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DONALD MENZI Obituary

MENZI--Donald Wilder. Renaissance man, visionary, scholar, mensch, Don Menzi was all of these and so much more. The community of West End Synagogue will long mourn the loss of this remarkable man, our former president. We extend our deepest condolences to his dearest Jane; to his children, Mark (Sandy), Rachel (Roberto), Aaron (Aara) and Richard (Naomi); to his "steps" - Julie (Ryan), Michael (Anne), Andrew (Tasha) and Adam (Ludmila); to his grandchildren, extended family and his many circles of friends and admirers. Don modeled a life lived fully and with enthusiasm, from his studies of Kabbalah to his extraordinary and ongoing efforts towards the betterment of our congregation, transcribing his grandparents' China journals, the Psalms Project he and Jane initiated, taking his grandson Val to piano lessons or tracking down the five rabbis of the Haggadah. He enriched our lives, expanded our intellects, and touched our souls. We will miss him terribly. West End Synagogue Rabbi Marc Margolius Hazzan Ayelet Piatigorsky Jerry Saltzman, President

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Published by New York Times on Nov. 22, 2012.

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Alex Urena

November 16, 2022

Can´t believe it´s been a decade since you passed, feels like yesterday. We miss you and have many fond memories.

Acheampongmaa Edwin

November 26, 2012

Don was a second father to me. I started working for him in 1988 when I was a graduate student. Over the years, Don taught me how to become a good manager of people. He was always kind and generous with his time and talents. I have always known Jane to be a quiet and dignified woman. I wish your family the very very best.

November 24, 2012

Anita (Smith), Cynthia (Ritsher) and Judy (Wood) - Wilders all, send our deepest sympathies to Jane and the family. We will be forever indebted to Don for all he did for the entire extended Wilder branches of the tree revered by us all. Don will always be held in the highest esteem for his
dedication and humility as a human being. The community
at large is diminished with his loss. Love to the family. May you rest in Peace, Don.

Margaret Urena

November 23, 2012

My prayers to the Menzi family. We will all miss Don.

Bill Kaufmann

November 22, 2012

Our fond thoughts are with the family of my old friend and associate.

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