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Paul's first-year law school photo (1979)
Ray Woodcock
December 13, 2017
I knew Paul as an urbane, witty individual, and as a kind of person unique among his law school classmates. I am glad to see that he did well for himself, in life and family.
Richard Pien
November 26, 2017
May GOD Bless Paul now and forever more.
RLP
Sherri and Bill Gaillard
July 17, 2017
Paul was an old friend of my husband Bill and later a godfather to our son Jonathan. He was an amazing person who could pick up a conversation after a year's lapse exactly where we had left off. He was an amazing scholar, lawyer, father, husband and for our family a true friend. He will be missed
Benton Borum
June 21, 2017
Paul was one of the most intelligent, interesting and compassionate people I have ever known. He was an "expert" sailor, capable of navigating his Aquila through fog with nothing more than a compass, a watch and a chart that included depth soundings. Paul was also an expert in American Civil War History, a subject that I have studied for decades. However, any discussion with Paul concerning the Civil War equated to a learning experience for me. This quality of man is genuinely rare and will be missed by many!
June 17, 2017
The Columbia Law School Class of 1982 celebrated its 35th Reunion this evening. It just wasn't the same without Paul. Condolences to his family.
Wayne A. Ybarra, CLS Class of 1982
Jim Pinkerton
June 16, 2017
Paul was a wonderful fellow: Erudite, witty, droll--and more.
He was a keen political observer, possessed of great insight into both the current scene and the overall human condition.
He leaves behind a wonderful family.
He will be greatly missed.
John Gorman
June 14, 2017
I worked with Paul on litigation in Connecticut some years ago. His integrity, intelligence and humanity were at a level beyond the norm. His sudden death comes with a strong sense of loss.
June 10, 2017
Sorry for the loss of your dear love one. Please take comfort in the fact that God will make you firm and He will make you strong. He will firmly ground you at this time of sorrow.
1Peter 5:10
Jamie Malanowski
June 9, 2017
I had the privilege of meeting Paul when I spoke at several meetings of the Civil War Forum. He exuded decency, generosity of spirit, enthusiasm. I'm going to miss him. Condolences to his family and friends.
Linda Brennan
June 9, 2017
I'm at a loss for words and beyond saddened. I'll forever remember his last words to me, "Don't be afraid to take risks."
A tragic loss for all, especially his beautiful family. Cathy, Mary Catherine, Paul...you're in my thoughts and prayers.
Susan Vigilante
June 9, 2017
What a loss for a beautiful family. All of you are in our prayers.
Kristen Frederickson
June 8, 2017
I am beyond words at this news. Paul was an unfailingly patient teacher to me at Brewster and at Kent, and in more recent years a wonderful correspondent to me here in London, always reacting with great enthusiasm and support to my news of ringing at Foster Lane. He then organised the visit of young Andreas to our practice, and further, a trip headed by Matthew last autumn to St Giles in the Field. Getting an email from him was always like seeing the sun come out.
I will miss him more than I can say, and I can only imagine how those of you who knew him better must feel. Please know, Catherine and your beautiful children, how deeply Paul will be missed.
Tim Barnes
June 8, 2017
Deepest condolences to the Windels family from all the change ringers at Trinity Church, New York. Paul was a longstanding and dedicated member of the Trinity change ringing band, and we will all miss him greatly.
Jackie Eberstein
June 8, 2017
So sorry we can't be there to pay our respects. You and your family are in our thoughts.
Jackie and Conrad Eberstein
Jenny Hinsman
June 7, 2017
Paul was the kindest, friendliest, and most intelligent man. A person with a big heart and a strong mind. He will be missed by his fellow bell ringers, family, friends, and co-workers. Rest in Peace, Paul.
Windels Marx Lane & Mittendorf
June 7, 2017
We are sorry for your loss and offer our deepest condolences.
Windels Marx Lane & Mittendorf, LLP
Brian Jordan
June 6, 2017
I had the great privilege of meeting Paul when I addressed the Civil War Forum of Metropolitan New York in 2014 and 2015. What a kind, gentle, learned soul. I am so terribly sorry to learn of his passing. He was one of those rare folks who left an indelible impression after just one or two meetings. May he rest in peace. Thank you, my friend. Until we meet again.
Ann Pagano
June 6, 2017
We are so sorry for your loss. Please accept our prayers and condolences. John Pagano and family.
Polly Windels
June 6, 2017
Even as a small child Paul was a sponge for knowledge and willing to share it with anyone. But seeing him prepare authentic food for his adoring children on Chinese New Years was to see pure joy. Cathy, Mary Catherine and Paul Jr: never was a man more devoted to his family and sharing the history of the world with them. I am so sorry for your sudden loss.
Richard Windels
June 6, 2017
Paul and I had a great lunch two weeks ago and I scant believe he has passed. He was a loving father, a great intellect and a wonderful cousin. He left us too soon and he is already mised.
Sarah Mulqueen
June 6, 2017
Paul III, a man whose scholarship was exceeded only by his gentle heart; A ringer, an intellect, a man of honor, and a beloved family man- growing up with you was a privilege; remembering you, always with a grateful smile.
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