Search by Name

Search by Name

GORDON STANTON Obituary

STANTON--Gordon Rentschler, Died on October 29, 2014 at the age of 55, after a long battle with pulmonary fibrosis. Beloved son of Phoebe R. Stanton and Louis L. Stanton (Berit). He leaves behind his wife Catherine (Kitty), their sons Niles and Henry, his brother Lee (Beth), his sister Susan Benedict (Rod), and half-brother Fredrik. He graduated from The Buckley School, St. Paul's School, Yale, and the NYU Stern School of Business. Gordon was a real-estate broker with Brown Harris Stevens. He was a member of the Blue Hill Troupe, The Amateur Comedy Club, Holland Lodge No. 8, and served on the board of The Interfaith Center of New York. Gordon was a devoted father whose greatest joys were spending time with family and friends and his strong commitment to service to others. He will be greatly missed. Memorial Service at St. James' Church Madison Avenue and 71st Street Monday, November 24, 2014 at 2:00pm.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by New York Times on Oct. 31, 2014.

Memories and Condolences
for GORDON STANTON

Sponsored by His Loving Family.

Not sure what to say?





Kiono Thomas

October 26, 2024

Funny, I was just thinking of you so much the other day and just now your memory page popped up in my email...
I didn´t know you very long but the times we shared at BHS and nice times (with Kitty too) will always be in my thoughts...
Love to you, Kiono Thomas

Tom Midney

October 26, 2024

A decade has now passed, and the void remains. Your Yale/Davenport friends still interact often, and many times thoughts of you still come up, as you were such a large part of our closest group. The great memories remain, and the stories of the great times we had with you still put smiles on our faces, overcoming the sadness of your loss. You still are with us in that way, my dear friend, even though we miss you greatly.

Susan Benedict

October 25, 2024

Dear Gordon,
I miss you and think of you often. Now when anything good happens in my life I am sure you had a hand in it. Thank you!
Love you always and forever.

Tom Midney

October 25, 2023

9 years, but still fresh in our thoughts and hearts. I just got back from visiting Chris Carosa in Rochester, and memories of you came up a number of times. In that way, you remain with us, even while we miss you so much - forever a part of our Yale 82 crew!

Tom Midney

October 30, 2022

8 years gone, Gordo, but you'll always be remembered with a smile. You continue to be missed my friend, yet the great memories of you remain to remind me of the great times we had. Boola, Boola!

Susan Benedict

October 17, 2022

Gordon, still think of you almost everyday. Love you forever, Susan

Tom Midney

October 29, 2021

I continue to miss you, my dear Yale friend. So many good times, so many great memories. Among your inner circle from those college days, you always remain in our thoughts.

Nancy Devine Pike

October 25, 2021

Thinking of Gordon and his funny laugh. Miss him often and sending love to his family and all whose life he touched.

Nancy Devine Pike

October 26, 2020

Missing my dear friend Gordon, thinking of childhood memories. Thinking often of my godmother, Phoebe, and sending loving thoughts.

Tom Midney

October 25, 2020

Wow, 6 years gone - it doesn't seem that long, and the sadness remains fresh. We had a Yale/Davenport webcam yesterday, and your wit was missed, as it always was a welcome addition to the group! The great memories persist, so you stay very much alive in our thoughts.

Miss you my dear friend, Tom

PETER ADZAKEY

October 25, 2020

Fond memories remain in my heart.
I remember working with Gordon R Stanton at the Yamoransa Model Resource Centre formerly Yamoransa ICT Centre, He was hard working and great influencer. His smiles and attitude towards work is worth emulating.
God richly bless you.

From:
Ing. Peter Adzakey
Civil Engineer & Project Manager
Yamoransa Model Resource Centre. Ghana - West Africa

Nancy Devine Pike

January 29, 2018

My dear friend I am reading some friends entries who were with you in the epic Palm Beach trip when I was in Delray with friends from Barnard, and I remember being 10 or 11 and playing a board game in Wilson Point while our mothers had tea together and then later, when I was living I nyc after Barnard, the welcome you and my dear godmother, your mother, always gave me when I was tired at the end of work day at the Met. And more recently being with you and Kitty at my daughter, your god daughters wedding. I never thought that would be the last time. I'm so happy to know Kitty now. Think of you often

Stillman Rockefeller

December 29, 2015

Oh Gordon, I will never forget our driving trip to Palm Beach & Disney Land when we were so much you're with Jamie Rose & staying at Warren Cramer's incredible guest house. You were in a cast from having been hit by a NYC cab. Always with a sense of humor and an intelligent observer. You will be missed, dear friend.

Freddy Deane

November 26, 2014

Gordon, I will miss your sharp wit, gentle laugh, and kind ways. New York has lost a bright light.

November 23, 2014

I will never forget your laughter and your great sense of humor. I am also grateful that you introduced me to my husband Eddie. We will remember you always.

Mary Latimer-Chung

November 14, 2014

Gordon was as fine a gentleman as exists on God's green earth. He will be greatly missed by all who had the pleasure to know him.

Georgia Goldberg

November 11, 2014

Gordon- Over many bus rides, meals and concrete block hauls in Ghana, you shared your warmth, wry humor , kindness and intelligence with us all. You were quirky, fascinating and, most of all, a true gentleman who thought of and cared for others first. Your spirit and generousity will be sorely missed. You are much loved. My condolences to Kitty and the family for their great loss.

