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JAMES MURRAY Obituary

March 16, 1943 - May 6, 2013 OKLAHOMA CITY James "Jim" Thomas Murray Jr., father, machinist, engineer, designer and lover of trains, died Monday, May 6, 2013, with his wife of 47 years and family at his side in Oklahoma City. Born March 16, 1943 in Boston, Massachusetts, Jim was the only child of Ruth Margaret Murray and James Thomas Murray, Sr. At the age of three the family moved to Clayton, N.M. where he spent his childhood. Jim and his father returned to Boston in 1957 upon his mother's death. Jim attended Boston Technological High School, and later graduated with an Associate's degree from OSU-OKC. Jim began work with Honeywell as a machinist, and in 1971 was transferred to Oklahoma City, which would become his beloved hometown. In 1976 Jim realized his dream of becoming self-employed when he started Murray Heating and Air Conditioning which he operated until 1991. Jim got into the large scale model train business in 1979 starting Cannonball Enterprises with partners. In 1997 Jim founded MDM Locomotive Works, building 1/8th Scale Diesel Locomotive Models. Jim was an elector for Eugene McCarthy for President in 1976, and was an active member of the Community of John XXIII for many years. The many organizations that Jim was a member of included the Refrigeration Service Engineers Society, Locomotive Operators of Central Oklahoma, Comanche and Indian Gap Railway, Los Angeles Live Steamers, and most importantly to Jim, the Oklahoma Railway Museum. Typical of the resourcefulness of his life if Jim didn't have the right tool to fix it, he could make the tool to fix it. He is survived by his wife Anne Marie (Donovan) Murray, beloved twin daughters Ruth Leitner and husband Keith Leitner of Louisville KY, Anne Murray Chilton and husband Jason Chilton of Midwest City, and son Shaun Murray and wife Kristin Balaban of Oklahoma City. We wish to include Jane Silovsky and husband Steve Beckett, children Sophia and Clarice, Joe Silovsky and wife Catherine McRae and daughter Tallulah in the long list of friends that had become Jim's extended family. Memorial service will be held Tuesday May 14th at 11 am at the Oklahoma Railway Museum 3400 NE Grand Blvd. Overalls optional. In lieu of flowers, expressions of support can be donated to the Oklahoma Railway Museum in Jim's name: 405-424-8222 or online at www.oklahomarailwaymuseum.org www.oklahomarailwaymuseum.org

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Published by Oklahoman from May 10 to May 12, 2013.

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Robert Nantel

September 30, 2013

I am sorry for your loss. I talked to Jim many times.He was very helpful and a gentleman.

May 14, 2013

Jim,
Tanner and I will miss you....you have left this world to soon. Thank you for helping us with the many machining projects over the past several years. Our condolences to Ann and the family...
Mike Morgan
OKC, OK.

Lori Errico

May 14, 2013

I am so sorry to hear about your DAD. I am thinking of you all and sending love and hugs.

Mike Whitehouse

May 13, 2013

I remember as a kid I thought trains were really neat, then I met Jim Murray and found out how much more there was than I had ever imagined. Jim was a walking encyclopedia of trains and thrilled to share that information with you along with his genuine love and friendship. He was a visionary who made his visions become a reality.

He will be missed by many, but will most certainly also be fondly remembered by all who knew him. My heart goes out to his family and friends during their time of loss.

May 13, 2013

Our sympathy goes out to Jim's family and friends at this difficult time - He will be missed.

Dallas & Priscilla Giddens

William Hays

May 13, 2013

Sorry to hear of your loss. I've known Jim for many years.

Leo Meyer

May 11, 2013

The world will so miss Jim as a awesome train engineer and awesome technology engineer. His skills and passion touched so many by enabling their own passions to fulfill. Loved by many, respected by all he knew, I am so sorry for this loss. Betting there is railroad in Heaven, if not, Jim will build it!

Nancy & Bruce Crater

May 10, 2013

My love and sympathies to all. Wish I could be there for you, Ruthie and Annie.

May 10, 2013

Ruth,
We were so sorry to hear about your Father's death. We are thinking of you and your family during this difficult time. Paula & Gary

Richard Robinson

May 10, 2013

My kids called Jim 'grandpa'. He will be sorely missed. I'm sad that I didn't get to say goodbye.

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