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Philip Forlenza
December 21, 2025
For many years "Uncle" Allan celebrated Christmas Eve at our home; to everyone´s delight - especially our two children. He remains in our thoughts.
Dennis OKeefe
December 17, 2025
Friends forever. Love you man.
Arnold Mandell
December 16, 2025
I don´t remember if I cried
But my heart kept breaking deep inside, the Day the Music Died.
I´d give the world for one more song.
I pray you´re resting well my brother.
Love
A.
Philip Forlenza
December 16, 2024
I am reminded of my dearest friend several times each day as I look at the picture on my desk of the two of us at Casa de Campo and type my computer password which for 8 years has consisted of our initials.
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Dennis OKeefe
December 15, 2024
You are still missed my friend.
Arnold Mandell
December 14, 2024
Another year. Wish we could have run faster than time allowed. My home surrounded by our memento's keeps us bound.
Juan Fernandez
December 19, 2023
"Allan, you are one of those in my life who always makes me smile when I think of them. You may not be with us physically, but you are certainly here in spirit, always."
Dennis OKeefe
December 18, 2023
Nice to get this e-mail as I see your smiling face again my friend. So many memories. Miss you.
Bernie
December 17, 2023
continue to pushdapa, Alan,
with your unique presence. So many still miss you, think of you with love...
B
Alan Greenwald
December 16, 2023
What can I say. Your friendship and loyalty and immense sense of humor was a blessing.
I too with the rest of our brothers think of you on a regular basis and how you contributed to my life.
RIP
Chucky Mandellino a/k/a Arnie
December 16, 2023
Why does it get more difficult to accept? There was so very much left to share. I miss my dearest pal. Partners in "crime". Later Mate. Love A.

Phil Forlenza
December 15, 2023
Phil Forlenza
December 15, 2023
These pictures speak volumes about our 38 year friendship. Phil Forlenza
Steve Lapidus
December 14, 2023
Great person with a wonderful sense of humor
Stephen Lapidus
April 27, 2023
I remember his unique sense of humor and of course the Doo Wop. I would have liked to know him better than I did. My loss. RIP Alan. Lap
Phil Forlenza
December 20, 2022
A 48 year loving friendship which enriched my life.
Harold and Deborah Flegelman
December 19, 2022
Allan, Now you reside with the angels. Thank you for bringing so much joy to Arnold's heart. Harold and Deborah Flegelman
Arnold Mandell
December 16, 2022
It's been 6 years without my Best Buddy.
How does one wish a peaceful rest to emptiness.
Where there is no longer laughter.
Where there is no longer soul.
Neither here, neither there.
Beyond reach or touch.
Yet I will garnish our memories with blossoms and buds of gold . And nurture my friend's dreams as they would be mine.
And linger at the joy of our time.
Sleep in Peace Pil.
Lois Shanker
December 15, 2022
Miss you and our family get togethers especially at Thanksgiving. You were a wonderful brother and friend. Hope you and Tom are sharing Yankee stories.
Your loving sister,
Lois
Dennis OKeefe
December 15, 2022
Dear Allan, I still think of you often and our days of growing up as teenagers in Mt. Vernon. What a great time. RIP my good friend. Dennis O'Keefe.
Judy and herb freedman
December 14, 2022
Seeing his photo makes me sad.... And then i remember all the joy, laughter, and singing... there are so many memories but the overwhelming memory is joy.
We miss you!!!
Bernie Strauss
December 14, 2022
Memories of a beautiful soul, a smiling, friendly face, Cimmarron leader, pushdapar founder, phi
ep brother .... and always... friend
Bill Jacobs
December 15, 2021
Remembering a great friend and fraternity brother from those years as AU. Miss the singing guys
Dennis Thomas O'Keefe
December 14, 2021
Still miss his smiling face and his great humor.
Marty Adelstein
December 14, 2021
Allan...55 years of friendship with you and Arnie...it doesn't get any better than that!!
Bernie S
December 14, 2021
Memories of this funny multitalented sweet man and friend will never fade.
Peaceful rest, Brother
"Pushdepah"
Arnold
December 14, 2021
The world has its void and Allan is ours. What May have been spoken of this Prince of Men will never complete the tale. Rest well my Best Friend Forever.
Arnold Mandell
December 15, 2020
My Dearest Pal. You are so very missed. Not a day goes by when our moments do not reach my heart and soul. Looking forward to the next performance of the Fuggeddaboudits. We ain't finished yet.
Dennis O’Keefe
December 14, 2020
Think about you often and laugh about so many childhood memories. We lived in a wonderful time.
Juan Fernandez
December 19, 2019
Forever missed and in my heart. I'll alway remember the laughter....
Dennis OKeefe
December 18, 2019
I still think about you alot Allan. I guess good times and good friends are always remembered
Arnold Mandell
December 17, 2019
Each and every day I miss my right hand.
As Pilson would then say...your lucky you're a lefty.
Time has not healed this loss nor filled its fathomless void.
Neil Arena
December 16, 2019
Allan and I remained close friends well beyond high school .. a true testimony of a true friendship! He is sorely missed and never will be forgotten.
Candy Edelbaum
August 28, 2018
Peace my friend.
juan fernandez
May 19, 2017
So very sad to hear of Allan's passing. The memories of my times with him will forever be in my heart. Arnold said it best, Allan was indeed a Man for All Ages. My deepest sympathies to Allan's family and friends for their loss.
carol papula
January 8, 2017
no comment, speechless
Neil Arena
December 29, 2016
As I write a tearful goodbye, I am reminded of my first meeting with Allen as we stood side by side in a 9th grade chorus group .... we were laughing so hard that we were both told to leave... the love of music and the 50's created a life long friendship filled with fun, family & friends ... I will cherish my fond memories of our accopella duets together forever.... until we meet again to be called upon to perform an encore performance , heaven is in for a real treat... my deepest condolences to the Pilson family sending you all strength and prayer
Neil Arena
Sheila Weinstein
December 27, 2016
I am stunned at Allan' passing. I regarded him as friend as well as a business client. His humor and intelligence will be sorely missed
Richard Barnett
December 27, 2016
Like Dennis I also grew up with Allan going to the same schools and playing football together. I remember him as very spontaneous and funny. He came to one of our annual reunion luncheons two years ago and it was great to see and talk to him again. He was truly one of a kind and will be missed by all. My condolences to his family and may he rest in peace.
Dennis O'Keefe
December 25, 2016
I grew up with Allan after he moved to Mt. Vernon. We attended Traphagen School together and AB Davis. We played many hours of basketball together on the playground courts of Traphagen and in the Saturday morning recreation leagues. I went to his Bamitzvah as a teenager. A big deal for an Irish Catholic kid. I last saw Allan at our 50th AB Davis reunion in 2009 as we shared dinner together. After that we chatted on the phone many times and always laughed so much as he was truly a funny person. He to me about his battle with cancer and we reminisced about sleeping in a tent in my backyard once again as teenagers. I saved an e-mail he sent me where he sang with his buddy at the senior homes. I will always treasure that as I have a piece of him to keep. My condolences to the Pilson family. May he Rest In Peace. Dennis O'Keefe
December 25, 2016
I'll miss you Allan
Dick (shtoon) Harte
Karl Ellison
December 24, 2016
My sincere and deepest sympathies to the Pilson Family for their loss.
arnold mandell
December 20, 2016
Farewell to this Man for All Ages. We will never see his like again.
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