Ola Stillman Rockefeller

November 8, 2014

Gordon, you always had a great sense of humor. I will never forget our high school era drive to Florida, you with a cast from getting hit by a New York cab? Getting on Space Mountain at Disney World with the cast and then staying in that beautiful oceanside house of the Cramer's, which John Lennon & Yoko Ono eventually rented. Rest in peace, old friend.

Jeffrey Irish

November 6, 2014

I remember many wonderful conversations with Gordon even though more than 30 years have passed since we had them. I remember his gentle way and his sense of humor.

Marc Rice

November 5, 2014

I am so sorry to hear of your loss, Gordon was such a fine man who i enjoyed speaking with at St. James every Sunday. May he Rest in Peace

Katie Emmet Peterson

November 5, 2014

My condolences to all the family for such a great loss.

November 4, 2014

So sad to hear of Gordon's passing. His lively wit and friendliness benefited all who knew him. Leonard and I send our deepest condolences to his family, we all miss Gordon so much.
Sarah Marsh

November 3, 2014

An absolutely wonderful person.

Kurt

Elizabeth Ford

November 3, 2014

He was always a gentleman in every sense of the word. Sharing my "bright college years" with Gordon was a delight I shall cherish until the end of my days. My heart and my prayers go out to you, Kitty, and your children and to all who hold him dear. I had the great good fortune to speak with him earlier this year. He was overflowing with his love for you and his pride in the boys. May God give you the strength and comfort you need to see you through this difficult time.

Laura Howat

November 3, 2014

To say goodbye to such a dear friend and cousin, gone way too soon, is so terribly sad. All my love to Kitty and Phoebe and the boys. Bring forth for the rest of your lives the kindness, strength, and generosity that Gordon had. He loved you all so very very much. He will be sorely missed.

René Rivera

November 3, 2014

My deepest condolences to you and your family.

jamie gibbs

November 3, 2014

I was greatly saddened to read of Gordon's passing. He was fun, witty, and that smile... my deepest sympathies go out to the Stanton and Witter families. You are all in my prayers. Jamie Gibbs

Antonio D'Itri

November 3, 2014

He raised two incredible sons, and was one of the most supportive fathers I knew.

Deborah Rose

November 3, 2014

Gordon - it was a shock to learn from Kitty that you were gone. Even though we knew you were ill, your sense of humor, your warmth, and your indomitable spirit gave us the hope that you would be with us longer. We will miss you at the construction site for the ICT Center in Ghana, but I suspect that we will all work all the harder to honor you.

November 2, 2014

Gordon was a treasured friend and valued colleague. We loved working with him on alumni projects and miss him greatly.. He was a joy .
Best,
Rhonda Singer
Rhonda Singer

Bob Unsworth

November 2, 2014

I will dearly miss my friend and traveling companion. Through simple acts, he made this world a better, more loving place.

Gordon and family at mass in Yamoransa Ghana, summer 2013.

Bob Unsworth

November 2, 2014

ps. Ing. Peter Adzakey

November 1, 2014

I was so sad when I heard the demise of my good and loving friend Gordon R. Stanton. Fond memories remain in my heart for him. You will forever be remembered.

On behalf of ALL the constructiion crew ay Yamoransa Project site. we say we will miss you greatly

From Peter Adzakey. Civil Engineer
in charge and project Manager.
Yamoransa ICT Centre project
Ghana west Africa.

KOFI Awusabo-Asare

November 1, 2014

You dedicated part of your life to serving humanity. We the people of Yamoransa, Ghana, send condolences to the family. Rest in perfect peace, Gordon

Tom Midney

November 1, 2014

My long-time friend, classmate at Yale, and fellow Davenport College colleague has left us - and I am devastated. So many good times, so many great memories, so many special moments and stories that make me so thankful Gordon was a part of my life.

Rest in Peace my dear friend - you will be sorely missed!

Deborah Gaines

November 1, 2014

I am shocked and saddened to hear this news. Gordon's warmth, humor and generosity lit up the world. Things seem darker without him. Praying for his family and all who love him.

Kiono Thomas

October 31, 2014

There are no words in this time of great sadness. Gordon was the gentlest of spirits and he could make you laugh. My heart and thoughts go out to Kitty and the boys...
He will be greatly missed. Lots of love to you.....

October 31, 2014

No one loved life more than Gordon. We are in shock. Big Hugs and all our love to the entire Stanton Family - Ripley and Tyler

October 31, 2014

My thoughts and condolences to the whole family !

Fondly Liz Savage

Mark Hildesley

October 31, 2014

I am shocked to hear the news. I have the greatest memories of the generosity, inventiveness and all round fun that Gordon brought to anything he was involved in. Laser shows, set building or a good pub crawl, Gordon was in. I think I last saw Gordon, Kitty and the boys on a foggy afternoon in Maine, but it doesn't matter exactly. I still see him smiling and hear his laugh.

Celebrate the man and miss him well. I will.

Sheelin Wilson

October 31, 2014

Thinking of you all and sending you hugs and love in this very difficult time
Fondest love
Sheelin
XXXXX

Starr Sears

October 31, 2014

Lots of love and heartfelt wishes to all the Stanton's. Sears Family

Showing 1 - 42 of 42 results

Make a Donation
in GORDON STANTON's name

Memorial Events
for GORDON STANTON

To offer your sympathy during this difficult time, you can now have memorial trees planted in a National Forest in memory of your loved one.

How to support GORDON's loved ones
Honor a beloved veteran with a special tribute of ‘Taps’ at the National WWI Memorial in Washington, D.C.

The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.

Read more
Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

Read more
The Five Stages of Grief

They're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.

Read more
Ways to honor GORDON STANTON's life and legacy
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

Read more