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Frank Lilley Obituary
Ocala - It is with deep sadness that we announce the passing of Deacon Frank Lilley. It is with a great sense of pride that he fought a good fight and we are comforted with joy knowing that he is now with the Lord. Having moved from New York City to Ocala over nineteen (19) years ago, he entrenched himself in the church and community affairs that affected the lives of everyone he encountered. Preparing his lessons and teaching his Sunday School class gave him immeasurable joy and spiritual growth. Additionally, his participation in the Deacons' Ministry allowed him the opportunity to stand up for Christ. He served as chairperson of his church's recent Pastor's Selection Committee. That service was a spiritual challenge and an avenue for him to give leadership that enhanced his joy of serving. Chairing the Benevolent committee was a source of joy from his heart. His community involvement included serving as Treasurer of the Marion County Branch of the NAACP for over fifteen (15) years which gave him the opportunity to stand up and state with conviction that all men should be treated equally and with dignity. He was the loving pillar of his family. He was the root from which all family activity blossomed. He was always gracious and kind. His Christian beliefs and Christ-like practices endeared him to everyone he met. Frank Lilley leaves to mourn his passing a devoted and loving wife, Lois, two sons, Harold and Michael of New York; four sisters, Betty ("Doc"), Christine, Barbara and Carolyn of Jackson, Mississippi, granddaughter Kyowna of Ocala, granddaughter Raashida and grandson Mykal of Dallas, Texas, granddaughter Shay-El of New York; five great grand children, loving nieces, nephews and cousins, other family members and a host of loving friends. A celebration of his life begins with a wake on Friday, June 10, 2011 from 5 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. at Greater Hopewell Missionary Baptist Church 515 NW 6th Terrace, Ocala, FL; The celebration of his life continues on Saturday, June 11, 2011, at 11 a.m. at Greater Hopewell Missionary Baptist Church.
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Memories and Condolences
for Frank Lilley
Jim Deaver
August 14, 2011
I am very sorry to learn of Frank's passing. He was a fine man and good neighbor, a first rate individual
Jim Deaver, Ocala
Nathaniel & Tanya Hart
June 24, 2011
Mrs. Lilley,
May the God of all comfort, comfort you at this time. You are in our prayers.
Hold on! God has not forgotten you.
Harold and Jacklyn Drummer
June 12, 2011
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Deacon Lilley will be missed.
Clarence Woods
June 11, 2011
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
AVALICIA DILLON
June 11, 2011
LOVE + KINDNES,STRONG BELIEFS ARE THE THINGS I'LL HAVE FROM "POPPI". HIS SMILE ALWAYS GREETED US, NEVER IN A BAD MOOD, ALWAYS HAVING SOMETHING POSITIVE TO SAY. MEN SHOULD STRIVE TO LIVE LIKE "POPPI" AND TREAT THEIR LOVED ONES LIKE HE DID. TO MOMMA LOIS-HE LOVED U WITH ALL HIS HEART AND PRAYED FOR GOD TO SEE YOU THROUGH THIS MOMENT. KYOWNA AND DAYVON,I LOVE YOU. I PRAY THAT HE PASSES ALL HIS KNOWLEDGE AND STRENGTH ON TO YOU GUYS. REMEMBER WHAT HE WANTED FOR ALL OF YOU AND CONTINUE ON THE BEAUTIFUL PATH THAT HE HAS SET. LENNOX+AVA DILLON ODYSSEY+SYNCERE BROWN
James, Lorene, Tan, Shanta, Cj
June 10, 2011
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.
June 10, 2011
Cousin Lois,
I am so disappointed that I won't be able to make it to Cousin Franks celebration of life. I have faithfully prayed for both of you since the last time I spoke with you last month, and I will continue to do so. I was so blessed to meet you all for the first time when my mom brought me to your beautiful home about 8 years ago. I thought to myself, "Now these are cousins I would love to hang out with everyday." You all were so cute and fun together! I could tell right away that you took your vows seriously and you were truly committed to one another, and loved each other so much - even after almost 50 years! You genuinely enjoyed each others company and were truly a match made in Heaven. Even in the short period of time that I knew you all, Cousin Frank left a lasting impression on my life. You will have so MANY great memories! Cousin Lois, I want you to know I am here for you and lifting your name to God everyday! I've been praying scriptures of joy and peace over you and your families life. These next few days, weeks and months may be challenging, but remember, God promised He would NEVER leave you or forsake you. He's got you covered and He is a VERY present help in the time of trouble. Be strong in the Lord and the power of His might. I love you so much and look forward to seeing you in August when I come to see Mommy for her birthday.
