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SHAY HIRSCH Obituary

HIRSCH--Shay Yandell. June 8, 1947 to February 3, 2014. A beloved mother, wife, grandmother, social worker, friend, marathon runner, skier, writer, advocate, hiker, traveler, defender of the vulnerable and cancer warrior, passed away peacefully at home, surrounded by family, on February 3rd. Shay grew up in Boise, Idaho, where she was a 1965 graduate of Boise High School. Her childhood in the American West sparked a lasting love of nature. She entered a career in social work after graduating from Whitman College in 1969, and she devoted her life to others. In 1973, she married Greg Scrivner; the couple's two sons, Ian and Sean, were born in Alaska. After living in France, Ireland, Colombia, and New Jersey, Shay returned to Boise, where she became the director of YWCA's shelter for battered women, now called the Women's and Children's Alliance. At the 1988 New Jersey Waterfront Marathon, George Hirsch, who had met Shay only the day before at a marathon expo, and who was irrevocably lovestruck, ran through the crowded field of a race for which he had not registered until he found her. They ran the remaining 21 miles together, and they married the next year. Shay relocated to New York City, but the Hirsches maintained strong ties to Idaho, and they kept a home in Sun Valley. For the past eleven years, Shay wrote eloquently of her fight against multiple myeloma, an incurable blood cancer. Through two stem cell transplants and through more recent encounters with myelodysplastic syndrome and acute myeloid leukemia, Shay faced wave after wave of indignities with dignity and grace. She ended each post about her cancer battle by saying "Onward!" She embraced every part of life as an adventure, even the difficult ones. The impact of Shay's life is "incalculably diffusive," as George Eliot once wrote. Shay's memory will be held closely in the hearts of her husband, George A. Hirsch, the chairman of the New York Road Runners; her son Ian Scrivner and spouse Cinzia Dinoi; her son Sean Scrivner and partner Rachel Teannalach; her stepsons David and William Hirsch; her father Robert Yandell, brother Robert Yandell, and brother John Yandell and spouse Julie Yandell; her grandchildren Anjali Hirsch and Rhys Scrivner; and her nephews Christopher and Nicholas Yandell. A celebration of Shay's life will be held in March.

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Published by New York Times on Feb. 6, 2014.

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Saquer R. Moushaiti

October 13, 2020

Dear Shay ,
I am saddened to learn recently that you have passed away 6 years ago from life but not my heart , the last time i saw you was 19 years ago at the local grocery store were i used to work , how could i ever forget your bright smile and the sparkle in your eyes and your kind gentle voice , you were unique in many ways , it was truly an honor to be your neighbor and servant , thank you for sharing and giving me the positive energy you radiated every time you walked into the grocery store or run in to me on the block alone or accompanied by Mr.Hirsch , thank you both for all the beautiful moments, your kind words of encouragement when i would talk about my training achievements at our local bally's gym telling me to continue the good work , and Mr.Hirsch would drop by at the grocery store to give me a copy of the latest runners world magazine to keep me inspired , i still remember the home baked cake you brought to the grocery store on Ramadan holiday , you will always be remembered Mrs.Shay , i am glad and lucky after reading more about your legacy that my down to earth humble neighbor was is the real life Wonder Woman . i will continue to share your memory in your honor , my thoughts get interrupted as i wright to wipe my tears , i don't want my sadness to get in the way , but i know no matter what i write i could never truly express the gratitude i feel in my heart . . . Thank you Mrs.Shay and Mr.Hirsch for being my neighbors, friends and FAMILY, YOU WILL ALWAYS BE REMEMBERED SHAY ,God Bless your Soul . .
Saquer Moushaiti

Kathleen Slinger

February 11, 2014

I was friends with Shay in the 9th grade. Then I reconnected with her and met George at my first marathon, Big Sur, in the early 90's. It was like 25+ years stood still. They treated me like a long-time friend. I have often thought of that terrific day. George, Ian and Sean - I share your loss.

William du Pont Staab, Jr.

February 7, 2014

Im Abendrot - from Joseph von Eichendorff
Vier letzte Lieder of Richard Strauss

In sorrow and in joy
we have gone hand in hand;
we are resting after our travels
above the quiet countryside

The valleys fall away around us
The sky is already growing dark
two solitary larks climb dreamily
up into the evening haze

Come close and let them soar,
soon it will be time to go to sleep;
Let us not go astray
in this solitude

O broad, tranquil peace,
so deep in the dusk
How tired we are from our travels-
is this perhaps death?

In deepest sympathy

Bill Staab and the West Side Runners' Club

Norman Nelson

February 7, 2014

My step sister...Shay was so supportive of my kids, and the Nelson family. We so enjoyed her family, her brilliance, and sincerity. Im so sorry to loose her. My sympathies go out to George who has been a huge influence on her quality of life during the big fight.

Kal Wagenheim

February 6, 2014

A rich, generous, eventful life. May she rest in peace up in Heaven where she clearly deserves to reside.

Kate D.

February 6, 2014

The precious memories of Shay Hirsch will bring you comfort. Although you are grieving now, you can have hope. God will comfort and bless you at this critical time. Complete reliance on "the God of all comfort" will help you to endure the loss of your loved one.

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