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STOWE CATLIN PHELPS

1917 - 2013

STOWE CATLIN PHELPS obituary, 1917-2013

BORN

1917

DIED

2013

STOWE PHELPS Obituary

PHELPS-Stowe Catlin. Born April 15,1917, died peacefully at home on December 24th, 2013. He had lived "Many Very Good Years" to quote the title of his memoirs. On June 24, 1944 he married Charlton Yarnall Jacobs of Philadelphia. They had two daughters: Sophia Yarnall Payne of Fort Worth, TX and Meredith Phelps Rugg of New York City. Stowe had a varied, creative career that included acting on Broadway, working at CBS television and writing and producing documentary films. He spent many years on the Board of the Third Street Music School Settlement and was an active member of The Century Association. Music was central to his life and he was the oldest living Whiffenpoof. He loved golf and enjoyed his many years as a U.S. Senior. His family was all important to him and in addition to his wife and two daughters he is survived by his son-in-law Peter Rugg, five grandchildren and seven great-grandchildren. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to: The Third Street Music School Settlement, 235 E. 11th St, New York, NY 10003 or The Fishers Island Sea Stretcher, c/o FIFD Box 222, Fishers Island, NY 06390 or The Century Association Foundation, 7 West 43rd St, New York, NY 10036. There will be a memorial service soon in 2014.

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Published by New York Times on Dec. 26, 2013.

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January 3, 2014

My head is filled with nothing but good and fond memories of my favorite adopted uncle
Love to his family
Beth Waltz

January 1, 2014

Oh, my dear friend, how I shall miss you! It was just a few weeks ago that you were as alive and twinkling as ever. You taught me so much....I send loving sympathy to Charlton. Will write a proper note.
Fleming Rutledge

December 31, 2013

All my love and thoughts are with all of you !! Love, Annie. Harris milliken

Coxey Toogood

December 30, 2013

Stowe had magic, charm and a generous spirit. I'm glad I had the chance to hear him sing. I loved his spunk and admired his mind. Sending my sympathy to all the family.

Wendy McAllister

December 29, 2013

To all the Phelp family. Thoughts are with you.

Wendy McAllister

December 29, 2013

I was terribly saddened to hear of the passing of Stowe. A true friend and loving husband, father grandfather and great grandfather. I will miss him on the driving range and toodling around Fishers. RIP to a great man.... love to you Charlton! Im thinking of you and the girls... XXXXOOOO

December 28, 2013

Stowe was a wonderful guy. I'll write Charlton. -- John Rockwell

December 28, 2013

Thinking of you all.Love, John and Kathy Harris

Rob Page

December 27, 2013

What great memories of a great man with a lovely voice - now singing with others in the heavens!

Janie Stephanow

December 26, 2013

We love you grampy!! You will be missed.

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