaraderie and bonhommie as a member of the Class of 1970 at Princeton University more than 40 years ago remain vivid . Meir always was larger than life, in the best sense of the expression, and he always will be!

Nigel Seale

September 3, 2012

I met Meir in New York at my friend Ani's. Such an intelligent and articulate guy and humble too and a very dear friend to Annie.

John Mulholland

September 3, 2012

One of the real champs. Meir was in his element at a Super Bowl party, a discussion about the superiority of Shane to The Searchers, or a heated political debate. It was never boring, Meir! Thanks for making my life that much richer, man.

linda samet

September 3, 2012

So sorry to hear about Meir.

Rex Hume

September 3, 2012

Seven years together in prep school and college followed by additional decades of friendship taught me that Meir Ribalow never lost the ability to surprise, delight, and teach. He was an important inspriration to me. Z, I will always miss you.

J.J. Kandel

September 3, 2012

A great man, very sad to see him go so soon. I feel lucky to have worked with him. My condolences to Meir's family and many friends.

Risa Bramon Garcia

September 3, 2012

I was so fond of Meir. He was a great friend at EST and a real artist. So sad to hear of his passing.

Sandra Biller Steiner

September 3, 2012

I never knew Meir Ribalow but, as my elementary school music teacher in Brooklyn, NY, his mother Shoshana gifted me with a love of music and Gilbert and Sullivan operettas that sustain me to this day, 40 years later. My deepest condolences to her and the family.

Elaine "Lainie" Charnak Johnson

September 3, 2012

I'm shocked to hear of Meir's death--I always thought of him as so young! Even though the years separate us, I join you in mourning.

Jeffrey Hardy

September 3, 2012

My sincere condolences to Meir's family and friends. He touched the lives of so many, so meaningfully and will be greatly missed.

Joanna Marston

September 3, 2012

in gratitude
and always remembered

Joanna Marston

September 3, 2012

in gratitude
always remembered

Ted Folke

September 3, 2012

Meir was a year ahead of me at Exeter, and I remember him as a brilliant force of nature - always full of ideas, but also always full of support for the ideas of others, We became friends through ping pong dlplomacy and remained friends as he blazed a trail through the New York arts world. I feell fortunate to have known him and experienced his generiosity of spirit.

Chuck Goldberg

September 3, 2012

Meir and I met at Exeter in 1963. The next to last time we were together, I asked him if, indeed, he was as gratified by the achievements of those he mentored as he was by his own. Of course, he said, same mission. How rare is it to find such a pastoral man? There are lessons in Meir's choices. He was the poster boy for Non Sibi and Tikkun Olam.

Magda Bogin

September 3, 2012

So sad to see that this generous, talented man has left our midst. My sympathies to his family.

Deborah Thomas Shull

September 2, 2012

My deepest condolences go out to Meir's family. I will miss his sweet smile at the Players Club where we met. Though I didn't know him well, I was enriched by his work at the club as a writer and mentor and enjoyed his readings on poetry night. He will be greatly missed.

Rochel Urist

September 2, 2012

Meir was a force of nature. Hard to believe he is no more. He lives on in our hearts and minds.

September 2, 2012

Dearest Shoshana and Reena and the rest of the mishpocha,
The bond between Assie and Uri was passed on to Meir and me. I worshipped him when I was a kid and I followed in his footsteps to Princeton 7 years after he went there. Since I returned from Croatia to the US 2 years ago we were in constant contact. I saw him as often as I could in NYC, and we spoke on the phone every week. When I called him in mid-August he was very excited about the New River radio show in which he read his sonnets. I listened to them immediately and laughed and cried at their brilliance.

Meir has left a hole in my soul. I love you all very much and grieve along with you.

All my love, Jill Benderly

Aliza Avital

September 2, 2012

I remember the beautiful,warm smile.

September 2, 2012

Dear Reena, my deepest condolences
Helena Kazhdan

Theodore Tedeschi

September 2, 2012

Meir was my Princeton classmate and friend. I love his sense of humor and wit, patience and listening skills. When I told him that I knew what "Zvi" means (deer), he said not bad for an Italian kid - and we were fast pals from then. He and our classmate the fine actor Bill Hootkins were pals - together they were intellectual and artistic nuclear fusion and just great guys. Meir was - is - very special and I'll always love and miss him. Love to the family and friends. Ted Tedeschi

Judy & Stew Telman

September 2, 2012

Dear Shoshana & Reena,
We extend our sincere condolences on the death of your beloved son and brother. May his memory be for a blessing

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