With Much Love & Prayers
Always In His Service,
Your Favorite Cousin (:)
Carmen (Nippy) Byars
Louisville, KY
Vivian Lee
June 10, 2011
Deacon Lilley blessed the Lee Family in numerous ways through his generosity and love. His presence always brightened the corner where he was. Our love and prayers go out to the family during this time of bereavement.
Vivian D. Lee & family
Peggie Cooke
June 9, 2011
Dear Lois & Kyona,
Please accept my deepest sympathy for the passing of your husband, Frank. He was such a warm and kind-hearted man. May his memories bring a smile to your face and comfort to your heart.
Please know that you are in my heart and prayers. Know that God will continue to bless you and your family; Just rely on Him and He will see you through.
Love always,
MINISTER HERBERT LOFTON, JR
June 9, 2011
To Sis. Lilley, Kyowna, and the Lilley Family,
Words cannot express my saddness at the passing of Deacon Lilley. However there is a joy in my heart to know that although he is absent from this body, He is present with the Lord. Deacon Lilley was a soft spoken, kind-hearted man of God who shared his love of God with everyone he crossed paths with. I especially am grateful for his life and his legacy because it was Deacon Lilley who was very instrumental in steering me back on the right path many years ago when I had troubles come into my life.
Although he will be missed, know that Deacon Lilley has received his reward, and heard the words of our Lord that one day we all long to hear, " Well Done, Thou Good and Faithful Servant. "
May God Bless You And Keep You Is My Prayer.
Tasha,Serg,Bubba,Av,Debra,KiKi,Breau Gunsby
June 9, 2011
Words seem inadequate to express the sadness we feel about Mr Frank's death. We are here to support you in your grieving process. With sincere sympathy, Peace, Prayers, Blessings....The Gunsby Family
Geneatha T Johnson
June 9, 2011
Kyowna, my thoughts and prayerrs are with you and your family in your time of bereavement. May God forever keep you in his care. Keep looking up to the hills from whence cometh all our help and strength. May your memories bring you comfort.
Mrs. J.
Marylyn D Adams
June 8, 2011
Dear Lois....You and Frank have always been a source of pleasure and admiration in every way when I have been able to be with you in any activity, church and AAUW, socially or otherwise. You know we shared a joke about my loving Frank, and seriously I loved you both from the onset of our friendship. Perhaps these words seem trite and inappropriate at this time, but sincerely said: You both have been a Christian inspiration and a happy reminder that a smile is an act of kindness to anyone. God bless you as you continue without that wonderful sidekick and partner who kept those smiles on many faces around Ocala. I know he was a well-spoken man of God, and you, lovely lady, are a woman of God. I believe you were yoked together for a purpose. Now please continue all that you and he started!!!! Fondly, Marylyn
Gloria Johnson
June 8, 2011
Mrs.Lilley and family, Mr.Lilley was a great man. Very loving, supportive ,and kind. He was a motivator as well. I remember walking one morning, my hands were freezing from the cold, so I placed them in my pocket. He said "mam you will never burn off calories like that you have to move those arms. Swing! Swing! Swing! " I responeded my hands are cold. He said ummm. Didn't you know it was cold before you left home? Lol. Yes Sir I did, but I did not have any gloves. Thats no excuse next time wear some socks. He smiled and waved. The next morning we both had socks on our hands. lol.One thing he said that stood out to me was "A GOOD SOLDIER ALWAYS COME PREPARED" .
God Bless
Gloria Johnson
Vickye
June 8, 2011
Deacon Lilley is the kind of person who always gives you a feeling of 'being glad to see him.' His jovial, fun-loving, animated character was always the same. We've missed him at Gtr. Hopewell; the walls, the activities, the 'atmosphere' of Gtr. Hopewell won't be the same because he's not there to greet us any longer.... But, I know that what our FATHER has decided - and with time - all is ok. Many continued blessings to Mrs. Lilley and Deacon Lilley's family.
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